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Why do I attract ugly guys?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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I'm not trying to be mean. It's just the guys I dig never dig me but the ugly guys are always the ones interested in me. Is it because I'm ugly too. Don't take this the wrong way, I just wanted to know.

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Honestly, coming from a guy who's average at best, perhaps you're experiencing the point at which guys who aren't stunners come out of their shell because women our age are becoming less superficial as a whole and more focused on what a guy's doing with his life and his personality.

Also, keep in mind, unless the guy is dog ugly, he's not going to try very hard to get with a girl he doesn't find attractive. And despite what the media portrays, what's considered attractive varies quite a bit from guy to guy; after all if all guys went after the same few girls, there'd be far fewer people around. Don't be so hard on yourself, if you have poor self image and you express it a lot he'll start to think that way too. So just keep in mind he finds you attractive or he wouldn't be with you.
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archer86 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 9 months ago
Younger people are far less forgiving about looks than older folks. I can admit(with tongue in cheek) that in my youth, I didn't give an ugly woman a second glance. Now that I am older, I am far more into looking at the beauty of a person's heart than their face and butt.

Someone else did mention that beauty is also how you perceive yourself. In some ways this is true. I don't feel like a 4. 5 out of a 10 than women at this website give me. But even I must admit I am no Orlando Bloom(I am so jealous of him). So sometimes the way people look at you is the other key factor.

If ugly guys are attracted to you, maybe the see something special in you that the attractive snobs don't.

Hint. Hint.
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secretshuman (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
Well I mean, it is possible, although I'm not saying it's probable. Maybe "ugly" guys find you less intimidating, and some really good looking guys are more interested in getting someone they can't have.
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oblivias (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Well first off, I feel where your coming from.
i seem to give off a scent that attracts assholes.
but I wouldn't know if your ugly you asked this anonymously, and it really doesn't matter if you are ugly or not, the key is to be out going, and smile.
that really gets their attention/
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
A big percentage of looks is based on how you view yourself, if you see yourself as beautiful others will also. Confidence is very attractive. Perhaps these guys do think that you are beautiful and that is why they are interested. If there is a guy that you like don't wait for him to do something about it, go for it, talk to him and find out his interests.
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MangoMooMoo (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Well, since I can't see what you look like I can't really give you a fact based answer. However, with the information given I would say that looks have nothing to do with it. Its possible that your very attractive which is why guys are coming up to you in the first place, the issue may be with confidence instead. Generally, good looking guys are confident. Looks don't attract looks, but confidence attracts confidence. I would try and work on that, you'd be amazed with the results you get. =]
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