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What if Confidence is a Scam?
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Did you know that “darkness” isn ’t real? You see, it’s just a word we’ve made up to describe the absence of light. Here’s the real challenge: what if “confidence” isn’t real either?Let’s say you’re in a room with absolutely no light…. it’s pitch dark. How much light would it take to destroy the perfect dark? Any amount of light would immediately change the entire appearance of a dark room. Even...
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Nice Guys VS Bad Boys – Top 10 Reasons “Being Nice” won’t get you the girl.
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Reason 10:When you’re busy asking her, “Should I pick you up? Where should we go? What should we eat? ” she’s busy thinking, “I don’t care either! Why can’t you just be a man and make a decision for us?”The Lesson: Stop trying to handle her with kitten gloves, stop following her around like a lost puppy dog, and learn to LEAD your dates. Learn to make decisions, learn to surprise her, and finally...
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I Want Him To Myself! How Do I Get Him To Leave Her?
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From my facebook mail folderCarrie: I messaged you before about this guy. And I realize you’re busy, but I really need help understanding this. He’s been dating this girl for almost 6 years. He started cheating on her almost the second he got with her with the same girl for 2 years. Then there were others after that. About 5 months ago he started cheating on her with me. At first I didn’t know if...
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Blind dates vs Online Dating, Which Is Better?
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For those of us from the 'old school', there was the blind date. AS with online dating, usually we didn't know anything but self-serving promotions from the potential date, if that!!!!We went on such dates usually at the urging of a friend, and with few expectations, even though we had a friend's recommendations. But we knew that when it comes to the opposite sex, how much insight does a friend...
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Are You Responsible For Having A Crappy Partner?
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The first time I was exposed to the concept of complete responsibility was through Brian Tracy an amazing business/self improvement speaker. In a nut shell Brian would corner the listener and explain “you are responsible for what you have in life, not your parents, not the government, YOU.” This concept was not that strange since I already believed I was very much in charge of my life. However the...
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Dating The Unconventional Way: A Guide To Online Dating
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So you've decided to try out the wonderful world of online dating, and you don't know quite where to start. Obviously your first step is to pick the dating site you want to use. In larger towns, there are usually free local sites that have a limited number of features. If that's not an option, there are always big sites like match.com or yahoo personals. Be sure to check out all the details before...
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Quick Relationships And Short Breaths
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Her hair flows softly to her neck, it's beautiful brown hue absorbing the sun and radiating it to all those around. A brightly colored shirt screams confidence. Jutting out of her collar comes an inviting neckline. Her eyes beam unapologetically. If Lisa would ever put down the beer bottle, I'd describer her lips. My house party starts jumping, the music shattering sound records and ear...
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Signs Indicating You Are a Jumpoff
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-You show up unannounced one day. If he’s not happy to see you or worse, if he peeks through the window and doesn’t let you in, you’re a jumpoff.-He sends out subliminal messages via his facebook and twitter status. Quoting sweet hip hop lyrics and lines from Love Jones. You question him. He responds with something like: “I’m hurt that you would even question that. If you have to question it, then...
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Lynn Likes Black Guys
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I have a little frustration and anger towards social pressures put on all of us to pick a certain type of guy/girl. We go out with someone that does not fit this ideal and we nervously glance around see if anyone recognizes us! Personally I refuse to go out with the Ken or Barbie of the dating world. I find that they are valued WAY MORE than what they are worth. Barbie is usually a tall blond...
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Kyle Busted Cheating With 3 Girls, What Should The Girls Do?
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All four of them where sitting in the hot tub at John’s house, consoling their frustrations at Kyle with alcohol and anger. John noticed Kyle calling for the 5th time that day and finally picked up the phone. “Who is over there!?, who is with you!?” John sighs a bit “No one, Kyle…” Marie grabs the phone from John. “You fucking asshole!! Fucking all of us all at the same time! Without a fucking...
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Obsession, Your Enemy In The Dating Game
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Here I am sitting in the coffee bean writing on my blog and a petite Japanese girl walks up to me holding a small clipboard. "excuse me, ummm… I am collecting donations for the… blah… blah… Christian blah… would you like to donate?" I immediately broke into Japanese (used to live) and started to ask her about herself. What I found was that she is 23 and the daughter of a Christian missionary. She...
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I'm Addicted To Being Single
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There you have it. I said it. The big secret is out. Hot Alpha Female loves being single. Addicted to it even. More addicted than I am to chocolate. So spread the word. But not too far because eventually I'd like to get into a long term relationship again. Just not yet.So to continue on with my "I love Week" - Today its being in love with "being single".So here is the thing that I discovered a...
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How BAD It Is To Talk BAD About Yourself
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I have a friend of mine that loves to disclose to guys her physical issues.Yeah, I have strange shaped boobs (I see cross eyed boobs that bounce around like loose car headlights)You will never see me without make up (craters like the surface of the moon under that? Holes filled in with spackle?)I have these awful stretch marks on my butt (I picture bright red whip lines, and zipper like...
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Warning Signs You're Dating A Loser!
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1. Rough Treatment "The Loser" will hurt you on purpose. If he or she hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property EVEN ONCE, drop them. Male losers often begin with behaviors that move you physically or hit the wall. Female losers often slap, kick and even punch their male partners when upset.2. Quick Attachment and Expression "The Loser" has...
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Actions Speak Louder Than Words
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I look across the 5-star restaurant table at my suitor who is 20 years older than me. He gazes back and tells me, “You are the most beautiful woman I have ever known.”, I melt. He looks deep into my eyes – I feel as if he’s searching them to find my soul. He says he can see himself falling madly in love with me. He holds my hand over dinner and makes sure the waiter brings my favourite wine....
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The First Date Mine Field; Where to Step, What to Avoid
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Every person has been there-the grueling first date. You've shuffled through the awkwardness of meeting, asking, planning, and getting up the nerves to actually go on the date. You've both shaved, picked out clothes, showered until you skin was raw. Before you know it, you're at the restaurant and you've ordered your food. So now, you get to the conversation, which is where most of us get...
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Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean
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She thought he was saying and he thought she meant!Confused! Are men and women truly from different universes? Are both genders retarded and do not want to take responsibility for their actions? Let’s dispel the misunderstandings between men and women. Often when dating a woman, a man’s formula is very simple- A + B = Sex. This is very common for a man who cares about a woman. Do not be...
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What If You've Never Had A Boyfriend?
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There seems to be a huge struggle with many girls who have never had a boyfriend before. Many 16, 18, and even 20 year old girls have asked me this question, “I’ve never had a boyfriend before, I’ve never kissed a guy or even held hands. Am I ugly?” And it’s a question I’m sure that a large percentage of girls wonder, but are afraid to admit it. But to be honest, chances are, looks are the last...
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How to Avoid a Stupid Man: Women Must Learn to Live in the Now
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We've spent a great deal of time already talking about your current self image; how it is a product of thought, how it was initially given to you by your parents and how it continues to go through various stages of restructuring and conditioning by society so that you end up being more of a prefabricated person with very little original or authentic thought. For the most part, women and men live...
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Girls, Stop Making Stupid Rules About Contacting You!
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As a server one time I had a table with a couple of girls for lunch. They were both cute. I chatted with them a bit, I was nice, but really didn't do a ton of flirting. But when they left, they left a phone number on the table. Well after work I texted them to see what was up. Well they never responded. So later that day, I called and left a message, just in case they didn't have texting on their...
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Online Dating; A Guide To Success!
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I'm sure that many of us have gone onto Plentyoffish.com, okcupid.com or even Craigslist personals in order to find someone that we can possibly date. Now I know for myself and for many others I have talked to, the results are not that good. There are several reasons for this that I will touch upon and then give you some advice to give you the kick you need to make it work!The first thing to...
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How to Avoid a Stupid Man: Look for Codependent Behaviors
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I told you at the beginning of this series of articles that it takes a stupid man to speak to women about how to avoid men who are no good for them. I no longer consider myself stupid, but that doesn't mean I don't remember all the stupid things I did. Just cut me some slack here and remember what I said about the word ‘stupid.' A stupid man does not know who he is. He doesn't know why he is the...
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How to Avoid a Stupid Man: Women Must Know the Meaning of Relationship
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Relationship is not what most people have with each other. You already know this is true. Our images prevent us from becoming one with each other and are the source of great internal and external pain. We have attempted to annihilate each other because we can't seem to let go of our various images. All political systems and rules of government are nothing more than images, a projection of thought...
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How to Avoid a Stupid Man: Women Must Know Who They Are: Part 2
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If you go back to the last paragraph in the previous article you will notice that I did not say: the stupid woman must come to the knowledge of herself. I said, "The stupid woman must come to the knowledge of the self." I like the way late quantum physicist and philosopher, David Bohm describes the self in his book, Thought as a System. “… what you mean by the ‘self’ is your very essence.You say I...
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The Wilds: Not Just on the Savanna.
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Before I start this, I am going to point out that it is not my intent to offend anyone. However, this article is being written in a satirical manner with and over dramatization of things and playing on stereotypical ideas. Hence, it may offend some people.Introduction: I keep seeing the question asked, “Why do ____ always like jerks?” I examined things and came up with an answer using my 25 years...
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How to Avoid a Stupid Man: Women Must Know Who They Are
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I've heard thousands of conversations between women, and I'm convinced that most of the advice they give each other is nothing more than the often repeated thoughts of other people. That is to say, most of the advice men give men about women and women give women about men, and even the advice of the professional or expert, comes out of the mechanical process we call thought, which is little more...
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Breaking The Unwritten Rules
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One unwritten rule of dating is not to bring up sensitive subjects. Current US policies, or other social questions, or deep philosophica/religious subjects are supposed to be taboo. This unwritten rule seems especially strong for men. It's somewhat more tolerated for women to bring up such subjects on dates, but a lot of women react really strongly when men bring it up, as if we were somehow...
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(Age:36 to 45)
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How to Avoid a Stupid Man: The Law of the Red Flag
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There is hidden intuitive truth hidden deeply inside all of us, and you need to pay close attention to it because it will help you know when your real soul mate has arrived. Let's call this hidden truth ‘the law of the red flag.' The law of the red flag is familiar to all of us. It is our sixth sense, a part of our divine makeup that has been given to us by our Creator. We simply describe it as a...
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Nothing Harder Than Perception
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Why is it, which I find completely amazing, how one person can change a life? How one person can turn your entire world upside down and inside out, turn it on it's ear and make you question everything that you have set up to protect yourself from the evils and harshness of the world. How one person can pose such a simple idea and have that idea be earth shattering and ground breaking to you that...
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Are your standards are too high or too low?
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Ive been told my standards are too high and that I should lower them if I really want to find someone to share my life with.Question is, how low should I go?How many stories have we heard about a woman who has 7 kids to 6 different men?Or the story about a man who has 6 kids to 6 different women?Perhaps you've heard the one about a woman who had 300 partners before she got married at 28?Should I...
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What are we waiting for?
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I don't know about you, but I always find it funny listening to the stories my co-workers have regarding their love interests. Not one of them, including those married, ever have anything nice to say about their significant others. I'm assuming they are happy to some degree because they are still with these people, but every time I see them it's some new reason why their relationship is a pain...
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Loving A Larger Woman
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This is an excerpt from the book Good in Bed by Jennifer Weiner:I’ll never forget the day I found out my girlfriend weighed more than I did. She was out on a bike ride, and I was home watching football, leafing through the magazines on her coffee table, when I found her Weight Watchers folder — a palm-sized folio with notations for what she’d eaten, and when, and what she planned to eat next, and...
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A Date That Will Make You Ask 'Am I on PUNK'D?'
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I recently came out of a complicated relationship and I'm back on the dating field again. Two weeks ago a friend of mine met a guy that she considered to be an "excellent match", so she agreed to give him my e-mail, so that we could set up a blind date.She told me that this guy was exactly what I like in guy:MatureOlder than meSuccessful at his job (entrepreneur, who owned 2...
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Where Did All The Nice Guys Go?
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I see this question posted with some regularity in the many personals sections on the internet and what not, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out quite yet.What happened to all the nice guys?The answer is simple: you did.See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to...
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(Age:18 to 24)
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What Women Really Mean
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Guys, I know you have been puzzled by the opposite sex and by no means do we make it easy for you. We say one thing, we mean another. We rarely ever say just what we mean. We only expect you to read our minds, what's wrong with that? Well in case you're not a mind reader, here is a little help for you on your journey to understanding women. First things first, if you think you understand what...
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Men Have Feelings Too, Believe It
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Over the years, I probably, like most other men, have been on the receiving end of man-bashing resentments. Nothing quite like women having the gumption in telling me in my face how much I am a loser just because I am a man. One cannot drive anywhere without seeing stickers on cars belittling men in so many ways. Dating is next to impossible, especially for me since I am not tall, handsome,...
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Does Age Matter?
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Used to be that the man would go out to work, the woman would stay home with the 2.4 children waiting for the moment that hubby walked through the door so she could greet him with a cocktail and make him feel like the world revolved around him. Although it has long been common practice for men to marry a younger woman, you hardly ever saw couples where the woman was significantly older than the...
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11 Things You Have To Know Before You Try Online Dating
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So the Internet is taking the world by storm and along with that so is online dating. It is fast becoming much more socially accepted these days and a valid way to get to meet some great people.With anything there are a number of issues about online dating. The main one I want to look at is safety. Some people don't want to try online dating, because they think its a place for stalkers, psychos...
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Things That Will Turn Any Guy Off! - Learning How To Date Drama Free
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So we have all heard the horror stories, the confusion, the insecurities and the inevitable broken hearts that fall victim to the battle of the dating world. But right now I'm going to present a way of dating that makes it a little bit easier and quite possibly (holds breath) enjoyable?!!! After all, dating, chasing and falling in love is meant to be fun, right? Now this article is for chicks, by...
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Political Correctness and Interracial Dating
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In an age where simply breathing the wrong way could offend someone, we appear to be tiptoeing around fairly insignificant details.For example, labeling someone as that black woman can get you written up at the office, or royally chewed out by the injured party.But where is the offense? As a black woman, being called black has never upset me. It is simply a descriptor; no different than saying...
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Interracial Dating Do's and Don'ts
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During my many years in the interracial dating scene, I was asked numerous questions that began with the phrase, "Why do you people ...?"Irritation scale? Ranks right up there with nails on a chalkboard.Individuals who asked such loaded questions often failed to realize that the query made me feel as if race was all they saw when they looked at me. Black people are not hive- minded zombies. We all...
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Romance 101 Your Guide to the Perfect Night In
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Looking for a great way to spice things up in the romance department? Why not consider a sexy, romantic night in for a change?Many couples enjoy going out (you know, the "traditional" dinner and a movie) for a chance to reconnect, but a night in can be much more conducive to an intimate connection at the dining room table, on the living room couch, and especially between the sheets.Getting...
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Lose The Losers - Dating Tips
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We can all think back to a time when we were young and naive. All we had to do was wait patiently, keep our noses powdered and our lipstick fresh, and Prince Charming would come riding up on a beautiful black stallion and carry us off to his ancestral castle, where we would live happily ever after. Unfortunately, that vision evaporates as reality shatters our fantasy and the man of our dreams is...
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Over Thirty and Single? Scandalous!
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Women are ridiculed or ostracized for not being in a relationship. We have that ever-ticking biological clock. We are ridiculed if we are unmarried after a certain age. It seems okay for men to be single but crazy for women to be. There seems to be a double standard here. It is crazy for women to be single and in their thirties, forties, or fifties, but it is perfectly fine and desirable for men...
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Girlfriend vs Big Game
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Does your girlfriend constantly bug you about watching too much television? Maybe she gets upset when you meet the guys to watch the big game or maybe she just hates that you are a permanent fixture in front of the television during football or baseball season. No matter what sport you follow, the truth is that most of us girls hate it when you watch sports!Finding one of us that loves sports as...
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Who Pays for the Date?
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With more women in the competitive work force, and more women making these assertive moves towards men, I think men feel it is safe to expect that more women will be paying for dates. Even though that assumption should be true, it's still the expectation of a woman for the man to pay, at least for the first few dates.This may seem terribly unfair, and one sided. Women want some changes, while...
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(Age:25 to 29)
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Get Past the First Date
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A guy I met in a bar in college took me out for a few casual drinks on our first date. I was nervous but he seemed really nice. As the wine and the conversation flowed, we decided to move on to another bar. He turned to get his coat off the back of his chair and I noticed that he had a long strip of hair reaching down the back of his neck. He saw me notice and stroked it. Plain faced, he said "I...
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(Age:25 to 29)
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Cooking for Your Man
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I know women like men who can cook. I enjoy cooking myself. It is the most satisfying hobby I have ever had. In fact it is more than a hobby, it is a survival kit. One more good thing about cooking is that it is much more enjoyable (and economical) if you cook for two. Also, I have found that cooking for two makes the dish much tastier. There must be something with the amount of ingredients used....
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