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Guys. Wow, they are so confusing. But, the guys think that they did nothing wrong. They think that us girls speak guy. We don't really speak guy. I know I know, a guy means what he says. Us girls just have millions of questions popping up in our minds after just being greeted by a guy. Guys are a whole other story.
Guys wonder why we find them confusing. They think that we are complicated. Sure, we can be at times but guys do confuse us. But how? Let's see.......
1.) They don't share their feelings with us.
2.) They go after the girls that are already taken.
3.) You try to get in a relationship with them, they just run the other direction.
4.) We are from different planets.
5.) Men are "Visual Creatures" - meaning that they all look for their sugar mama/baby mama/ you get the picture.
6.) All they care about is food, beverages, sports, their hair, muscles, boobs, sex, the car they drive, basically anything but a serious commitment.
7.) Do the weirdest/creepiest things to get our attention instead of just coming up to us and say hi.
8.) They don't reveal any personal info.
9.) Change the subject when we want to talk about relationships.
10.) Send us f***ing mixed signals.
11.) He looks like he likes you but the next day he gets a girlfriend but still ....idk.. but why??? idk
12.) Some men are cheaters, assholes,jerks,etc.
13.) They don't care about our feelings.
14.) They are into you one minute and then forget you the next.
15.) When you get us pissed off, us girls will give you the silent treatment. You might not even notice this because your to busy sitting on your coach watching porn.
16.) They want to keep us guessing?!?!?! WTF!!!!
17.) They tease us to make themselves cool.Really??!
18.) Guys think that we are bunch of air heads when we know how to solve our own problems. We aren't that stupid..actually we aren't stupid at all.
19.) Getting in between two girls who are best friends. Not a smart move.
20.) They are interested but don't take the chance to get us. You just let us slip out of your hands. WHY?!?!?!
If I continue this than I will stay up all night to write this lol :). But, we are from different genders. That's why we confuse each other. It's okay... but us girls know more than you think.
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Girls are so mysterious to us, the mood and period thing. When you are in the mood, when you gals say no, trying to control our sex drive. Then all that time in the bathroom, when you only have to pee. Just do not understand women!
2) Uh, way less then women do in my experience.
3) Only if they don't want a relationship with you. This one confuses some young women, so lets spell it out - men want to have sex with more women then they want to date. So if he's 'running', you're in the 'sex' but not the 'dating and sex' category for him.
4) meaningless
5) ... seems to be two things. Men are visual.
Also the number of times you said "get us" implies that you treat your relationships as games where we win you. You will have trouble finding guys who feel winning you means more than just getting laid. Sorry 4 U
Your age is pretty aparent in your writing.
1) Yes we do. It just takes a long time before we trust someone enough.
2) Lol seriously? If going after someone who is taken is the trade of one gender, it's the female one.
3) Women do that too.
6) Bullsh*t.
9) Because girls talk about permanent commitment after 2 months.
10) You think they're mixed messages because you over-analyze
13) And some girls are lying manipulative bitches. How is this an argument in your article?
15) You're getting mad at us because girls are too stubborn to communicate and wish guys would magically read their minds? Seriously?
17) They tease you because being nice all the time leads to being friendzoned.
18) Far from true. When guys complain about their problems to other guys, we do it because we're looking for a solution and hoping they can help. So guys think that you're looking for advice when you just want to rant.
You have much to learn.
2. Men and women both go for the already taken.
3. Women can be nice and calm one day, and irritated the next. Excuse US men.
4. Actually, we're both from the same planet. Our minds are worlds apart.
5. Its 50/50 for both genders. Girls aren't that much less susceptible to being "visual creatures."
6. There's some truth here, but maybe you girls aren't looking hard enough for the serious type?
2-girls do that more than men.
3. Only if he's not into her.
4. Yeah.
5. Men are visual but don't look for sugar mamas.
6. they like that stuff sure, but will commit if the woman is fun and hot.
7. Yeah men do that. But again, most men are trained not to say hi because they've been treated like sh*t from other women just by saying hi.
I once got in between 2 girls out of a trilogy of friends. One liked me, and I ended up liking the other two at different times while being completely oblivious to the one that liked me. How's that for totally screwing up that rule?
(What a huge ordeal, lol.)
So on that one, I agree guys must be very confusing. The funny thing is- I wasn't intentionally doing any of that.
15) I can understand why there.
16) Girls do the same...play mind games. Stupid.
17) Its called flirting
18) Same goes for guys...we arnt stupid
19) Only a jerk would do that
20) Why? Its easy. Its hard to ask a girl out. YOU do it for once. Its far easier not to do it than be rejected...Its obvious really. You ask Us for once?
2) Girls do the same
3) Again, girls do the same
4) Yeah, that one works both ways...
5) Girls do a lot of judging by looks aswell you know.
6) Hmm...to some extent, true. Not the case 100% though
7) Girls play stupid mind games, so that works both ways.
8) What's bad about that?
9) There are easier things to talk about...
10) Girls do EXACTLY the same.
11) I don't know there.
12) Some girls are bitches.
13) Girls do the same.
not every guy is a self-confident macho player you know
18. I give props to people that can help themselves...
19. Too shy to bust that type of move...
20. It's really a case of shyness. We don't want to look stupid in front of you, so rather than straight up talk to someone that doesn't even know them and look stupid doing it, they don't talk to them at all, and hope they get noticed eventually...it's a lonely world for guys like me. Maybe I should just generalize girls...
10. What I tell you is what I mean...EXACTLY what I mean...
11. I guess I'm more serious than the guy listed
12. I give eveyone their due respect
13. It's the opposite! But we look weak, and become predictable if we show it.
14. I can't get the people I'm interested in out of my head!
15. P*rn is so awkward! I'd like to do something else! If you really wanna punish me, talk to me about the problem!
16. I hate mind games...
2. Haven't done it
3. I wouldn't if I liked the person enough...
4. Maybe... :)
5. I treat all girls the same...
6. I NEED to eat, I don't drink, sports are boring, I don't have much of it because I keep it short and simple, what guy won't look at boobs, cars are too complicated for me, and I'd love some serious comitment at the moment
7. I say hi all the time, but the girl remembers the guy that does cool things more...
8. I'll tell you all about me, if you gave me the time to.
1. If a guy doesn't want a girl, then the girl thinks the guy is 'confusing'. He's not, he just doesn't want you. Simple as that.
2. If a girl doesn't want a guy, then the guy thinks the girl is 'confusing'. She's not, she just doesn't want you. Simple as that.
Now can we please stop having these types of questions/articles? If a girl/guy likes you, HE/SHE WILL MAKE EFFORT TO SHOW YOU. End of story.
"17.) They tease us to make themselves cool.Really?!" Girls do this ALL the time espescially if they are with friends.
"9.) Change the subject when we want to talk about relationships." You do the same when we want to talk about sex.
"5.) Men are "Visual Creatures" - meaning that they all look for their sugar mama/baby mama/ you get the picture." Women are "emotional creatures"...
so on and so on
^^^^^^^^^this happened to me.. :/ ugrh it sucks!
They do exist, they just got crushed under the pre-made image that a lot of people have about how they should be. Thank you society & evolution!
"Where emotions are present, Logic will never succeed"
Men don't share because woman treat us like objects, we are replacable as soon as a hot guy walks into the room. Every 'jerk" you met act that way because they met a woman like yourself and had their heart broken. why care when woman just use you to buy things and move onto a new guy within 30 min of dumping you?
All the points above just put you on 18. I will teach you something today called Newton's Third Law. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Just think about that for a moment and see if you can understand why men are so confusing.
All I could think honestly reading your post was "are you sure you are talking about guys?"
In addition, for the most part, guys say what they mean. Most of us are direct. Most girls aren't. Thus, you're actually more confusing and you're confusing yourselves about guys.
Secondly, to prevent hating I recommend you come up with valid arguments rather than going on a hissyfit about how guys p*ss you off. I'm off to watch p*rn now, have a good day.
Another problem is most girls also have an ideal how a guy should act like. We're all human.
Guys are harder to get in a female's perspective. But girls are harder to get in a male's perspective. So no one wins.
Or maybe I'm the only guy who isn't a complete ass. But if that's the case, why aren't women all flocking to me for being better than every other guy? lol
I think you've had some bad experiences with certain guys and are letting it bias your judgement on everyone else.
Some guys actually think girls are smarter and even the superior gender. (Look at matriarchal societies like Native American and South American Indian tribes.)
And when a girl slips out of our hands, it may be because we were testing her & she didn't commit nor display the interest we wanted so we let her go her own way.
Girls gotta step up, be straight up about what they want, who they want, & intentions they have.
Ur article is good tho, 10&20= wrong
It's obvious that you are bitter about some guy who didn't like you back. He doesn't share his feelings with you because he doesn't like you.
Would you share your feelings with a person you don't like?
If watching Twilight and other romance dramas is the extent of the research that you have done on guys then you're going to have a lot of disappointments.
21) Guys have a fragile ego.. Slightest criticism can totally through them off. That is why most guys can't handle a girl beating them in a game or be smarter than them .
22) Guys say the don't want a needy, clingy woman where in fact that is exactly what they want and not know it.
23) Most guys can be incredibily self centered, cruel, and insensitive toward women.
what a whimp :D
21.) Talk like there rulers of the universe, and When you even so much as mumble a "hi" they yell at you.
EVERY guy is different. It's confusing because you assume all guys are alike because of their gender. I don't think you had a point. You are just venting because you are a girl, and thatg is your escape. When guys get stressed, we go into our 'cave'. Girls chat.
I see a LOT of 'nice' girls online saying there are no 'good guys' and 'nice' guys saying that girls don't like them.
12) and some girls are the same. Your point?
14), 16), 17) Sounds like a lot of girls, except the "into you" is usually for manipulation.
19) This I agree with. This is also not good for a girl to do with guys.
20) Girls/women don't seem to make any kind of effort to know me. Why would I chase after that?
9) If all the girl does is talk about their wonderful relationship, then I try to change the subject; and it's always brought back. I don't always want to hear about every detail and see pictures of every kiss/make out session.
3) I could say the same for most girls.
5) Being a visual creature would mean we'd generally go for just the looks - not a "sugar mama (wealthy older woman)" - I see all kinds of comments about wanting broad shoulders, muscular, tall guys from women. Seems like girls/women are pretty "visual" themselves.
1) When I've shown interest in girls, or asked them out, many have laughed in my face. Most have been really nasty, and then avoided me, to the point of ridiculousness. I can't say "Hello" because they've "run" to the other end of the hall because I asked her out to coffee?
A guy who shares his feeling is considered by most be be a wimp by BOTH genders.
Obviously you don't
To the author- I hope you get some help and your future relationships go better for you.
Anyways, what I wanted to add originally was that YOU'RE getting confused because you're attempting to apply generalized behavior on half of the planet's population. Of course you won't understand the individual that way. Gender does not define your personality. Period.
19. Getting in between two guys who are best friends. Not a smart move.
20. They are interested but don't take the chance to get us. You just let us slip out of your hands. WHY?!?!?!
13. They don't care about us, period.
14. They are into you one minute and then forget you the next.
15. When you get pissed off at us, you girls give us silent treatment. You mistake our not caring with not noticing.
16. They want to keep us guessing!?!?! WTF!
17. They get bored and leave us if we don't act cool. Really?!
18. Girls think that we don't know how to think without our d***s. Yes we do, we're quite good at it.
7. Do the weirdest/creepiest things to get us to ask them out, instead of making the first move.
8. They reveal way too much personal info.
9. Change the subject to relationships when we want to talk about something else.
10. Send us f***ing mixed signals.
11. She looks like she likes you but the next day she gets a boyfriend but still ...idk.. but why? idk
12. Some women are cheaters, bitches, gold-diggers, etc.
1. They are indirect in speech and action.
2. They go after the guys that are already taken.
3. You try to have some casual sex with them, and they try to turn it into a relationship.
4. We are from different planets.
5. Women are "Financial Creatures" - meaning that all they look for are their sugar daddy/baby daddy/ you get the picture.
6. All they care about is shopping, their hair, dieting, basically anything that isn't interesting to us.
The thing I don't like bout most guys is that when they have a chance to tell you their feelings,they dont...they always wait until it's too late :'( and then you can't do anything bout it because they left the country already... :/ Guys and girls should just tell the other one what they feel the moment they feel a spark...live your life with no regrets!
xoxo <3 peace and love to anyone who reads it xD
And might I ask how you can possibly still like Twilight at 17? Lay off that insipid rot and maybe you'll be less prone to unjustified oversimplification.
Oh, and how
1, 2, 3, 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, and 20 are all strictly about not getting into a committed relationship with you. Gee, I wonder what prompted you to write this article.
um yea whatever. You do recall you recently blocked me, because I would not agree with you stereotyping. or did you 'forget'
This is worse than "miserable" this is "utter fail"
There are men who are nothing what you listed above. But these are the guys you girls label BORING. Admit or not you want a man who is a challenge. That's why the attractive men display the some of the listings you put above.
16) depends what your talking about guessing? getting to guess can be fun if your trying to work out where were going
17) not sure on that but doesn't sound cool to me
18) yup you girls are intelligent no argument there
19) so don't want to be in that situation
20)its down to confidence plus if your in a group its harder for us
2) we don't know they're taken
3)some do some dont
4)technicaly there si only on planet able to sustain life :P
5) not everyone does I try to find the inside girl :)
6)again not every guy is like this
7)not sure on this but I know it takes a lot of confidence to say hi which is why I guess you like it
8)same as 1
9) not every guy
10) never been in that situation
11) we get the same from you
12) not me
13)some and some but I care about them
It's OK to be angry, but please don't hurt all of us good guys out here. :D
I hope you find peace with your anger and pain. And none of us really knows everything, and we're wrong frequently!
I don't care about boobs, sex muscles, cars (hate cars), sports (absolutely hate them), never heard of any guy caring about his hair?, and I don't care much for food or drinks though I do enjoy extremely enjoy a coffee now and then.