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Help! I can't understand her, does she like me back?

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ConfusedPersonal (Age:18 to 24)     When: 10 months ago
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There is this girl declared that I like her sometime ago.
The immediate response was we do not know one another enough.

However, the very next day she hinted for me to plan for activities to have together.
Went for movies and shopping together
Then she made me stuff to eat
And didn't mind other people seeing us together in school

Why is she doing all these if she doesn't like me back yet?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Maybe she doesn't want to admit that she likes you yet. She probably is still thinking. Hang in there!
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southerngirl
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southerngirl (Age:30 to 35)      When: 10 months ago
This is her way of getting to know you better. Give things a little time. Good luck!
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magicgirl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
How do You know she doesn't like you back? Maybe she does but she is just afraid to show it because she is not sure if you are the right guy for her. Maybe she is doing these to show that she is interested in you.
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Falken16 (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
its not that she doesn't like you back, she s trying to get to know you better!

"The immediate response was we do not know one another enough."

and now she wants to do stuff with you. so she wants to get to know you better. she's making sure ur safe.
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arzen (Age:30 to 35)      When: 10 months ago
She's just trying to get to know you. There are 3 main things that women look for in men.
1- what's your value? Do other women seek your attention? She will ask herself. If those women like him, what am I missing out on?

2- Are you a leader of men? You don't have to go join the Army for this. Put in a situation can you lead your troops/friends/peers through a task or crisis and command respect? This will show you have the means/whit to be a provider.

3- Can you protect your family? You don't have to get macho and go kick somebodies butt in front of her. But knowing she is secure in your arms will usually keep her in your arms. Being sensitive is fine when you're sad, she'll love you for that. At some point you will need prove that you can wipe those tears away and be a man of firm action that can and will put himself in harms way if needed to insure loved ones will be safe.
Nothing will have her lose respect for you faster than being a weenie. If you lose that respect too many times for too long, it's over.

You can't really just go announcing you got these qualities by talking yourself up, although some women fall for it.
Also don't go get all hurt and bent out of shape if she is just trying you on, to see how you fit. You'll show her the weenie factor way too early. Most women kinda like the bad boy image and to treated like crap. Feel good you got as far as you did, next time don't let on so soon you're that interested in her.
Overall it does mean you have value. If she turns out not going for you but can still be a friend and a bit of a flirt, use that to your advantage to show other women they're missing something. It's been said it's easier to attract other women while you have one.

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R3dBar0n (Age:30 to 35)      When: 10 months ago
No offense, but your a sap. You openly admitted you like her. What kind of mystery is there now, she knows exactly what your about with her. If she's making you food and going to movies and shopping with you. Obvi. She likes you. If a girl doesn't like you she wouldn't be doing these things with you.
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Timeus (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
She plans activities with you, goes out with you all day, makes you food, shows public affection and you think that she doesn't like you? Why? Because she hasn't -said- it? Actions speak louder than words, my friend. And these actions are singing opera right in your face. You don't have to say you like someone for things to be underway, go with the flow. She's trying to get to know you now. That means she's giving you a -chance-. Also, stop being in a rush! Dating is fun! Take your time and enjoy the ride!
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