So confused

Umm ya you messed up.

First, you seem to know what you did wrong for starters.

You told him you want to see him more in his mind leading him on.

THen he txt's you saying ok I have time now lets go out.

Then you shot him down after putting him on hold for 15min, being put on hold is never cool, you don't like it so why would he? Ahhh...

He could have thought you where out with another guy and just blowing him off, which in guy world pisses us off instantly, and we see it as truly LOW.

To answer your last question will he contact you again? LOL, well I guess that depends how nurturing you are since you kinda crushed him a lil from the sounds of things, not to mention in his mind ditched him. YOu always need to remember this, in a guys mind a girl can make time whenever she wants to, which we have found most times is true, if a girl wants to make time for you she will, so when they say hey I can't or I'm busy to us that's I'm not interested in you. Can you say ouch.

ANyhow, how to get him back if you really want this guy and wana cheer him up? YOU don't dare wait for him, you meet up with him in person show him you mean business and that your serious about him, First thing to do/say is apologize for the stupid mistake you made the night before. BUT YOU best be sincere, believe it or not even if your trying to put the moves on him, he'll know it and see right through that crap. SO just apologize, and try to move on if he doesn't allow it to move on if he still seems pissed give it time/space, then try to txt him in about a week or two weeks. Then most likely he'll respond if he doesn't then, you can forget having him as a bud again he's gone.


AlPiNe~

You didn't do anything wrong...you did something UN-INTENTIONALLY. He wanted to take you out...he might have blown something off that was important to him....but you did ask him first...so when he said no...you made plans...from what I understand...he got pissy...to bad.

Umm some guys like myself can get impatient and we have to learn how to deal with it but I don't really know ummm.... he might(going out on a limb here) if you guys are already dating. I believe that he had something really important he wanted to tell or let you know and everything like that so that is a possiblity of him wanting to see you ?!!

I think he may just be trying to find a reason to break up with you. I have done things similar to that when I wanted to break up with somebody before but didn't have any real reason.

You didn't do anything wrong. Guys think that girls are supposed to drop everything and go running for them, but we can't always do that. Next time you talk to him, tell him that next time he wants to go somewhere, he should talk it over with you and plan everything out. Looking at your age I'm pretty sure you both are busy people and he should know that. I know exactly how you feel, this has happened to me a few times, I hate it.

You were NOT wrong...he has no right to get mad when you already had plans......WE NEED SOME WARNING, GUYS!!