This guy and me were chilling together for a while now he came over like twice and we cuddled up and stuff texted from time to time it was good and stuff I knew him for a while now but it turns out that today I see him at school and he sees me and he didn't say nothing no hi or smile nothing ya help me understand him I am like so mad today. Thanks
You're young and boys can really act immature or weird sometimes. It's hard to really know what he's thinking, just like it's really hard to know what girls are thinking sometimes. The best way to find out is to ask him about it. Ask why the change from being really nice, to not talking. Don't attack him, because he will get defensive, but just ask him in a nice way that you've noticed the change, and you want to make sure you haven't done anything.
Unfortunately I tried texting him twice asking him if he was mad or something because I was lost and he didn't write back I'm not sure what's wrong with him because even when I was him in school he was serious I really liked him but he probably did get mad because I didn't put out but I wasn't going to either - 8 months ago
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Well if you try and he doesn't respond, then who knows. Like I said, guys are really immature and can be really weird. Maybe just move on, and not worry about it. Of course it's easier said then done. - 8 months ago
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The same thing happened to me . After I asked him once what was wrong and he said he didn't want to talk about it, I left him alone . Sometimes guys need a little space too and we girls have to respect that . He was probably just having a bad day or family problems .
Did your's look for you again? After he got over whatever. and yeah I try no to push him because I know how he can get he just starts getting really mad. - 8 months ago
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Yeah, he did look for me later and we talked about what happened. This doesn't always happen though. You just have to trust him sometimes. - 8 months ago
Maybe he's mad because you didn't put out. It sounds ridiculous and I"m not by any means saying you should, because he should value you more than that, but that could be what it is. He's not worth your time if that's all he was out for. Don't go crawling to him let him come to you when he comes around
Some guys are just confusing. one second they act like they like you then the next they don't. I'm not sure why he changed like that but see how many times he does that. this happened once so maybe he was going through something. if he continues to do this, he is trying to send you a message that for some reason he has lost interest, doesn't want to talk to you anymore. talk to him and if he makes excuses but keeps on showing less and less attention then he realized he was not that into you. Could be that he realized you weren't his type. Just see what happens.
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