Let's say you met the perfect guy!

ya my parents would be p*ssed if I dated him very p*ssed because they expect me to merry a curtain type of person.

Those three factors may not matter that much. Love surpasses. If someone were to fall in love with a guy whom they perceived to be perfect, then what has changed? Aren't you still the same person, whether you're dirt poor, Afghan, and Muslim? They still fell in love with the guy. Though, it depends on the person, their perceptions, & who they really believed the guy to have been to see them as perfect. Culture, religion, and economic status do play paramount roles, but you know, when you're truly, and I mean truly in love, I think you're willing to compromise.

Well I can't see myself falling in love with someone without knowing those things first! Those are 3 big things about a person. To be honest I don't think considering those things I would fall in love in the first place, but who knows.

Being truthful-i'd run a mile. But tbh I don't see how I would fall in love with a guy (which takes a long time) without finding out beforehand that he was poor, afghan and muslim. How would you hide those 3 things for that long?! Impossible.

Money doesn't matter to me, and I would have enough to support him and I if I had to. but he could get a job just like I have one, since I have a house, he would also now. since I have a car, he would also know . things would work out in the end :)

Well I don't get how you could support me it really all comes down to how much of love I hold for someone like that & how much I would be willing to sacrifice for me but if they lied about that since I met them then I would probably walk away ...

No. Not when it comes to love.

Race has nothing to do with it.

Religion has nothing to do with it.

And money has nothing to do with it.

If he's the perfect guy and everything I want, then that is exactly what he is. (And if I know all that, I probably already know the other stuff!) That said, there would be some religious and cultural barriers, to be sure. But I really think that those things can often be overcome if both parties are committed to doing so.