My life has gone from awesome to I rather kill myself . It all started about a month ago when I got busted for cutting my wrists my friends ratted me out because they worry worried about me but now I had to tell why I did it I had my best friend with me telling everything instead of me I was way to scared and shaky I didn't tell the whole truth but know basically the whole school knows I'm bi and secrets I would turn to my parents but they have other things to worry about like there divorce and stuff . Anyway I'm getting way off track its just everyone treats me different and the secrets I do still have to myself well there starting to bug me I told my bbff = best bi friend forever about my secret she told me to tell but I said she said to make sure I tell her what's going on with me 24/7 anyways here's the problem my mom is marrying this one guy I don't like him at all he just ant right I feel unsafe about him and when ever he touches me I don't like it one bit I rather be killed then let him kill my neck again I feel a little sexually abuse some times but I don't think he means any of what he's doing like that . My friend says it is but I just don't think it is but I do feel that I want him gone and with the problems at school happening and my girlfriend and me having problems I can't handle much more cutting was my only way out and that's gone now . WHAT DO I DO ? !
Update: Everythinss better between my stepfather and me I've told my mom and he hasn't done anythin wrong since.he never meant to make me feel like that he was just joking around now he's like my bud even tho I have more problems now to deal I hope it be ok
4 months ago
this has been a while but tell your mom about that guy.most of the time when a kid believes that the boyfriend of there moms is like a pervert there usually right so tell ur mom.it may help her and be the best ting ever
Thanks for your advise I have told my mom I don't like him being near me or touching me and since than he hasn't done anything wrong.witch is great I don't care bout him being here anymore. I have new probablems to deal with now and he is the least of my worrys if you wanna give me adives on those message me. love Questionmark, Aka Courtney - 4 months ago
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Okay message me first because I'm in a rush I have to go to the store and plan stuff for my sisters baby shower.....but ill ttul bye - 4 months ago
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When: 7 months ago
I just posted a response, only to realize that this post is a month old. I hope things are getting better for you now.
Many sexual abusers have a way of manipulating their victims into thinking that there is nothing wrong with what is going on. It's often impossible for the one being abused to see what's really happening. It takes an objective view from someone on the outside looking in (your bbff) to see truth. Don't let him make you think that it's normal. Maybe get with your friend or girlfriend to tell your mom about him, if you feel more comfortable going with someone. You deserve to life a life free of fear.
I think that you need to tell your mom how you really feel about this guy. And plus if she doesn't listen you could always tell your dad, or maybe tell your mom everything that the dude has said to you or done to you. Either way there is a much better way to settle things than cutting your wrists. Trust me I did it and it just made everything a whole lot worse...and as for everyone at school knowing your secrets...don't worry about it...they all found out about me cutting my wrists and now there's a whole new dramatic story going around. Trust me everything will turn out fine...and if it doesn't I'm sure you have a lot of amazing friends that will always have ur back, that you can tlk 2...
Look first of all when your mom boyfriend touches and you don't like it tell him stop and you need to talk to your mother about how you feel about him and just from past experience make sure you are respectful . And if for some reason she just doesn't get it you should talk your dad and tell him what's up .
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