What makes a guy want to use you in a way you want to kill yourself?

I will say it again: Most fathers or brothers don't prepare their children or siblings for what's out there. When I was in college I would warn my female friends what guys were trying to do, and they never ever believed me. Why? Simply because they said, 'I would never do that. ' To which I replied, "well, guys don't think like girls. "

Believe me, you're not the only one this happens to. As hard as it is, think of it this way: at least you consented to it, and it wasn't done against your will. As harsh as it sounds, plenty of women are raped, and guess what---they go on and continue fighting in life and not many give in to suicide. So now you learned a tough lesson, but is not a lesson that is worth killing yourself for. Time will eventually help you get thru this, but you can't continue living in the past. Of course, easier said than done, but you also need to look at other perspectives in life. Good luck.

... it is called the selfish and a-type chromosomes. Not every guy is a user but some individuals are quite selfish and only think of how they can indulge themselves at the cost of others emotions.

Let the emotions run their course and then go out and find somebody that will love /you/... While your looking for that individual, have fun with life... Go out, laugh, live and above all don't let others use you again.

This is one of those holes that many girls fall in. Here's something you should remember:

"Guys give love for sex, Girls give sex for love. "

With that in mind, It hurts and you will heal. You talking about suicide is a clear indication that you want help and underlies that fact you aren't going to so lets extract that from the equation.

You'll be okay, just take this experience as a learning as it will not be your first in encounter of males lying and interested solely in sexual relationships.

Some guys are assholes. But what you have to keep in mind is that you should be calling the shot all the time when you are just dating and meeting people. Now when you get in to bed with somebody with out knowing where do you stand then that right there leave an open space for guys to do what they want with you. Now if you know where you stand thing like this should not be happing to you. Look at it this way 1. Forget about wanting to kill yourself because then there will be no way that you will ever get layed again. 2 You know not to have sex with some unless you know where you stand and 3. Keep telling yourself thank god you don't have to deal with a small guy like that because you want to be with a bigger and better person that is going to want to be with you 24/7 Hope this can help you feel better.