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Why Are Women Of Massachusetts So Stuck Up?

 
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I was once a nice sweet guy, great sense of humor, a tad weird, and a self proclaimed romantic, I am 35 now, never had a true relationship, only had one woman in my life I ever truly loved.

I lived in Massachusetts all my life. And over the years in my search for the love of my life, I have found that from the time of birth women have been told that men are pigs, scum, and jerks, etc. On the other hand women are supposed to be the sweetest things, sensitive and caring, affectionate creatures.

I tried many tactics to entice a woman’s attention, from personal ads to dating services, bars, dance clubs, book stores, supermarkets, you name it, I've been there. Even on the train, on the street. One thing has never changed, the wealth of SNOBBY women!

No matter where I've been, the plan was simple; SMILE! And say 'Hello'. In almost EVERY ENCOUNTER the result was that
(1) she completely ignored me, turned her head in the opposite direction than me,
(2) she made a sigh or a grunt in response,
(3)or she gave a look that could most likely mean how dare I say hello to her!

Now I have been told I am negative, but how does me being negative EXCUSE these rude women of Massachusetts? Another example you ask? I was at a news stand and I noticed a cute lady reading a women’s magazine. I noticed the article she was reading was titled: 'How to attract today’s man'. So I worked up my courage and said 'Hi there.' She looked and me with blank eyes and went back to her magazine!

How about this one, I had to put change in parking meter and 3 cute ladies walked towards me. Did I say a form of greeting, you bet 'Hello' I said, one gal grunted. And all 3 kept walking. And I’ll bet you money they were out for drinks later and someone had to have complained, 'I just can’t seem to find any nice men!' Ahh if only she had said “hi!”

I think you get the picture of what I have had to deal with in the past several years in my search for female companionship! You cannot honestly say it’s all in my mind.

Now we have dating services out there ready to help themselves all geared to help ONLY women. Women get to call phone chat lines for free while men have to pay anywhere from $1.99 and up a minute. We have bars that offer “ladies night”We have dating clubs that women can join, no fees, and no obligations. While men have to come up with $2000+ in some cases!

Now for some reason some women are still complaining there is no equality among the sexes! This much is true, men are getting railroaded, ripped off in the dating game big time!

Of course you may argue, 'Not all women are like this, you’re stereotyping all women on the acts of a hand full' Ok, I grant you that one I've only been single all my life and been looking for love for ever 12 years. Your right, some women are not that rude. Some women know that playing hard to get is a big mistake because they would be alone forever if they were that rude, they may know deep down they have to offer what they can. I've been told I should LOWER my standards and look into dating these women, and so I did!

Now mind you, as I lowered my standards, my goal became simple, find a woman I can ENJOY being with! Not too hard right? Let me see if I can remember the women I met. Obese, bi-sexual, looking to experiment, freaks with glow in the dark hair, body piercing and excessive tattoos, one gal wanted kids MORE than a relationship, women who are more concerned with popularity than taking care of their friends who need them, one woman confessed before we met on the phone that she had herpes. Ok that’s enough. I want to be able to go to sleep tonight!

I just start laughing when women I don’t like start trying to give me guilt trip "Maybe you should lower your standards" or "You shouldn't be so picky." As if I had NO RIGHT to be happy! Now, for the record, am I bitter? Yes, am I angry? No, I am disgusted and disappointed. But I think you can see I have just reasons. As with all problems, before the solution can be found, there must be AWARENESS of the problem. I pray someone out there has been listening, it would be a crime to the word if the problem got worse, there is no place anymore for women who play hard to get when shy men are afraid to say 'hello' or risk being accused of sexual harassment. Where women only talk to arrogant men and ignore the awkward guy in the corner. There are good men out there ladies, you just got look and listen!

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kimberlyinspired Massachusetts sounds like my law firm. Dude, you sound bitter. I can see. Not all women are just inviting with the arms open, and not a lot of people say hello ( I live in Vegas, no one here gives a shit) Try internet dating and don't try to impress, try to just be yourself. I tryed Internet, and I've found someone crazier than me. Dude, always here to say hi. - More than a year ago
bdxpk My advice: Go to South America & meet as many women as you can. Recently I was in Peru hiking in the Andes, and I had opportunity to meet some of the local women in Lima. Totally amazing, humble, beautiful, caring, sexy, funny, outgoing. Much different from American women who are, on average, snobby, pretentious, and think the world owes them everything for being born. There are some great American women but hard to find, many more options in South America. - More than a year ago
banker Hi! =) - More than a year ago
PeiPei627 I think the women you met were just stupid. I think people are just being stupid. I love talking to just about anybody. But for some reason, people play games and they don't give people the benefit of the doubt. They learned to just keep playing the game and even toss out simple manners, like saying at least hello back! My experience has been, guys will talk to me, but nothing more...even now. So to be honest, I've gotten to the point where I'm expecting guys, yes, will talk to me..but nothing mor - More than a year ago
martyfellow 1. The code for behavior is never be nice to an unknownman...
2. Women in the US love only Daddy, maybe their gay best friend, but really not heterosexual men, who they only relate to on the basis of how much money they have. In other words, most modern US women pretty much act like streetwalkers... - More than a year ago
Platinum07 All I have to say is I salute you. I know the feeling and a lot of what you said mimics my experiences. No girls anymore seem to have values or high self worth. I changed myself for the better and I have women hitting on me now. I turn down most of them because they are just not worth it. A little taste of their own medicine. - More than a year ago
geekygamer79 I agree its a little ridiculous to say the very least you could not have been more right, and martyfellow that's just too funny but sadly very right on, they say one thing and mean/do another. - More than a year ago
Atomizer I liked your article, but it could've been a lot shorter:

WOMEN ARE CRAZY. - More than a year ago
Nutz76 What you're describing is called a "bitch shield". Google that shit and learn more about how to break through. - More than a year ago
sballer5 Oh my gosh, I went into this skeptical, but now couldn't agree more! I live in MA, but am a student from NH, and whenever any guy compliments me on the street (even a hobo!) I smile and say thank you. It's nice and flattering! but my friends will elbow me and tell me not to answer them! how rude. - More than a year ago
spartom For some reason, I myself have that image in my head of most guys even though I am a guy. I always like to think of myself not as a typical guy as in most are egotistical and obnoxious sometimes. Only difference is I think of a lot of girls as bitches because you hear all the time of how they are sluts or assholes to everyone! I am lucky though because I have the best friends now and it's a good mix. Few girls, few guys, gay guy, girlfriend who is amazing! Sorry your not as lucky you should move - More than a year ago
jaykay This dude has a point a very valid point, I'm from Montreal, Canada and it seems to be the same around here.

Anyways, dude its pointless to say this, very few people will agree with you on this and the ones that do, won't have the balls to say it.

Also you will royally get flamed be the ladies, VERY rarely do women see our point , they usually resort to name calling like "bitter" "frustrated" and such. Most women can't seem to think outside of their ideology - 11 months ago
ALWAYSclassy You should move to the south. most girls are friendly there lol. if a guy spoke to me, I would speak back just because that's the polite thing to do. if he didn't come off as creepy or scummy then it's okay to at least answer him. - 10 months ago
palek What-are-ya, retahded! Mass. woman are wickid good! - 7 months ago
lost-angel Go to Asia :)
- 7 months ago
proud_bostonian15 Excuse me?! I am a massachusetts women born and raised and I can tell you--MOST PEOPLE ARE SNOBS, especially in massachusetts. you are ridiculous to think that you are going to find the perfect women; if someone tells you not to be so picky it means they recognize this....but you really sound ridiculous you can't give such a sweeping generalization of an entire state because you have met the wrong women..and btw don't you bash boston like that because it is the BEST PLACE on the face of the earth! - 6 months ago
AlekNovy Everywhere I went, I used to see bitter, bitchy, rude women who are conceited.

Now, everywhere I go I see sweet, loving women who are just desperately looking for love.


Did all the women change? No, **I did**, lol. You (author of this article), are like the male version of a girl who cries "all men are jerks!"... If you don't believe me there's women who say the same about men, half the questions here involve "why are all men so stuck up" thinking lol.

- 4 months ago
jacquesvol When I say "hallo" to a random woman in Switzerland, Belgium, France, Italy, Spain, Holland, Germany or elsewhere, guess what? They look the other side. Why? They were taught to do so by their fathers. And yes, their fathers are MEN. - A month ago
 
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