What did I do wrong here?

Wow sounds just like my situation, I kind of did the same thing. She probably doesn't want to be friends with you because she likes you and she might not know you might like her. So just leave it alone. there's really nothing you can do about it, of course you can try asking her nicely why she doesn't want to talk to you, yourself.

We would need more information to really analyze what went wrong here. I think it's odd that she doesn't even want to be friends with you. Are you certain that you didn't do or say anything that might offend her? It's possible that she could have found another guy she liked better. You probably don't want to think that, but it could be a harsh reality.

I'm gonna take a risk and see it from her side. I'm going to tell you a true story about what happened with me. But don't think I'm shallow. It isn't my fault.


Here it goes. About 3 weeks ago, my ex boyfriends friend started talking to me again. I hadn't seen him in like 3 months but I thought I remembered what he looked like and he was always there for me when myex boyfriend and I got in fights.

He would say things like; I was so jealous of *****, your so beautiful.

And then we started talking 2 hours on the phone every night. He is only 2 years older. So I could see him in school and stuff. Well I forgot what he looked like and I saw him in school but I walked past him and acted like I didn't see him because I didn't like what he looked like.

He plays lacrosse with my friends in his grade. And I guess you could say they are like the more popular kids on the team and he was telling me how they made fun of him for not showing up to lax for being really sick for like 3 weeks. The kids that were making fun of him were people that I'm REALLY good friends with and they always try hanging out with me and stuff so I didn't understand why they wouldn't be nice to him. I think he was kind of. Like a kid you need to get to know so I guess you could say he's a "loser. "

Well I tried to forget about that, but I couldn't. And he wouldn't let me say anything to the kids that were making fun of him. He said they would make fun of him more for having me say shit.

It really got me mad and then I stopped talking to him.
Then he went over this girls house that I hate and lied to me about it so I said don't talk to me anymore, please.

And he told me he liked me and stuff but I COULD NOT get passed that!

I tried so hard, too.

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The moral of my story is that sometimes a little, tiny thing can kill a relationship completely. There could be NOTHING wrong with you, but she heard something about you or something extremely stupid.

Your probably a great guy and don't let anything like that affect you. Ask her to be sure that's what she really wants because once you leave you won't be coming back. If she agrees, cut all communications and that's the end of that. Maybe she just wants some time to think though!

Good Luck!

Wow. Not even friends? She sounds kinda cold hearted. Maybe she just got a bad vibe or is interested in someone else. To not want to be friends is a cold thing to say. Maybe it just took to much effort on her part to be friends and she wants to cut the contact.

Hmmm.
coming from a girls point of view
she either had some major guy problems
and currently wants nothing to do with boys.
orrr
she just flat out doesn't want be friends
or it to progress into anything;
its her loss anyways she has to live with
the feeling of not knowing what could of happened
but don't worry they are plenty of other girls
willing to fill your time :]

If she doesn't want to be with you just even as a friend, then there's nothing that you can do. Don't worry about it. Its her loss.

She's crazy and you saved yourself a lot of time.