Why don't I get approached?

Attraction is 90% attitude and 10% physical.

I think the best way to put it in women's terms is to think of a day when your hair, makeup, style, clothing was just perfect. You walked out of the door with a sense of confidence and you felt good about yourself. Like the world is your oyster!

Men and women pickup on the confidence/attitude and you are bound to get more looks, smiles and attention from others.

In other words, it is /all/ about how you feel about yourself. If you feel like you are a wall flower then your body, face, and demeanor will reflect that and nobody will give you any second looks.

First step.

Feel good about yourself! Drop all negative thoughts about yourself, such as "I guess I am average but sometimes I think I'm cute". That is one negativity after another!

Step two.

Once you drop the negative aspects of yourself, attack your clothing with the same positive appeal. Throw out, sell, exchange all clothing that does not make you feel like /wow, I am SEXY/ and only buy clothing that makes /you/ feel sexy and this applies to lingerie as well!

Step three.

Step out into the world feeling /sexy, cute and confident/ and guys will flock to you like lions who have been starved on yogurt for a week.

If you don't believe me then watch those "uglier" girls next time when they get attention from guys and ask yourself what seems so different between them and yourself. I think you'll find 9 out 10 times it is their attitude.

. So no more ugly duckling syndrome! Have more confidence in yourself and be less critical of yourself. Sadly, we are generally our own worst enemy when it comes to being critical so it is imperative that you overcome that!

I would say be yourself as guys will be able to tell if your not and that's enough to be a turn off. You have to be open for guys to come up to you. What I mean is spark conversations with guys have fun when around them but most importantly be yourself.