How do you stop comparing yourself to EVERYONE!?

Try finding something your good at in a totally different category that makes you unique. Comparing always results when you are looking at how people are doing in the same area. She is thinner she has nicer hair or eyes. Well what if you break away from that and just start making hot chocolot or reading a guy a story. Do you know how many guys I know that would be totaly turned on if a girl ever read us a story before we went to sleep. Or if you got a wrench and tightend the lug nuts on a guys car that would put you above so many girls. You would be fullfilling the male fantasy. This one guys sister I know was fixing a car and it was increadibly hot. They all had to go home real quick if you know what I mean. So get a hamer start hamering some nails and you will create your own category and be one ahead of other girls. You want to go the sweet route. Make a guy an unusual treat like roasted marshmellows with chocolot or hot chocolot on a stormy night. Or an unusual cake. Anything different from the norm that tastes good. Break away from the I'm a size 10 and she's a size zero. My hair is 8 inches hers is twelve. There are so many things you girls could be doing that none of the other girls out there are. Do a treasure hunt wear you have clues to wear the gifts are and the guy get to find them

Find your insecurities, address them, and you'll find you won't compare yourself to everyone.

. Or provide more details, such as what are you comparing - physique, personality, style - and whether it is positive, negative or critical of them.

You can tell yourself that you're better than all of these girls and that THEY have to compare to you. But what do I know, I'm Just A Random Guy. A guy that's more in touch with his feminine side than he should be (no homo). :)

Find the negatives of your comparisons and write them down on a sheet of paper. take a good look at what you've written, then rip it up! You're better than what you give yourself credit for, don't let others stop you from being you or make you think otherwise :)