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itssimplekeepitreal
Category: Flirting
Comments 41
Throw A Player A Twig But Give A Trunk To The Shy Guy. An Article On Shy Men For The Ladies
SHYMEN101. Pow.I know the aggressive males are so appealing to a female, because it fits the media or propaganda projected image of what a man ought to be. You get one, and too often their brains are just full of jello. They're delicious, but not NUTRITIOUS. Too often we reach for the 99% fat ice cream when we have frozen yoghurt around us – healing us when our hearts get stomped on, hugging us...  more
By itssimplekeepitreal (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 921

Gregs
Category: Flirting
Comments 11
Passing Women's Tests Continued (3)
3. I have a boyfriend test.Many people have heard this one, things are going great with a woman so you decide to make that first real move, maybe ask her out for a coffee and she might even say yes, but wait, "just to let you know, I have a boyfriend" oh no...For most guys this will be like a spear in the chest, it stops most guys in their tracks "bbb-boyfriend??? but you were just flirting with...  more
By Gregs (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 908
Gregs
Category: Flirting
Comments 40
Passing Women's Tests Continued
Before listing some specific, common tests women use its important to say that the easiest way to "pass" all these tests is something that women have been telling men all along, to "be yourself". Since we already said that tests are not so much a pass or fail but a personality test, there are two ways to get the desired result, either, find out each and every question on the test and how to...  more
By Gregs (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 752
Gregs
Category: Flirting
Comments 11
Passing Women's Tests
I think this is going to be a long one since its probably the hardest thing to explain and something most guy want to know about. in reality if you think about it, its very easy to pass the tests women give you, in fact women have been telling you how to pass them all the time, it's just that you interpreted what they were saying in the wrong way. But first to get rid of some doubts.. DO WOMEN...  more
By Gregs (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 942
Gregs
Category: Flirting
Comments 19
Attitudes To Have With Women
Often men will hit the gym, style their hair, or get penis enlargements as a means to woo girls, but rarely do men consider dressing up their attitudes. The fact is, it's the time you spend vertical with a woman that will determine if you will be spending time horizontally with her later on. The following are attitudes that have worked for me to go from a guy very beaten down by women to...  more
By Gregs (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 1048
Gregs
Category: Flirting
Comments 31
Let's Just Be Friends
I really like you. I do. You're so nice, and sweet, and you listen to all my problems and respond with the appropriate compliments. But, well, I don't really see a relationship in our future. It would be terrible if we let sex destroy this great friendship we have where I get everything I want and you get nothing you want. Don't you think?I knew you would understand. You always do.We're so perfect...  more
By Gregs (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 859
sa230e
Category: Flirting
Comments 16
The Guy FAQ
I see the same few questions from women on this site so often I decided to write an article with answers for these frequently asked questions. Originally I made some elaborate attempts at explaining certain aspects of male psychology to help you ladies relate to use better but I’m having writer’s block I guess so I’m better off going at it in point form.Why does he stare?He stares because he likes...  more
By sa230e (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 1883
papasmurf
Category: Flirting
Comments 3
A World Not So Different
Born in the depths of Northern Thailand. A tiny village resembling that of the jungle book. A bamboo hut with dirt floors and a rice pot as interior design. This is the luxuries of the third world. Trees and vines stretch hundreds of miles into exposed forest having no contact but a single lane dirt road that makes nature paths look like highways. The jungle grows around and through the road...  more
By papasmurf (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Not yet rated! Views: 98
TripletTia
Category: Flirting
Comments 145
Shy Guys And The Shy Complex
Okay shy guys, we get it. You're shy. But don't be. I realize that is easier said than done, but if you make a real effort to come out of your shell, girls will notice and you will find yourself with options you never thought possible. Just believe.I can imagine what runs through a shy guy's mind when he sees a girl he likes. It probably goes something like this: just the thought of approaching...  more
By TripletTia (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 2676
sa230e
Category: Flirting
Comments 5
Attraction: Maybe you're asking the wrong questions
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that men and women are different. We seem to know it instinctively from a young age. When get to adolescence suddenly these difference begin to cause us a lot of grief. I’m no exception. I always used to puzzle over “what was she thinking?” and “why did she say that?” or “what did she mean by that”. I also thought that this was strictly a problem...  more
By sa230e (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 1141
bobair
Category: Flirting
Comments 15
Stop being Mr. Nice Guy and learn to be Attractive.
Why do women seem to choose "bad boys" over "nice guys"?It took me years to figure this out. I spent a lot of time being shy, lonely, angry and confused. I was definitely a "nice guy" but I was also single and jaded.Pay attention because this might surprise you: The problem with "nice guys" is that they often try to manipulate women.WHAT?! (You may ask)Yes. (I answer)Typical "Nice Guy" Behaviour:-...  more
By bobair (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 1627
sa230e
Category: Flirting
Comments 18
The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy
Do guys like chasing girls or do they like the girl to make the first move? I've seen a few variations on this one and I've developed a theory about it that perhaps some people may find useful or (I hope) at least thought provoking. This is a greatly expanded version of an answer I gave to a question. I submitted it as an article to make it easier for people to find as a reference. My theory is...  more
By sa230e (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 2085
cajoi
Category: Flirting
Comments 12
Friends With Benefits: A Contradiction
By far, the questions that I see asked the most about relationships concern whether or not being Friends With Benefits or FWB is a good idea. Is it good? Is it bad? Well, that depends on your perspective. Having experienced this in my own life, and watched my friends struggle through similar situations...I have to say that nine times out of ten, FWB is not a good idea.Now, I’m not trying to be a...  more
By cajoi (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 1080
bri_asks
Category: Flirting
Comments 60
50 Things Girls Should Know About Guys
This is by no means an inclusive or a complete list but here are some things girls should know about guys. Also feel free to add your points in the comments.1. guys will never truly like girls, who mess around with every guy, they may mess around with you, and act like they like you but if they know and see you with a whole bunch of other guys, they will never ever truly have feelings for you2....  more
By bri_asks (Age:Under 18) Average Rating: Views: 5124
jrose
Category: Flirting
Comments 26
Why Can't Men and Women be Friends?
While checking my phone during lunch on a hectic Saturday at work, I found I’d missed a call from my friend Ian- he left a message asking me if I wanted to go to the local Food and Wine show later that night. Without giving it a second thought, I called him back and agreed to go, telling him I would call him after work to figure out the details. We decided to go out for dinner and then to the show...  more
By jrose (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 1468
erica_ellis
Category: Flirting
Comments 42
Things Every Man Should Know About A Woman
1. We don't like it when you hold our hand.2. We're not all high maintenance. Seriously, who spends five hours getting ready every day? If I'm not going anywhere, I'm not putting much effort into how I look, unless I just want to feel cute. 3. Cheesy and corny is adorable. Seriously. 4. We like it if you're a dork because we are too, so we can be dorks together :) 5. We think you are unbelievably...  more
By erica_ellis (Age:Under 18) Average Rating: Views: 2996
RelationshipXpert
Category: Flirting
Comments 0
How To Get A Girl Fall In Love With You
Losing a beloved one is never easy. This is not only about death but the separation when both lovers are still alive. No matter what the reasons may be, the people who lose their loved ones feel extremely sad over the loss. There are those who plunge into depression and feel that they can no longer go on living. You might be one of them because you do not know how to win back the one you love. You...  more
By RelationshipXpert (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 548
monkey
Category: Flirting
Comments 2
Questions To Ask To Get To Know Him or Her Better
How can I get to know him or her better, what questions can I ask? Follow this along and try not to remember all of it, this is not a test. If a handful of them sticks with you, take them along and use them.1. Start with something you have in common. If you met through a friend, at work, through an organization you both volunteer for, at a happy hour, gym, class you both are taking, etc., open...  more
By monkey (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 2920
bobair
Category: Flirting
Comments 25
How to Create Attraction with a Woman
ATTRACTION IS TENSIONThis might seem simplistic, or may even sound foolish, but you’d be surprised. I promise that understanding this will forever change how you interact with women.Don’t waste time thinking that what women SAY they want, and what they actually respond to are the same thing. Attraction isn’t about her rules, her expectations, or what she thinks she wants, needs, or deserves. Too...  more
By bobair (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 2777
MiragesMind
Category: Flirting
Comments 3
Building Attraction Using Only Verbal Language
Only a small portion of what you communicate comes through in what you actually say. But how can you practice speaking to girls and perfect your language if you're shy? The answer is right here...I do apologise... But this article is aimed at people who want to speak to women. This is because I use general principals of female psychology in order to compose effective language. But even if you...  more
By MiragesMind (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 1528
CarrieJos
Category: Flirting
Comments 6
Secrets to Getting Your Ex Back
Do you want to get your ex back? Are you tired of hurting and feeling lost and alone? I've written this article to try and give you hope and some help in winning back your love. It can be really difficult to think rationally when you are going through such emotional trauma. I know well what you are feeling having gone through the same thing myself - and hope never to repeat again.You may be...  more
By CarrieJos (Age:Over 45) Average Rating: Views: 1183
itssimplekeepitreal
Category: Flirting
Comments 62
The Designer Dress And The Cheap Shirt. An Article On 'The Chase' For The Ladies.
Girl meets guy, guy meets girl, primal level attraction. What next? The chase. The juice of the relationship. The icing on the cake. If we sum up the theory of the chase up into a single word, it would be ‘patience‘. Let’s begin with an analogy. Fashion. Imagine purchasing a five dollar bargain bin shirt, it is plain, simple and easy to obtain. A cheap shirt will only be worn once or twice, then...  more
By itssimplekeepitreal (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 1200
wildrose
Category: Flirting
Comments 10
The Art of Falling
It came across my mind a couple of days ago, why the verb "fall" is used to indicate the action of "love", what could be the relation! why not any other verb than fall!It's even more interesting when you think about it that we say "fall in love" when it's strong enormous love, not just normal love. There's a big difference between when someone loves something or someone, and when he falls in love...  more
By wildrose (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 839
WaitingAtTheDoor
Category: Flirting
Comments 12
Attraction and Opportunity
It was requested that I write an article about an on-going issue that I responded to that pertains to flirting and engaging a person in conversation that would lead into a relationship. Essentially, the initial communication stage.For this article, I am using a case study that involves the female perspective of a college student engaged in an on-going conversation with a male college student....  more
By WaitingAtTheDoor (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 1709
usagichan
Category: Flirting
Comments 14
Please Stop Being Too Nice
Without being even a decade old, I’m cynical and bitter. Long experience has taught me to guard, to scoff, and to dismiss compliments for being misguided at best and destructive lies at worst. You completely disarmed you. You walked in, made fun of my computer choice and the videogame I was playing, and left. I had no idea who you were for weeks-no idea we even worked in the same department. But...  more
By usagichan (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 1823
AlyssMaddigan
Category: Flirting
Comments 6
How To Be The Go-To Person
The next time the person you regularly ask relationship advice from gives you bad news, or tells you something you didn't want to hear, buy them a drink.Everyone has one, the relationship guru. It's your best friend, your sister, your cousin, the guy you met at the bar. More importantly, this person puts up with a lot of crap from you. As a certified go-to-girl, (my cell phone records show proof...  more
By AlyssMaddigan (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 933
monkey
Category: Flirting
Comments 44
Does He Like Me? 32 Ways to Answer The All Important Question!
“Does He Like Me” seems to be holding the fort in being one of the most popular questions, still. So I thought I add all the little things a guy would do, the subtle hints he shows and the silliness he displays if he likes a girl. If you answer any of the questions with Yes, your guy in question likes you whether he is a friend, a crush, a classmate, or a total stranger. The more Yes’s you have,...  more
By monkey (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 63189
mikethemasterdater
Category: Flirting
Comments 5
He spit in her face and she went back to him
A new girl just moved into my house. Lately I feel like I am the mascot to a sorority. There are now 4 girls living upstairs, granted one of them is only three but I think she has the hots for me. I wish the new girl did, she is absolutely adorable. Why did she move in with a lecherous guy like me living downstairs? Two reasons, she knows me and trusts me (nuts I know) but the bigger reason is the...  more
By mikethemasterdater (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 1602
norway
Category: Flirting
Comments 6
How Live Chat Lead Me to the Love of My Life
Believe me when I tell you that meeting the man of my dreams was a notion I had given up on after my second divorce. Meeting and falling in love on the Internet? Oh Please! Only tragic losers who were socially disabled or outright liars were pulling this one off. My disdain for people who "fell in love" online could not be measured with existing technology.A few months ago, I joined a forum...  more
By norway (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 716
schmoopy
Category: Flirting
Comments 9
Meeting People Online, Flirting Too!
Few years back, the common assumption was that anyone who'd turn to their computer for love had to be a geeky, pathetic loser who couldn't get a date. More recently, with the Internet changing everything from the way we shop to the way we find driving directions, cyberspace has become the hottest pick-up joint on the planet, including flirting online.Today millions of people are searching,...  more
By schmoopy (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 1060
humble
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
Instant Messaging, Flirting Online
Instant Messaging is a great way to flirt, date, and form romantic relationships online. Not only do singles find this to be a great way to meet new 'prospects', but even people in existing relationships find flirting online an interesting stress-buster! It usually begins without an agenda in mind yet quickly transforms through subtle innuendos and humor; and through sharing of interesting...  more
By humble (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 1839
38rakia38
Category: Flirting
Comments 6
Language; Is It Old School Now?
I've never been one for internet dating or communicating something personal and profound to a loved one through a text message, email, or an instant messenger. Spoken words or lack thereof, when in a relationship can speak volumes about the sincerity and genuineness of what we are saying. Language was a primary means of communication for much of our existence, we learned to talk by mimicking our...  more
By 38rakia38 (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 453
mikethemasterdater
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
Using What You Can't Stand About That A**hole!
In my quest to a have a better life I have discovered that getting clear about what you want is a must. If you don’t know what you want you are like a sailboat with no sails. To find your way you need tools like the sailor needs a compass. One of these powerful tools is understand what you don’t want to step in the direction of what you do. Unfortunately a lot of people think that the negative is...  more
By mikethemasterdater (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 504
Hot-Alpha-Female
Category: Flirting
Comments 16
Turning The Average Joe Into A Hero! The Art of Picking Up.
Ohhh boys are you going to love this one. I came across a very cool article in the Sunday telegraph called "Art of picking up women" that was talking about Attraction Coaches.The aim? An experiment - to see if these so called attraction coaches could talk the talk and walk the walk.The results? Seconds later they were surrounded by attractive women who were hanging off their every word.Who wants a...  more
By Hot-Alpha-Female (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 1622
voodoochild
Category: Flirting
Comments 11
How To Get Girls Part 2 (Getting To Know Her)
How to get girls part 2 (getting to know her)So now that you have read the first article and have a general idea how your mindset should be towards the opposite sex, it’s time to go for the part that takes allot of guts! Approaching girls you like out of the blue and getting their number.There are two basic settings in which you get to know girls:1- The frequent social circle, which means you see...  more
By voodoochild (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 1714
Jarett
Category: Flirting
Comments 6
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You
I figured I'd save a million girls a bunch of time trying to figure out if a guy likes them or not. So how do you know if a guy likes you. I thought I'd give you a list of instances if a guy likes you.1) You catch the guy looking at you more then once, and you don't have a big booger in your nose.2) See #13) See #14) See #15) See #16) See #1Do you get the hint? It's that easy. If a guy thinks...  more
By Jarett (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 878
babydoll333
Category: Flirting
Comments 2
The Secret To Having More Friendships
When you meet new people for the first time, do you usually like most of the new people that you meet?Or do you find that you usually dislike new people, unless they can eventually prove after a long time that they deserve your friendship?Perhaps you have never thought about this before. And you may even wonder if it’s really important. Does it really matter very much if you like most people when...  more
By babydoll333 (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 836
nobodygirl
Category: Flirting
Comments 8
Setting Them Up and Knocking Them Down: How to Stay Out of the Friend Zone
I have a friend who just makes girls like him. He's goofy, quirkily attractive, and makes you feel comfortable and deliciously awkward at the same time. He'll grab your hand and race through a mall with you, leaving you laughing and breathless. He'll look into your eyes silently for thirty seconds, then spout out a funny Russian accent. He'll sneak off campus with you during lunch to get ice...  more
By nobodygirl (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 2508
babydoll333
Category: Flirting
Comments 3
Conquering your Jealousy
Jealousy. It may only be a simple word, but does not have such a simple definition behind it. There are many reasons we feel jealous and though it is a normal human emotion to feel, it tends to get out of control if we fail to tame it. In order to tame it and control it however, you will first have to learn where your jealousy is coming from. There is always a cause for jealousy to arise and once...  more
By babydoll333 (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 914
babydoll333
Category: Flirting
Comments 3
Recipe for a Healthy Relationship
First off, it is important to ask yourself what you consider a real relationship to be. You need to understand what your needs and desires are from another person, and what you are willing to give them. This way, you can see early in your first dates, if you wish to continue and work towards a future together, and if the other person feels the same of course (both sides count).Once you have...  more
By babydoll333 (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 1008
martyfellow
Category: Flirting
Comments 9
Who Decides What Is Cool?
A lot of questions are asked about why, in spite of sex education classes, there seems to be so much ignorance out there about the consequences of unsafe sex practices. Let's face it, most young people in the US don't listen to what older people say to them about sex. They don't generally listen to their parents, nor to teachers in sex ed classes. They listen, or look, to the media for...  more
By martyfellow (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 520
martyfellow
Category: Flirting
Comments 5
A Modern Oracle
I recently had a conversation with a Japanese woman who told me she would like to have society in Japan returned to the matriarchal clan system of 2000 years ago, when women could take on temporary 'husbands' who stayed in the village for a fixed time, apparently six days, living with the woman and having any type of relationshipAfter the term was up,there was a decision made by the elder women,...  more
By martyfellow (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 364
nessavanice
Category: Flirting
Comments 9
How To Give A Blowjob
That Will Blow His Mind When Mick Jagger sings “…you make a dead man come,” we all know to what he is referring. Is there a man alive who wouldn’t sell his soul for a killer blowjob? Even if you feel you give damn good fellatio already, you may find something in this article that may further blow your man’s mind. If you are a novice, read the article and choose two or three suggestions you would...  more
By nessavanice (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 8186
A-R-Norman
Category: Flirting
Comments 6
Men! Women! Put Down the Weapons of War and Celebrate Differences
I love GIRLS ASK GUYS -- there are a lot of extremely insightful and intelligent men and women on here. I also enjoy the fact that so many young people, despite being told that their questions are stupid, are trying to figure out how to behave in ways that are both ethical and in line with their feelings.And in an aside, people need to understand that while some thirty and even forty something’s...  more
By A-R-Norman (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 571
martyfellow
Category: Flirting
Comments 7
Romance In Other Cultures
More and more here in the US we have a lot of options in terms of the different cultures that coexist in much of our society. I married a Colombian woman, for example, and had several girl friends who hailed from different parts of the world, or whose parents did.Every culture has its own ideas about the proper way to look for a mate, and while most people sort of adapt to the dominant...  more
By martyfellow (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 1207
The-Nash
Category: Flirting
Comments 7
Nobody
Nobodyby Shel SilversteinNobody loves me,Nobody cares,Nobody picks me peaches and pears.Nobody offers me candy and Cokes,Nobody listens and laughs at my jokes.Nobody helps when I get in a fight,Nobody does all my homework at night.Nobody misses me,Nobody cries,Nobody thinks I'm a wonderful guy.So if you ask me who's my best friend, in a whiz,I'll stand up and tell you hat NOBODY is.But yesterday...  more
By The-Nash (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 640
martyfellow
Category: Flirting
Comments 8
New Wave in Relationships?
I hope people find this worthy of interest. It got my attention. Not too often do you find yourself getting spanked over a woman's knees at age 28, and I had never been spanked as a child. I had long been a bit of a flirt at work; nothing serious that was not part of friendship, or so I thought. A little bit of pinching, double entendres, usually with women who knew my wife. Quite suddenly,...  more
By martyfellow (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 580
teesand
Category: Flirting
Comments 0
Three Key Break Up Warning Signs
Relationships constantly evolve. If you are not feeling good about some of the changes that are happening in your relationship you are probably wondering if they are signs of an inevitable break up. Not every change means you are headed for break up but there are three key break up warning signs. Break Up Warning Sign #3The blame game is the number three break up warning sign. If its always the...  more
By teesand (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 2215
jgrant24
Category: Flirting
Comments 13
The Subtlety Of Not Paying Attention
So guys and girls are constantly complaining that the opposite sex is crazy. I, myself, have fallen into this debate recently. I have decided to pass on some of my wisdom to the masses. So girls, how many times have you put out a signal to a guy that you like him only to have him not react at all? How many times have you did your patented move and the guy seems oblivious? Can you even count...  more
By jgrant24 (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 2730
menguc
Category: Flirting
Comments 0
Facebook Meeting
I was going to meet Teresa at a hotel bar where we used to meet all the time. I had not seen her for almost 4 years and on the way I admitted myself that I was actually excited. I calmed myself. She must be excited too.I had dated Teresa for more than 3 years and I do not remember more than a couple of instances when we did not argue. Our relationship was full of arguments and maybe it was these...  more
By menguc (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 497
disfabioguise
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
The Art of Flirting
Flirting is indeed an art, the art of reaching out with your eyes, smile or a touch which in turn makes someone else feel good about themselves.People think of flirting as a means of gaining one's attention and it's all about some prelude to a sexual and/or romantic outcome. That is outdated and completely untrue! You must look at flirting as healthy, enjoyable and refreshing for both people...  more
By disfabioguise (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 1976
Virtuales
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
Why Do Women Fake Orgasms?
Everybody heard rumours about women faking orgasms. Is that true? The majority of women have faked at least one orgasm, yet some fake almost all of them. Why do they do that? There are many reasons and the case is that there's no one to blame.The most common are two reasons: they don't want to make their partners feel bad or they are tired and just want to end sex. Most females say that their...  more
By Virtuales (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 3370
xlibertine
Category: Flirting
Comments 8
How To Get a Friend To Stop Hitting On Your Boyfriend
It's really annoying when people flirt with your boyfriend. Even if it's just friendly it can sometimes be too much. It gets even worse if the person flirting is your friend. When a friend hits on your boyfriend it's hard to stop this without losing the friend, boyfriend, or both. Follow these steps to learn how.1. Talk to your friend. Tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable when she flirts with...  more
By xlibertine (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 2523
xlibertine
Category: Flirting
Comments 2
How To Stop Flirting
Flirting is a way to express an interest in someone but sometimes, you just want it to stop. Follow these steps to make that happen.1. Try a blank stare. If you stop talking back to someone they will probably get the point.2. Take a step away. The farther away you are, the more comfortable you feel. If this person seems to be following you or will just not leave, join a group. This way there are...  more
By xlibertine (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 2562
Gia65
Category: Flirting
Comments 4
I Love You, I Hate You
We truly are a bunch of insecure human beings. I have been researching relationships of all types and the one common denominator they all seem to have is they are laced with insecurity. This insecurity seems to ooze out all over the place. I have a few theories about this wide spread insecurity epidemic. When we are born we bond with our parents. We especially bond with our mothers because they...  more
By Gia65 (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 1208
LilMiss
Category: Flirting
Comments 14
A woman's Perspective On Guys And Their Game
It's flattering when a gentleman approaches a lady and tastefully compliments her, is it not? Notice that I used the word, "gentleman". I won't go and say that gentlemen don't exist and that chivalry is dead, however I will say that they are few and far between. Their are too many guys nowadays that consider themselves to have "game". I'm guessing that by game, they mean they can go up to any...  more
By LilMiss (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 1404
babydoll333
Category: Flirting
Comments 5
An Innocent Crush or Insightful Lust?
An Innocent Crush or Insightful Lust? Is there anything wrong with a person in a committed relationship having a crush on someone else as long as it isn't acted upon? Can it even benefit a relationship?I think the nature of a crush on someone can be a barometer of your relationship. If you have a crush on a coworker or friend where the thoughts running through your head are "aww, he's so sweet! He...  more
By babydoll333 (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 1990
babydoll333
Category: Flirting
Comments 2
How Romantic Comedies Lie to Us
Men and women, bless us all. We shall never truly understand one another. I think we've all resigned ourselves by now to the fact that we're going to have our ins and outs. We'll all experience both the bitter pain of heartbreak and the blissful joy of love. It's a cliche to expect a rampant, torrid love affair in your life; the love at first sight, rip each other's clothes off, then get...  more
By babydoll333 (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 4720
Aditya
Category: Flirting
Comments 3
The Wonderous Flirty Eyes
Just a few weeks into joining this site, I saw most of the questions posted are more to do on reading those invisible lines that people think might be flirting, and to top it all to make aggressive conclusions based upon a similar feeling that might have happened with someone...I could never remember when the subtle art of flirting was imbibed in me, but it just came natural to me (guess being...  more
By Aditya (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 3011
Leon-Skylark
Category: Flirting
Comments 5
Love Story, What Is True Love?
I have read on here SO many times, "How can I get him to like me?" "Why can't I get a date?" "What do I have to do?" Here's what it's all about. 1) Stop looking for love just to have it. Love is such an amazing thing to have, and when you think you can find it in just any guy or girl, you're making a mistake. Sure, there are dozens of people you could be with, yet one would be better than the...  more
By Leon-Skylark (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 919
Leahg2111
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
Top Breakup Songs
1. You're So Vain - Carly Simons Nothing helps dull the pain of a bad breakup like a gripe session about the ex and Carly Simons 1972 hit is just that. With bitterness in her voice (and Mick Jagger on backup vocals), Carly recounts a love affair with a narcissistic philanderer. From the picture she paints, you almost have to feel sorry for the unnamed (though undoubtedly well-known) cad who...  more
By Leahg2111 (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 857
Energy
Category: Flirting
Comments 8
My Teenage Dating Years: The Crazy Torment!
Dating has never been easy. Especially when you are young and nobody wants to teach you the reality of dating. The silly games and the heartbreak can be too much for a young boy.But the experience and the loss of innocence can alter a young boys future forever. For what happens in his younger years will define this man actions.I hit puberty rather early and I think my ancestors passed on genetics...  more
By Energy (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 1201
Aditya
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
Dreamzzz
The habit gaining fervor as the solitude aspires to acquire a better portion in my life. I always end up writing something which had promiscuously become part of a living soul and then as sudden disappeared into oblivion.Re-living the dream as one would have said, where I would contradict myself a number of times just to remember her the way she was last seen...A fleeting glance at first, held me...  more
By Aditya (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 440
A-R-Norman
Category: Flirting
Comments 16
Ladies, Let's Stop All The Man-Bashing!
I am a woman, so I know the reasons behind our struggles within society and relationships. For years, we couldn't vote, work after getting married or having children, and in the constitution, we were considered chattel personales, or personal property, once we married, in much the same manner as a slave.Now we have made some strides (and still have more strides to make since women are still...  more
By A-R-Norman (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 1821
cutiepatootie
Category: Flirting
Comments 46
I Want A Boy Who...
I want a boy who will move the hair away from my eyes, and then kiss me. Who will hold my hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous. A pretty boy, but not so pretty that I feel awkward. A boy who thinks I'm b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l. A boy who will sing to me at random moments. Who lets me sleep on his chest. I want a guy who will tell his mother I have beautiful eyes, a guy who will make me...  more
By cutiepatootie (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 9680
SeanE
Category: Flirting
Comments 5
The Power of the Eyes
They say that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and I don't know for sure if it's true. However, I do know that a person's eyes can tell you a great deal about her, and your eyes can tell a great deal about you... whether you want them to or not! Eye contact is one of the most important aspects of seduction, second only to smiling, and can easily make the difference between spending some time...  more
By SeanE (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 2082
The-Nash
Category: Flirting
Comments 2
Impressions
Now, we all worry about first impressions in some way; Agreed? Okay, so how is that we can take the idea of a first impression and ease our minds of how to go about them? Well, what is an impression, first of all:(NOUN):1. An effect, feeling, or image retained as a consequence of experience.2. A vague notion, remembrance, or belief: I have the impression that we have met once before. 3. A humorous...  more
By The-Nash (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 718
Hot-Alpha-Female
Category: Flirting
Comments 10
One Of The Most Powerful Ways To Create Attraction. And It's Not What You Are Thinking
I've got a juicy one for you guys this time round.If any of you are wondering .. is this really possible?!Can you honestly create attraction even if you don't have the looks, the car, the money?Well you guys are going to love what I have to sayBecause I believe that not only is this possible, its HIGHLY possible And it happens every day.You know who the ones that have figured out this skill and...  more
By Hot-Alpha-Female (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 4319
The-Nash
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
The Dating Poker-Face
First: Let's start with an example, say -some kind of "friend" of yours- comes up to you and asks to borrow ten dollars. You give it to them, and when you ask for it back - they give you every excuse as to why they cant pay you, and you hardly ever see them again. Does this sound familiar, in any way? Well, what happened here. Someone tried to play on someone's sympathy, and generosity, for their...  more
By The-Nash (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 912
Jarett
Category: Flirting
Comments 6
How do I become a Real Man?
Growing up as a little boy, you watched movies, tv shows and cartoons about superman, batman, and other heroes. After watching it, if you had brothers or sisters close to your age, I would bet money that you dressed up, or used whatever items you could to represent the weapons or clothing of the superhero. You loved the idea of beating up the bad guy, saving the world, and saving the girl. You...  more
By Jarett (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 2171
Jarett
Category: Flirting
Comments 8
What is a Real Man?
When you think of a real man from television, who comes to mind? Or what about in the movies, any manly men stand out? When I think of television and think of real men, two faces immediately come to mind: Jack Bauer of 24, and Chuck Norris. Chuck Norris is really famous throughout the US. Ask someone what tv show he plays on, and I'm sure most people don't know. But ask what he does, and the...  more
By Jarett (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 1395
Jarett
Category: Flirting
Comments 10
How To Approach A Woman
How to properly approach a girl is is probably one of the biggest problems for single guys. Either a guy is too shy and doesn't know how to approach a beautiful woman, or the guy thinks he's "the man" and tries to put his mack on some girl. The problem with both of sides of the spectrum, that in all honesty, it's not the correct way to pick up a good girl. Sure, a guy being all smooth with a girl...  more
By Jarett (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 4736
Jarett
Category: Flirting
Comments 7
How To Attract Women
Let me start off by saying that attraction isn't a choice. If you meet a girl and you interact with a woman long enough for her to get an impression of you, and she doesn't find you attractive, then there is nothing you can do to change that. At the same time, if a woman is attracted to you, you can say or do almost anything and she will still be attracted to you. But there is a difference between...  more
By Jarett (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 3780
xxBlonde-Barbiexx
Category: Flirting
Comments 7
Flirting Do's and Don'ts
First and foremost, when you are flirting, you have to be in the mood to flirt. The best flirts are not very serious and are usually very playful. Would you rather be with somebody that is serious, and will stand there like a wall and just say ok, yes, and no or somebody who will tickle you and laugh? If your answer would be somebody who is going to tickle you and laugh then you are already headed...  more
By xxBlonde-Barbiexx (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 5482
The-Nash
Category: Flirting
Comments 7
What The Wind Said! (Story/Poem)
Oh, what a wonderful job waitress did, At the cafe I frequently visited.Sparking her interest ever so slightly Our friendship was only so limited.Noticing the ring on her finger, But never asking what it meant to her;Only to assume that she was already taken by some Hotshot, Big Spender.For the fear of any detriment To this simple, but valued friendship.From this little time, that together spent...  more
By The-Nash (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 685
Living-the-ADvenTURe
Category: Flirting
Comments 7
How Can You Get a Shy Girl to Open Up?
Real-World "Shy Girl" Shares Her Valuable InsightI've seen a lot of questions from guys asking how they can get a shy girl to open up to them. Now it often happens to me where I'm put in that shy girl situation where a guy is trying to talk to me but I just get so shy that I can't keep the conversation flowing or even relax and feel comfortable around him. Ironically, many of my friends would...  more
By Living-the-ADvenTURe (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 29725
NotThere
Category: Flirting
Comments 21
Nice Guys Don't Finish Last. Boring Guys Do.
"Why do girls always go for the bad boys?" "Girls say that they want a nice guy but they don't date ME!" Okay, first thing, make sure you're not whining. Unless you've found a fetish website for whiners, it may be one of the least attractive things you can ever do.So you're a nice guy (or let's assume for the sake of this article that you are and aren't just fooling yourself). But girls are...  more
By NotThere (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 5079
A-R-Norman
Category: Flirting
Comments 50
Chivalry is Dead--and Women Killed it
One day, while flipping through channels, I came upon one of Dave Chappelle's stand up comedy routines.I have to tell you, he had me rolling all the way up until he actually uttered the words, If Chivalry is dead, women killed it.I almost spit all the soda I was drinking out of my mouth onto the TV screen I was so mortified and outraged.I felt robbed.Id been saying that for years!Now, I know at...  more
By A-R-Norman (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 25935
nobodygirl
Category: Flirting
Comments 3
The Conversation Monster
It comes up with every crush: "They're hot. They're funny. They're so, so cool. I think we'd be perfect together. So how do I talk to them?"Hard question to answer. How do you get up the nerve to approach the (current) light of your life when you're sure they don't know you exist? Once you've croaked that first embarrassing hi, what do you say? What do you do if your arch rival shows up and...  more
By nobodygirl (Age:18 to 24) Average Rating: Views: 3649
Genesis5
Category: Flirting
Comments 64
Signs He Likes You, Signs He Doesn't
"Does he like me?" Are you wondering if a certain guy likes you? Here, I will help you answer it once and for all. First, it's important for you to know that men, even with our best intentions, are not good at expressing how we feel. Leaving you hanging is not always part of the plan...sometimes guys just don't know how to tell you they like you. Perhaps it's because our parents...  more
By Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 798626
Genesis5
Category: Flirting
Comments 10
I Like Her, Now What?
All of us have someone that we are interested in. Problem is, we typically have no idea how to tell them this, or more so, we are scared to tell them because, well, we are not sure if they feel the same way. Truly, getting over this first hump is the most difficult, the most exciting, and absolutely the most terrifying part of any budding relationship. What makes it so terrifying (besides the...  more
By Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 7808
A-R-Norman
Category: Flirting
Comments 11
How Can I Let Him Know I Like Him?
Men often comment that they would love it if girls approached them first, but I have found that the very opposite is true. More often than not, a guy is turned off by what he sees as desperation. Just how does a woman let her crush know she is interested without appearing to be hard up? I developed several ways to let a guy in on my feelings without running him off. How? I simply realized that...  more
By A-R-Norman (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 12655
A-R-Norman
Category: Flirting
Comments 7
So I Like This Guy...But What's The Next Step?
It's a jungle out there, especially when it comes to the dating games these days. With almost everyone that is single (as well as some of those that aren't) looking for the right guy or gal, it's hard to know where to begin when you really do like someone and really don't know how to tell him (or her).When you like someone it's easy to deal with if you don't know whether or not they like you too....  more
By A-R-Norman (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 4610
A-R-Norman
Category: Flirting
Comments 1
Creative Dating Ideas
Dinner and a movie. Most of you have probably been there done that, bought the t-shirt. While the wine and dine schematic is a great old stand by, one often craves something new and different, particularly when it comes to impressing someone special. In response to that, I have compiled a list of fun and innovative ideas for people with various interests. Although they are categorized, these...  more
By A-R-Norman (Age:36 to 45) Average Rating: Views: 2245
Austin
Category: Flirting
Comments 19
Why Hasn't He Called?
How many times have you found yourself asking that question? Every girl has asked at least once. After all, he took your number, talked to you for hours and HE SAID HE WOULD CALL, right?! Well here's why some guys never call... When you meet a guy for the first time and he lavishes you with attention, what do you honestly think of him? Most women view an overly attentive guy as a "loser" or...  more
By Austin (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 17759
sammi
Category: Flirting
Comments 19
Playing Hard to Get
Let's face it, they call it the dating game for a reason. The mating ritual between males and females, human or otherwise, involves some serious interplay. Guys have to be strong, strut their stuff and have confidence to approach the girl they want. Girls, on the other hand, show resistance. So why do girls play hard to get?CompetitionA reasonably polite and attractive girl is sure to attract...  more
By sammi (Age:25 to 29) Average Rating: Views: 18267
stella
Category: Flirting
Comments 5
The Power of Flirting
With a little bat of your eye lashes, a lick of your lips, slight wink or smile, you can totally control the way a man is thinking about you. Flirting has always been and will always be a very strong female tool when it comes to having power over men. You can have a PHD, own your own major company, be the head of a law firm but a woman in a tight skirt who knows how to shake it will turn the head...  more
By stella (Age:30 to 35) Average Rating: Views: 3285
 
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