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A-R-Norman
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Does Size Truly Matter to a Woman?

 
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This is a ticklish question and in truth, the answer is multifaceted.

Now, if one were to believe the hype of male enhancement ads, every woman in the world wants a Long Don Silver in the boudoir. I can tell you from experience, this just isn't true. I don't think I can stress enough the importance of ability and technique over size.

I know of a good friend of mine, a wonderful young man, intelligent, sweet and attractive, (he models even) who can't keep a chick around to save his life. His issue?

Dude has a fourteen inch member.

Ouch.

He even complained about his lack of companionship to me and I told him that maybe he needed to finesse it a bit; get the beauty "primed and ready" so to speak, and when the time was right, take it slow and easy and try not to penetrate too deeply.

He shook his head in amazement, "I just don't understand, a woman can stretch to have a baby!" he replied.

I looked at him, incredulous, "Hun, a woman doesn't want to have a baby every time she sees you!"

He laughed, but I couldn't take credit for that one. A stand up comedienne whose name escapes me at the moment (byproduct of being older), made this declaration when talking about a man who approached her bragging about his humongous size.

In truth, the average man, who comes in at 5.5 to 6.0 inches, can satisfy the average woman. That said, every woman is different.

As one gynecologist told me, women are different sizes internally, just as men are different sizes externally. That means that for every man who is four inches, there is, in nature, a perfect fit.

Likewise, Mr. Fourteen Incher can locate a woman who can take him in with very little problems.

In this I see the miraculous symmetry of life emerging once more, even in the realm of human sexuality.

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And it make sense.

But if you happen to be twelve and are attempting to couple with, lets say, an internal four--well, a round peg won't fit into a square hole.

This is where the old saying, "It's not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean" comes in.

A man can be well-endowed, but if he is careless with his lover, or disregards what she desires, three things will happen 1) the sex won't be good for her at all 2) He can hurt his woman or even cause medical problems 3) He'll be begging for sex often, not understanding why his lady love is so hesitant to get busy.

For example, an ex beau of mine was twelve in all, but his techniques was severely lacking. It hurt and caused severe physical problems for me. It got to where I hated to see him coming....ahem...

My hubby is a little above average at 6.5, but I would say that his fantastic prowess and ability to make me howl at the moon were among his finer points and were in all seriousness a due part of the consideration of marriage (although his being a nice, wonderful, sweet guy helped)...

The other side of this coin of course, in that man could be too small for his chosen mate.

This is because a woman's pleasure center, call it the G-spot if you will (Lord Knows I have that "spot", so call me a Geffenberg believer), may be difficult to reach with routine or missionary entry.

There are ways to remedy this, and I have always believed it begins with technique first. Learn ways to pleasure her with your lips and hands that will drive her wild. Toys can also be introduced to liven things up.

Different positioning, like rear entry, can help tilt a woman's pelvis towards you as well, so that it is easier to locate and hit the spot in question, irregardless of size. Use pillows to raise her hips--this can also help increase the depth of penetration.

Men can also find extensions which are readily available at any adult novelty store.

So, does size truly matter?

It all depends on the couple and their symmetry. When all else fails, be open about talking about your lover's likes and dislikes. If a woman feels like she can open up to you, she will unleash secrets that will help you find her sensual center, and if you do that, size won't matter in the least.

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lefthand I see this one posted from time to time. It amuses me most times because most experienced women tend toward a comfortable medium. I think if you are trying to please a woman with your cock, you already lost the battle. If she wasn't having a good time when you got to the intercourse, not much is going to change.

I personally found for that "full up feeling", fisting does a better job of providing the stimulation.

And no one ever said my hand was too small... :) - More than a year ago
A-R-Norman LOL--great point letf hand--I mean, amazing sex is so much more than about size...people have to figure out ways to circumvent hands that ma y have been dealt by nature...so to speak...ahem... - More than a year ago
kiroarous Well thank you maam, I would like to get more information on how to get to "the G spot". if you would like to share some of your wisdom, please feel free to contact me. - More than a year ago
Zachsafteryou This is a cliche but it's the motion of the ocean, not the ship you're riding in that will ultimately give you the best time.

And if you don't get the right vibe to begin with, it won't matter what his size is. - 10 months ago
dasouthernicon 14 inches? w000000w? - 10 months ago
ilovelovelove I couldn't agree more with your article. I hope more guys read it, and most of all, take your word. I know us girls can get insecure about our bits too. But it's reallyfrustrating when guys stress about their size.

As you said, techinque is way more important.

And 14 inches? OUUUUUUUUCH! - 10 months ago
smith2267 12? you are full of crap. - 8 months ago
A-R-Norman Nope--he was--and my dad--who was gay had a lover who was even bigger than that ( unfortunately showed me a picture) some men are that big dude... - 8 months ago
smith2267 Ok, norman...maybe so. I'm not overly long, about 7", but I think I am better off than most guys. - 8 months ago
A-R-Norman Smith--you be the perfect size trust me--most women like between 6-8--after that it's YOU AIN'T TOUCHING ME WITH THAT THING!!! LOL... - 8 months ago
Genesis5 I agree with this article. If you focus on your partner, then you will be good as she needs/wants you to be, and you won't be worrying about yourself.

Although I would also have to say that every guy would love to drop trow and hear - " Oh my God!!"

"Stop, you'll make him blush,.. and then I'll pass out."
- 6 months ago
pearberry4000 I would't run from him.I love big penises.Where does he live?I will APPRECITE THE HELL OUT OF HIM! - 4 months ago
A-R-Norman Peargberry--girl he is sweet, goodnatured and gorgeous too--and around your age--!LOL - 4 months ago
sweetem16 Wow. I am very impressed by your article which has made me reflect on the social ques of my generation and of the mass media flood concerning male enhancement. I am very young and have very little to say on this because I have honestly never experienced it first hand. I just hope that I can find a man who is 'just right' for me, as you described. Also, I am going to forward your article to every young person I know. - 3 months ago
 
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