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Is she interested or just being nice?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I'm 21 and I like this 26 year old woman. I've known her for about 5 months. We'd see each other a couple of nights a month because she was a helper in an EMT class I was in. I would e-mail her at least once a week and she would reply within a couple of days. After a few months she gave me her phone number and said If I ever wanted to call her I could. Over the past few weeks her e-mails have been getting shorter and shorter. When I try to call her most of the time she doesn't answer. The one time she did answer we talked for several minutes but it wasn't like how we talk in person. Neither of us talked very much. When we are at class she talks to me if I see her or when I go see her. She'll joke that I'm cute and smack the brim of my hat. She has to know I like it. I want to hang out with her more and maybe eventually date her. She said we could hang out, it's just a matter of actually getting a hold of her to do so. Now the class is over and I still want to see her. I know she has a fear of abandonment. She doesn't do much of anything outside of volunteer EMS and lives in her parents upstairs apartment. What should I do? Does she like me?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
You know what. Am 26 yrs old and am liking this 21 yr old guy. He is cute and we always talk. Just few little converstaions. I can sense a tension between us. I really like him but am just waiting for him to ask me out. I am scared that he is just being nice to me and what I want is more than niceness. So you better do somethin man! I mean if you really like her, she ought to know. Those jokes? She really meant that and a good sign that she is interested. I do that too to flatter my man. So good luck!
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I think she does like you but maybe not as much as you like her, try hanging out with her more and see what happens
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kbmonday (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
I think the problem is that you haven't been confident/assertive enough. Don't miss out and always ask a woman out as soon as possible, waiting can only hurt. That doesn't mean be pushy, just be THE MAN and take charge. Tell her you are going to go on a date, don't ask, and for goodness sakes ask as soon as you get the chance. Also, don't expect women to call or even call back, leave 1 message, then don't settle for less than talking to her. Try to play hard to get, but still be flirtatious, and let her know in a nice way that you have other choices. Little hints about your dating life, keeping busy, and making it harder to be caught will/should increase the attraction. There's more, but I haven't the time, Good luck, Kyle
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