I think they are childish and disrespectful. It makes me think they are perverts who think women are just sex objects. I try not to be around guys like that
I agree with that. Pity so many toddler's are more vocal than the guys that actually have a shred of decency and maturity in them. It makes it look like all guys are like that when they really aren't. - 8 months ago
It's very annoying. It shows basically that the guy has no maturity whatsoever and also that he has no respect for women. I think they should get a life seriously. I've dealt with guys like that and I still do and it's like man grow up. I don't think there is a way to make them grow up. It's a choice they make.
I agree that it is a choice they have to make, but there are a few things that people can do to give them a boost along the way. One of the best I've heard of is to make a public scene of them. Slap them REALLY loudly and HARD. Then proceed to scream blue murder at them, insulting (or in this case, complimenting the lack of) their bodies and their lack of maturity so that EVERYone knows of their stupidity. Guys will definitely think twice before making comments at you, or around you, again. - 9 months ago
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My feelings about these kinda guys is that they're nothing other than sanctimonious little pricks!
And very little else, though I can think of a few words to describe them fairly accurately. The words 'dipstick' and 'u-bend dweller' come to mind. What do you suggest to stop guys like this? - 9 months ago
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I f***in' hate those kinda guys. Personally speaking. I think its just plain gay. Its not a turn on, and it doesn't make you manly. Its just NOT right. I know a guy who actually talks about boobs and ass all the time. About almost every single girl. And its NOT a fun thing to listen to. One time he just went OVER THE TOP with his comments and I got really mad. So I kinda told him how I felt about it and how girls in general feel about it. That shockingly gave him something to think about and I guess my harshness got to him. Because he stopped. At least around me he did. Lol
B-E-A-U-tiful answer! So that's the way to get a dumb ass to stop? Just give them such a shock that they don't know what to do with it? Lovely. I can't WAIT to try that one out. Thanks! I do feel the need to point this one thing out though. Not all guys are like this, in fact, it is actually a minority. I'm not like this, and I hate guys like this too. It's only if you hang around idiots like frat boys who are so obsessed with their own stupidity that they won't let it go that they seem majority. - 9 months ago
It's degrading and it's disgusting, not to mention devaluing. A woman is not a object, but a person. Even the language the guys use to describe woman's body parts is so gross and horrible...I think especially in the presence of other women men should not make such comments. It's down disrespectful. I think when guys are in a group it becomes kind of unavoidable...but, in the same respect if a woman is in ear-shot...it is disrespectul and rude. I think it okay to go as far as saying a girl is pretty, good looking, gorgeous, beautiful, cute..but beyong that it's excessive....ugh!
I agree Almost one hundred percent. It is everything you say it is, except, in my opinion, okay when guys aren't around women. There's a common saying that if you want the true measure of a man, you'll find out what he's like in secret. In this case, what he's like with his friends out of a woman's earshot will do too. You can see how he really feels about women like that when he isn't trying to impress one and acting fake. You can also see what his friends are like when he's with them to see norm - 9 months ago
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"a common saying that if you want the true measure of a man, you'll find out what he's like in secret. " I think that applies to everyone - interesting observation. Thx. - 9 months ago
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Pleasure. It is definitely true. Everyone tries to impress the one they love or care about. They act differently around everyone. The only time that they will act themselves, is when they're alone. However, if you want to see what he really thinks about women, you'll also look at when he's with his friends. Guys are a lot more open with their views on women around guys, and the excuse of 'peer pressure' doesn't cut it. That's when you'll see his respect or the lack of it. - 9 months ago
A friend of my hubby's annoys the hell out of me when we are watching movies. He always has to make comments about the girls in it. Mostly about their boobs and ass. You know. And he doesn't just mention it once. He says it through out the WHOLE movie!
Normally it doesn't bother me if it is like once or twice. But come on! It really ruins the movie for me and makes me not want to watch it. It also makes me not want to hang out with him anymore. LoL. Even my hubby has to tell him enough is enough!
Yeah, but any interruption in movies annoys me. I'm a movie addict in that way. How can it not irritate you though that he makes women out to be nothing but breasts and an ass for him to drool over? That's why it is annoying to me when I hear guys talking like this - it really devalues women. They are SO much more than just that, yet these idiots seem to think otherwise. It also makes guys look like morons with nothing better to do than rub their only two brain cells together and get crap out. - 9 months ago
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It does bother me a little. But he is not my hubby so I really can't say too much about it. After a while my hubby is like. Alright dude we get it. You can stop saying that. And he usually stops. But it does drive me nutts. Especially when I am right there next to him.
Sometimes he even does it when we are out places. And it kinda makes me embarrassed to be around him.
I really try to stick to pg movies when he comes over. Lol - 9 months ago
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Lol. Yeah, or you can try movies that have fewer girls in them. Unfortunately that often means that they're boring movies. All good movies that I can think of off the top of my head, besides Shawshank Redemption, have a balanced cast.
Does it feel all that different if it's your hubby saying this stuff or just a random friend? Less/more offensive?
You should go answer my other question I've got about what guys do that irritates girls. You can get there on my profile by clicking my name. - 9 months ago
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Ohhhh. Hubby knows better then that! LoL. But my hubby doesn't really do that. If he does say something he will usually just be agreeing with someone that a girl is hot or pretty or W/E. He never just acknowledges a woman B/C of her body parts.
It is DEFINITELY more offensive if my SO were to do it then anyone else. But it is still offensive even just coming from some random guy/friend. Especially when it is done continuously.
The good thing is the friend likes watching kid movies too - 9 months ago
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W/E? OS? Sorry, but I don't understand these two things. I'd assumed OS is Other Side? Kids movies might be good. Sometimes though, these movies are also not exactly good either. PG movies are far worse nowadays than what dodgy movies were during the fifties and such. Have you seen 'Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire? ' It's not exactly a clean movie any more. Granted, you don't see anything too bad, but movies are not rated as strictly as they used to, and kids movies today aren't innocent. - 9 months ago
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LoL. Sorry. I meant SO. I'm such a dink sometimes. LoL. Significant Other. And Whatever is W/E. LoL.
And the goblet of fire is rated pg-13. But I know what you mean. They are letting loose on the ratings for kids movies now a days. Kids are being exposed to content that is probably too mature for them at a younger and younger age. - 9 months ago
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Significant other? Lol. I've heard so many euphemisms about that, such as 'other half' ('better half' for the wife). Are you really from Korea? If so, you likely know about anime cartoons. They're disguised as cartoons, yet they're actually pretty perverted. Kids the world over watch that, yet parents don't find out what they're watching because they see a cartoon and not what's really there. Do you think that it makes kids into people like that at all, being so impressionable and all? - 9 months ago
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I'm not FROM Korea. It is just where I am living at the moment. BUT I do watch a bit of anime and yea. Some of it is pretty perverted and violent. I watch everything my kids watch before I let them watch it so I don't really have to worry too much about them watching things they shouldn't. My 7 year old daughter only watches TV in the living room and I usually enjoy watching the shows with her.
I do believe that parent should screen everything their kids watch before they let them watch it. - 9 months ago
I actually was just in a situation where I was hanging out with this guy I know and he kept talking about women's bodies and their boobs . Along with other body parts . I don't think less of him per say . But I do feel uncomfortable around him now . Granted he was doing other things, but the constant talking about body parts was making me feel awkward . I don't know how to make them grow up, I wish I knew how though .
That's the problem that I see with these guys talking about girls like that - it makes them feel awkward . It relegates them to a position of a pair of boobs and the body that goes with them, not to the place they rightfully deserve - a person with a real personality and mind . Even if it's done in secret, it's still wrong because it shows how he really feels about girls . The only solution I see is a swift change in sex via a hard kick to the groin . Make his voice a few octaves higher . - 9 months ago
I get offended and disgusted with them, because there's a difference between being a guy and being a gentleman . If they're with they're guy friends and there aren't any ladies present, then they can say whatever they want . If they talk that way in front of a lady, then that shows their lack of respect for women and proves that they're pigs . I don't know if it's possible to make them grow up, but I have been known to turn their egos down a few notches by giving them what my friends call, "the look" . Lol
Good for you ! I wish more girls knew that "look" - it'd bruise many over-inflated egos . Gentleman . That's the word I've been looking for if you read my other comments to answers . There ARE two or more types of guys . I disagree with you though on the ladies being present and therefore being okay to make dirty remarks . I've heard it said that if you want the true measure of a man, find out what he's like in secret, or in this case, with his friends . You can see the others too . Do they show respect ? - 9 months ago
Haha, Pig is one of my nick names - I use that tactic to get girls I'm not into to leave me alone - I'll also say things like, "you look like you like to eat, where's a good place around here?" Obviously this is not my true personality, but why should I share anything of myself with people that aren't worth a second of my time.
Girls think whatever they want. Example in most girls head:
"He only said he didn't like me because he doesn't want me to know he does"
See the problem? - 9 months ago
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Yeah a lot of girls and people in general lie to themselves to create the illusion of them not being a reason for anything. That is a great tactic though! - 9 months ago
Unfortunately, there is more than one species of male humans . One advertises their stupidity with their comments, another slaps those idiots upside the head, and the other just keeps to themselves . Comments like "pretty" are okay, I guess, but rare from most guys . Unfortunately the other comments are a little too common, and often left unchecked . More guys need to step up to the plate and stop them .
I pride myself in my desire to get to know a girl honestly so I that look beyond her looks . - 9 months ago
It makes us girls look at them lower . I don't know how they can think they'll get anything out of that . Unless its some desperate hoe . I think either rejection or having them fall in love will help them grow up .
Erm, what do you mean 'look at them lower' ? Do you mean that you'll think less of them or that you'll literally look lower on them ? Sometimes rejection can be enough, but rarely with some of the guys I've come across . A swift slap works, though . Falling in love - truly in love, will likely work . Be less violent too . Thanks for the answer - that particular one I haven't thought of before . - 9 months ago
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Yes, think less of them . It will only be flattering to some extent until it becomes annoying . And no problem ! - 9 months ago
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