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Is It Possible To Change Who You Are To Get More Girls?
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This was a question I asked myself last year. Not that I’ve never had a girlfriend but I do tend to get the girls that I “kind of” like, rather than the ones I find gorgeous, intelligent, and super fun to be with. I always manage to find people who are 1 or 2 out of three. For this reason I decided I need to sort this out.Now the article title was difficult to choose, because I wanted it to grab...
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Girls Do Like Nice Guys, Just Not All of Them
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As a note, after writing my article, I came across a similar one called “Nice Guys Finish Last = Fallacy, Passive & Deceptive Guys Finish Last” by the user NMMan--you might consider this the female perspective on the matter.The subject comes up a lot in questions here. Girls always say that they do like nice guys, but you still get guys saying that the girls are lying, or that guys are better off...
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What Is With The Questions Asked On GirlsAskGuys?
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So I've been on this site a year or less than that, I don't bother to remember. I've answered alot of questions on here and one thing always remains the same. The site gets the same questions over and over again, even though the stories and situations are different. But frankly, the types of questions on here I'm finding are getting more and more idiotic as time goes on.When did we as a society...
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Feet For The Fetishist: Notes For Girls On An Odd Desire
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So, you're dating a guy who told you he likes feet. Or, perhaps you're with a guy you suspect likes feet. (Constant massages, staring at girls' feet and dropping feet into conversation are all giveaways.) Or maybe you're just on to the fact that a huge subset of the male population are foot-fetishists, and you want to turn a few heads. Well, here are a few tips on how to stoke, use and satisfy an...
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True Equality and Gender Differences Don't Mesh
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There is a certain segment of female society who would have us believes that there are no real differences in how women relate, grow, learn or develop. While I will agree that societal conditioning plays a part in how women and men deal with one another, I still say a girl would play with a doll even if no one told her to because we are hard wired to like small, cute things that are a...
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Nice Guys Finish Last = Fallacy, Passive & Deceptive Guys Finish Last
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After reading a lot of thoughts on the seemingly age-old dating credo "nice guys finish last", I felt I had to throw my $0.02 into the pot and chime in on this issue. According to the adage, guys who are "nice" in any endeavor of life (but especially dating) will end up lonely and unfulfilled, unhappy, etc. And to that, I say "BS!" It's false, a fallacy! Echoing my sentiments from a previous...
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Weakness Is A Sin
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Inevitably in life, we become associated with the wrong people. Through choice or not, there are some people who really appear to only wreak havoc in the lives of others. Plain evil though, we can all understand. But what of those people who are not evil to the core, but for some reason their actions match the same pattern, and on top of this, they feel no guilt and seem to have twisted things to...
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Confidence: Life's Game-Changer
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Before I begin, I just wanted to say that I was influenced to write this piece by reading another one on this site titled "You Can't Fake Confidence", written by Cool-Relax. Thanks for the inspiration!First, a little background. I just turned 25 years old this week, and am looking forward to having a great year, personally and professionally. I have several goals in both of those life areas that I...
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You Can't Fake Confidence
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I've heard that a lot, especially on this site. Whenever someone asks how to be less insecure, more outgoing, how to get someone to notice them, they're told to be more confident. How do they go about doing that? Fake it 'til you make it, sweetie!It's a concept that I don't buy into.For one thing, "fake it 'til you make it" is a phrase I learned in marketing classes in high school. You may be...
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The Will to do What Others Won't
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"Having the will power to do what other people won't do" Take a second to let that phrase sink in. . . Give it a second. . .Has it sunk in yet. . . 'heard it before, have you? It's one of those phrases that I've always remembered since hearing it- over the course of some time ago, 'ever since seeing the movie 'The Usual Suspects' for the first time back in the mid-nineties. But I've often found...
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The Way of the Gentleman
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What's the first thing you think of when you hear the word, "gentleman"? You Prince Charming. The suave host at the formal party. The chivalrous, content man who knows how to present himself. We think of the one and only, James Bond. Who really wants to be a gentleman these days?To be honest, a gentleman is probably the most conservative, reputation building person that you can be. Not to mention,...
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What Killed Chivalry?
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Well, to be honest, that was quite the misleading title. Chivalry isn't dead, but it's sure as hell on life support. Where has this noble act of common courtesy gone? Who is killing chivalry? But, more importantly, how can we bring it back? Ok people, I want to get this across to everyone. CHIVALRY IS NOT SOMETHING GUYS DO ONLY TO GIRLS. Chivalry is a polite gesture or action to an individual...
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The Male Brain, Explained
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This is from Happen Magazine! My one girl friend showed me the article that she found online, and I thought it would be perfect to share here! I do NOT take any credit for this; it was written by Laura Schaefer, and as I mentioned, published in Happen. She's the expert, not me!I think it's great - it even gives a small explanation as to why men are more sexual than us women! I hope that if you do...
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What Happens In the Heat of the Moment?
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Adrenaline and Endorphins - In the heat of the momentWith help from many articles about health related issues, I'd like to share what I found - from Adrenaline to Endorphins. We're starting with Endocrine system - A system of chemical communications amongst cells. The classical vertebrate endocrine system consists of a group of discrete glands that secrete unique products (hormones) into the...
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Stop Trying to Change Your Man
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And men, stop trying to change women too...Gothca! I bet everyone thought this would be another diatribe about how ladies have lost touch with what men need in a modern society.Nah.Both sexes are guilty of this, only men go about it differently.For instance, every time a guys gets mad or bitter because a girl wants a relationship, or won't give him sex when he wants it (especially if he...
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Chivalry - Endangered or Extinct?
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Chivalry has two roads that it's facing: Extinction or Endangered, but if chivalry is only an abstract idea and response why is it then so hard to come by? And what makes something chivalrous? Heroism, Romanticism, Humility or Being Humble, Forgiveness, History, or Time? And we learn about chivalry at a young age with fairy-tales, fables, myths, legends, folk-lore, books and television. Where...
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Play To Your Strengths
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Browsing over the questions, I see a repeated variation on the following: "What do I have to do so that the opposite gender will find me attractive?" No one can answer this question for you. Honestly, not even you can really answer this question. Plenty of books out there will tell you differently. They'll tell you to dress a certain way, act a certain way, live a certain way. And yes: some...
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Why I Cut
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I’ve never been good at being “emotional.” In fact, for most of my life I’ve tried to stay away from any sort of drama associated with feelings or confrontations with others. Not to say that I’m not assertive, it’s just that I never thought it was important to react to everything with what I perceived as wasted passion. I’d say what I thought about a situation and that would be that. There was no...
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An Analysis of Geeks and Nerds
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It seems that Americans have a tendency to divide themselves into categories. There exist enough stereotypes to allow all the athletic, testosterone-laden men and women to find the “Jocks” category, and for all of the moody, black-garbed people to congregate into the “Scary Goths” category. Eventually, when the Americans will have divided themselves into little groups, all that will remain to be...
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Revenge Against Opposite Sex : A Losers Game
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Common scenario one: A guy falls in love with a beautiful but cold-hearted woman who uses his good nature against him. After attempting to buy her affections and lavishing his attention on her so she could see why she should love him, in the end, she ends up using him and laughing about it. Dude eventually wises up, but instead of learning from his mistakes, he becomes bitter and decided to make...
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What If I Just Want To Be Me?
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I am fat. How many of you can straight out say that? No, not chunky, chubby, big-boned, or whatever-- I am able to come out and admit that I am fat. I know that doing something like that is difficult because for all my fats girls and guys out there, from childhood we were taught by the media and fellow people to hate our bodies and to get skinny and be like the girls/boys in the magazines if we...
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Women Ask Where The Nice Guys Are
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This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and...
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Why We Love Social Networking Sites
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Why We Love Social Networking Sites“That’s going on facebook!” One of the most common quotes I hear from my friends… after something funny has been said, a picture has been taken, or a new hobby has been thought of. I’ll be the first to admit- we are addicted. I sit down to do homework- but first, I obviously have to check my facebook AND my myspace. Twenty minutes into my homework, I have to...
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The Secret to Reading a Woman's Body Language
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Body Language Secret #1There is an obvious height disadvantage (or advantage depending on your point of view) that women have. Women, on average, are about 5.5 inches shorter than men. These differences over the years have caused several interesting opportunities for a body language expert to take advantage of.If you want a woman to be comfortable around you...for her to like you (and this is true...
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Men, Stop Pretending To Want Friendship If You Want More!
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I encountered an article on good old GirlsAskGuys that frankly pissed me off a bit, and felt I had to counter respond.The article seemed to indicate that if a guy is friends with a girl then she should automatically want to be with him, and if she doesn't, she is a stupid bitch who only wants jerks and should never, ever have a nice guy in her life.To me, this juvenile and infantile response to...
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Taking A Break; A Very Thin Line To Tread
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Now I'm sure you all or at least most of you have at one point or another heard or said those fateful words "lets take a break" while you were in a exclusive relationship with someone. For whatever reason you have decided to make your relationship nonexclusive, just be friends for a bit and try it out. There can be pros and cons to this, but it is a very precarious position to be in nonetheless....
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Not wanting to say,I told you so
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Did you ever know someone that was backstabbing and fake? Yet when you try to warn people about you, they see the fake performance as real and get mad at you for it? If so, then you will totally see where I'm coming from here. There's this girl that I used to work with. She is a chameleon, meaning that she doesn't have a personality of her own. She is so desperate for the acceptance of others that...
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Wait, Men Mean What They Say?
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How many of you have ever heard "I just need some space" from your guy. Your head starts turning with the hundreds of possibilities of what he really means. Did he find someone new and he needs space to date her? Did I do something wrong? Am I not pretty enough? You end up checking your phone every five seconds and vowing to drop those extra ten pounds.I am happy to say that I know the answer to...
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Subtext
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I like to tell new guys I work with to imagine all men and women have two separate brains competing for your attention. One mind is logical and the other is emotional. If I had to guess, I'd say on average women have a 35/65 split and men the opposite. The behavior of humans is largely driven by a blend of logic and emotion. Since emotions play more heavily with women you can influence their...
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The Personality Synthesizer
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Have you ever wanted a practical way to apply the thoughts of Psychology to the people around you? Have you ever wanted to be able to manipulate someone, and read their body language easily?What follows is an account of a creation to aid in the understanding of people. Not just the people you know around you Intimately, but also the ones you meet for the first time.One of the most important...
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The Art of Being a Woman
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Being a woman is not an easy task by any means. Not only because every month we have to deal with the grueling pain of our reproductive systems saying, "Hey, I'm alive and kicking!", but we also are constantly striving in this battle for acceptance. We see it all over television, in magazines, and in society. The "ideal" look. How skinny we're "supposed" to be, but how it's disgusting if we get...
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Communication and Understanding: The Breaking-Down and Building-Up of Relationships
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Communication - it is a tool everyone uses in a day to day basis. Now there are different levels of communication - verbal, nonverbal, written, and other forms too, but what I want to focus on is communication, as a way of expression. It seems to fall short in a lot of relationships as I read the questions on the site here. Now I want to look at a few examples of expressing oneself.1: Richard...
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My New Rollerblades
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One day I walked into a sporting goods store. In the store I noticed these brand new rollerblades. I use to have a pair of rollerblades but they got all beat up and broken. I use to have fun on them, but eventually they broke and I stopped skating. These new skates were the coolest things I had ever seen! They were pretty pricey but I decided to buy them.On the way home I was so excited. I...
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How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection
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This is the number one reason why some men get a ton of women and other men get none. Fear of rejection is something that almost every man has to deal with at some point in his life, as it is the most common problem that men face when dealing with women. It's holding a lot of us back... that's why I felt it was necessary to write an article to this subject on this fascinating website.If you are...
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The Biggest Dating Myth Revealed!
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This is the dating world. I'm sure there are plenty of myths out there that are making people confused, frustrated and angry. But this is one, I believe is the juiciest. The biggest one; The one that stuffs the most people over.Do you guys want to know what it is? I'm going to give it to you ok? Here it is ..... The Biggest Dating Myth Revealed - Let's use a quote from a famous movie .... You...
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Tough Love Vs. Compassion
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When giving tough love to a friend or even someone you don't know - I would like to bring up a few points that may seem "considerate" to think about, before advising. Tough Love isn't for everybody. But sometimes it's needed, it's all in the eyes of the beholder, or the person typing away, or talking with the proverbial silver tongue. So what would I like to bring up: well it's compassion, for...
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How To Date An Alpha Female - Winning Her Over
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I recently just read an article on askmen.com which was basically on how to tell if you are dating an Alpha Female and how to counteract her little techniques and win her over. I thought to myself, hmmmm this is very interesting. So I'm taking a couple of the characteristics they described the Alpha Female to have and going to give some of my own suggestions to help the guys out to win over an...
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When Opportunity Knocks!
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"Knock, Knock!" Says a mysterious source. "Who's there?" I reply. "Why, it's Opportunity, of course! Are you ready for the ride of your life?"There are those rare occasions in life when opportunity knocks, and sometimes you answer, while other times you don't know how to respond or "freeze," or maybe the timing isn't there. However, we always want to make the best of an opportunity. You catch...
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What is it about Barbie's world?
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First I'd like to start with some stereotypes of Barbie: Tall, Skinny, Blonde . . . the perfect, independent woman. This is the typical stereotype of the doll, which was created in 1959. Before the doll, there were toys like Yogi Bear, and baby dolls to stimulate the imagination of children in a world that had revolved around hard work and homemaking. The image of the "Perfect, Independent...
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Confidence Central
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As I peruse the questions on GirlsAskGuys, there is a buzzword that keeps appearing in the answers: Confidence. Those attempting to master the world of relating to the opposite sex seem to trip over this stumbling block more than any other. And that gets the snowball rolling as each mistake just makes the person less confident.Whether the question is how to approach someone that he or she is...
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Accepting Rejection with Grace
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So you go out on a date and one person is digging the experience far more than the other. The movie was awkward. The dinner was even more so. At the end of the night, the interested party looks for signs that the other person found them to be the most fascinating thing on the planet, but none are forthcoming.There is no return phone call.With so many reactions to the above scenario, the most...
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The Wingman
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My girlfriend asked me what a "Wingman" was. I explained that a wingman was an Air Force term for a fighter pilot who flew just behind, and to the side of, another fighter pilot. Together the two pilots formed a team, so that the pilot in front could concentrate on shooting down enemy planes while the second pilot scanned the skies for enemies coming in from behind or from either side. My...
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Make-up Makes You Want It
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In nature, male animals are often the ones that have to impress the females. Take peacocks for example. When you think of peacocks, the beautiful array of colorful feathers likely springs to mind. Guess what, that's the male peacock. The female peacock is actually very plain. The males have to look gorgeous in order to impress the females enough to gain a mate. Ducks are the same way. The shiny...
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Girls Take Sooooo Long to Get Ready
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Whether it is a girl's night out or a Friday night date with our hubby, the "getting ready" clock starts ticking the minute we get home from work. Wax, manicure, pedicure, teeth whitening gel stuff, shower, shave, brush, floss, foundation, eye-shadow, eye-liner, mascara, lipstick, blush, dry hair, apply gloss/mousse/hairspray - and poof! Done! Except for...and here's where the time consumption...
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Why Do Girls Want to Get Married?
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Starting at birth, our heads are filled with images of our wedding day. Parents dream of seeing their little girl walking down the aisle in a beautiful wedding gown. Even if we do find the cure for cancer, we better be married when we do it! While I'm sure parents equally dream of their sons eventually getting married, it is a bit less exciting to plan for the day they will finally get to wear...
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How Do I Look?
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"How do I look?" The dreaded question...Most guys probably think that we're just setting you up to fail, no matter what your answer is to that question. While that may be true for some girls, it's not usually the case. But, the thing you have to realize is that girls don't actually want your "honest" opinion when it comes to how we look. Really! No matter how much we say we do, we don't. I know, I...
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Ask For Directions - NEVER!
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Isn't that one of the weirdest things about guys, that being our tendency to never want to ask for help or ask for directions when we're lost? Yes, I admit it, we do get lost at times. So what's the deal there? The short answer is stubborn pride - we just don't want to admit it when we're wrong or have made a mistake. The male brain is chalked full of weird little things like that and you end up...
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homer
(Age:30 to 35)
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