Is it his way of hinting that he won't be able to support a relationship or what? would a guy mention those things to a girl he is truly interested in?
Only way to find out why he mentions this is to also lets us know the details as to when/why he is mentioning this. As the other poster said, many reasons to say this excuse. Testing you out to see if you're a gold digger letting you know that he is broke so that you don't think sure going out with a rich guy giving you the hint he won't be paying for dates and he wants to go dutch giving you the hint that he doesn't want to go out and do fancy activities anyway, those are a few common reasons. Would be interesting to know as to when he is bringing up this subject though.
It depends on how he follows up on his claim of being broke. If he suggests that the two of you go out for drinks or dinner or some other activity that requires spending money, then he's most likely a mooch, and will try and take you for all you're worth. But if he just casually mentions it, and suggests a low-key, evening or date, then he might just be being honest.
He sure can. The three main reasons why he does that are 1) He is insecure about what you'll think of him once you know that he is broke. So hinting it early on serves as a cushion or weasler.
2) He wants to come out clean and just let you know his current situation
3) He could be testing you to see if you are a gold digger or not
As for you or other ladies, do you mind if the guy does not have much money?
Don't mind. Especially if he is at least working full-time. He may be paying child support to his ex, as well as paying a house note, etc for himself. Times are tough. It should be a 50/50 relationship on all levels these days. JMHO. - 8 months ago
I disagree. I think he's interested but needs her to know that he's not spending money on her because he doesn't care, it's because he doesn't have much. - 8 months ago
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