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Should I just accept that ALL guys cheat eventually?

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glamgirl (Age:25 to 29)     When: 5 months ago
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Should I just accept that ALL guys cheat eventually? Honestly, that's what it seems like. True of False?

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Dav22
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Dav22 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
False some guys find cheating a thrill but not all
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
FALSE Not all guys are cheaters just like there are some girls are not cheaters and some are If either one cheats then move on because there is there is someone out there that wouldn't cheat.
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NotSoBad
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NotSoBad (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
False
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lovebird01
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 5 months ago
Not all guys are cheaters. Some guys never cheat on their women; you usually don't hear about them. There are also a lot of women who cheat on their men. It works both ways. If you have a loving, trusting relationship, you don't have to worry about your man being unfaithful. Its all about mutual trust and respect for each other's feelings.
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The-Nash
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The-Nash (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
It's more like why are people dishonest. Because they never put themselves in other peoples situations to have empathy and common courtesy towards another person. And a lot of times they don't know if they will cheat or not until faced with temptation, then their thinking goes to " what s/he doesn't know won't hurt them. " It happens to guys, too. That's why there's the saying "nice guys finish last. " It goes both ways. Look for a nice, quiet guy, lol. Their usually honest, and they're usually quiet, so when they say something, they mean it.
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ionlife
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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
False.

If you take that viewpoint and enter /every/ relationship with a negative view of the guy then most likely the majority of men will end up cheating on you.

Reason being is that if you hold a negative viewpoint of someone else then you'll be constantly scrutinizing every little thing they say or do. This is not healthy for /any/ relationship because it puts extra stress and doubt on the two of you before you even got started. The negativity will then slowly present itself through your actions, what you say, and what you hold back in order to protect yourself from the inevitable which is that you just know that he will cheat on you one day.

In other words, you've set yourself up for failure before even meeting the next guy.

Love is about giving yourself unconditionally. Yes, sometimes you get hurt in the process and, yes, sometimes it feels like life is playing a cruel joke on you but you must enter every new relationship with a clear mind and expectations.

Your past experiences should be treated like a library that you reference when required but not as a starting basis of your new relationship.
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Question Asker I agree with what you're saying. I loved my ex unconditionally and got hurt by his cheating. The part that pisses me off the most is that he still won't admit to it but I know that it's true. He just never seemed like the type to cheat. I guess you never really know somebody until they do something so cruel and wrong. - 5 months ago
shorty6311 I know what your saying! My ex cheated on me a whole bunch! And I forgave him! Then he hurt me for the last time! I finally told him that I was done with him and that we would never be together again! And it sounds like maybe he wasn't the right guy for you. There are a lot nicer guys out there. Trust me - 5 months ago

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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
False. It does seem like that I agree. And I would say that a good majority of them would if they thought they could get away with it. But I would never cheat. And I have a couple friends who have never cheated and I am pretty sure they are the same way.
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Quackpotty (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
No, you shouldn't just accept that because it's completely false. Not all guys cheat. It's a fact that some do, and they all ruin it for the rest of us guys by making women think that we're all bastards. Often you can look at a guy's track record - if he's cheated before with other girls, he is statistically more likely to do so again. Also, if he has trouble holding down a relationship, it is also likely that he takes them more lightly than a guy used to serious relationships. That doesn't mean that guys like that are doomed to disgrace guys the world over, but it is just statistically more likely. Unfortunately. Absolute B*s*a*d*! -insert colorful swearing here- guys like that make me want to -please do so again over here, and thank you! - Please don't colour all guys with the same brush as those few -you know the drill, don't you-? We're not all like that.
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sugahsweet18
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sugahsweet18 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
False.
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thin-mint
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thin-mint (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
This is false. Even men that have cheated in other relationships can become non-cheaters if they find the "one". My theory is that if you keep their needs satisfied then they won't have the need to look for it somewhere else! They may think other females are attractive, but they know that what they have waiting at home is better! I'm speaking from experience! :)
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Question Asker Ya that didn't work for me. His needs could have been satisfied every night but he still decided to go after his co-worker. - 5 months ago

ch3rrypi3-08
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ch3rrypi3-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I think all HOT/good looking guys cheat.
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