I reconnected with a male friend about a month back. At first we were getting along good and then he started acting a bit flirty with me soon after that he asked if we could pursue dating I've never really looked at him in a romantic way so I told him I wasn't sure about us dating. He said that was ok and agreed to remain friends. For a while things were going ok but now he disappeared and to me this is not a friend or behavior of a guy that likes you. Many say he probably only wanted sex and I'm starting to think it's true because I say I'm not sure about dating then he up and leaves so I guess he was never really my friend. What does this all really say?
This guy does seem shallow. I've approached a girl about a relationship (i thought I really loved her) before and was told that she wanted to remain friends. I was friends with her for two years afterwards until she left the country to go back home. If he never stuck around to be your friend, he wasn't sincere. I apologize on behalf of all the male species for jerks like that.
Mattalack
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
I don't think he was just after sex either. He may have serious feelings for you. I think it hurts him to be around cause you don't feel the same way he does about you.
Did he leave the state? Or just drop out of your life? If a guy is just after sex, he won't usually put that much effort into it unless you're really hot or he's really desparate. I don't think he was just after sex.
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