Disclaimer: As you can guess not every will be like this...so calm down people :-)
#1: She “Tells” You She is Single
Girls know that guys can be hesitant and sheepish around girls they like — particularly if they are attractive. So if a girl is interested in you, she will often find a way to tell you that she is single.
It will rarely be any sort of direct communication, but she will drop multiple hints. And because girls know that guys are terrible at picking up subtlety, she will make sure to pepper them in.
She could:
make a comment about how she just broke up with her boyfriend
complain about how it is so hard to meet a “good guy” on Tinder/online/at the bar/at work/in life
listen to a song about being single (here’s to you Beyoncé) and point to herself and sing along energetically (this is not a joke)
talk about a character in a book or movie who is searching for love and then relate that character to herself
There are many ways that she could communicate her availability. Just keep in mind that when girls are around guys, they do not say random things for no reason – especially when it comes to romantic topics. So be on the lookout for these subtle hints.
If a point that she is making seems somewhat out of place, then make note of it. Chances are she wants you to pay attention.
#2: She Asks About Your Love Life (Subtly)
In terms of women, you might be wondering, “What if she doesn’t talk about her love life? Is she interested in me if she asks about mine?”
In all honesty, if a girl likes you, she’s probably already asked a mutual friend about your status and ascertained how single you may or may not be.
But in case she hasn’t or you two have just met, then her inquiries about your love life are definitely a clear sign that she is interested.
#3: She Finds a Way to Come to Your Place without an Official Invite
Many guys don’t seem to realize that, if a girl likes you, she will find a way to be around you. Girls are masters of reconnaissance and covert operations. They will find some ostensibly “good” reason to come over to your house.
Maybe they need some help with a homework assignment or work project. Maybe they want to play a board game with you. Maybe you like the same show and they need someone to watch it with. Maybe they want to borrow a piece of guy clothing from you (this is a big sign that she likes you).
Whatever the case may be, women will always find a way to be around you if they like you. But more often than not, they will usually do so through a mutual friend. It is very innocuous if they come to a party or event of yours as a guest of someone else (usually a female friend of yours). You cannot really say that they were not invited. And if the girl who is interested in you is attractive, then you probably will not find much reason to complain anyway.
#4: She Partners Up with You in a Game or Group
The whole point of attraction is to create a strong pair dynamic. And if a girl is interested in you, then she will try to create such a dynamic. She will try to be your partner in a game, or if you’re out to the movies, etc., with a big group of friends and people are splitting up, she will try to make sure she is partnered up with you.
But keep in mind this does not have to be a literal pairing. It’s also a strong sign of interest if she simply talks about the two of you as a pair. If you guys start getting into a ‘partners in crime’ dynamic, especially at her creation, then she is definitely interested.
Why is this so? Because all women want adventure. So if she likes you, she wants to be able to see you as a person who she can go on amazing adventures with.
#5: She Wants to be Alone with You
We all know that one of the first rules of dealing with girls is moving them. If a girl will move with you, if she will give you that compliance, then she is interested – particularly if it’s somewhere private. Girls aren’t stupid. If you ask them to go outside with you, or into a bedroom with you, or even into a dark corner, they know that you want to get more emotionally and/or physically intimate. And if they are at all interested, then they will acquiesce.
If they aren’t, then they’ll refuse, usually by making some hackneyed excuse like “needing to find her friend”. They always need to find the friend or go to the bathroom when they’re not interested. And yet, they always assuage your concerns with their promise to return. A promise that, as we all know, is never fulfilled.
#6: She Wants to Get a Ride with You
Whenever I go to or from an outing with a girl with whom there is potential mutual romantic interest, I always offer for her to ride there with me if I am driving or taking a cab/über. This seems like a very simple tactic, but it is a good one to determine if she interested.
Again, if she is interested in you, then she will find any excuse possible to be isolated with you. I find the ride to be an especially interesting one because it is so very innocuous while also requiring a good deal of trust. If she does not know you especially well, she is putting her safety and journey into your hands and likely separating herself from her friends.
#7: Her Friends Drop Hints
I was talking to a female friend of mine recently, and she was talking about a new guy that she was interested in. And the one thing that I remember asking was whether or not she was sure if the feelings were mutual. And I distinctly remember her response being: “Of course! My friends made so many comments about how cute we were together and about how we had good chemistry!”, as if it were incontrovertible confirmation of his potential feelings for her.
Men are not the only ones who know about framing. We may know what the practice is called, but women are the certified experts. So if you find a girl’s friends trying to frame you as a good couple or romantic pairing, then it is usually a sign that she is at least interested in you.
And the funny thing about this kind of framing is that even if she was not necessarily thinking of you in that way, her friend framing the two of you as a pair can put you into that potential lover category in her mind. So you definitely want to pay close attention when a girl’s friends start talking about how good the two of you are together.
#8: She Plays with Her Hair (Some may do it as a nervous habit)
This is a universal sign of interest. You should never wonder ‘is she interested?’ if a girl is playing with her hair. I would say through personal experience and first-hand observation, that 96% girls (YES I PULLED THAT NUMBER OUT OF MY BUTT) unconsciously play with their hair whenever they are around a guy they are attracted to. They just can’t help it. They just do.
So if that is happening right before your eyes, then you better know what the deal is.
But with all of this being said, THERE IS REALLY ONLY ONE SUREFIRE WAY OF DISCOVERING IF A GIRL IS INTERESTED….
Make a Move and Find Out
Dont be Jimmy Fallon :D
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=qtsNbxgPngA#t=286
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