I know a guy who likes me but is very shy like me, we were close friends then one day we had sex, since then we can't face each other. Is this normal? I think I have fallen in love with him but am too scared to tell him( my reason for acting this way) Should I make the first move to talk once again or should I leave it up to him? He's tried to approach me several times but changed his mind, I guess. I know he still likes me but why is he acting like that?
thorfin7
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
He's shy and uncomfortable with the situation. If he can't talk to you then you've got to talk to him. I'm sure he likes you but he just doesn't know how to act or what to say. Make the first move because he obviously isn't.
He may feel exactly the same way you do. It's not "normal" to sleep with someone and then hide feelings. Yes, make the first move, but be coy. Remember, you are the lady... leave a little mystery to the thing.
But don't be afraid to say (whatever his name is), "I had a great time with you, but I am wondering, are you interested in me?"..... Long pause....
Don't say a word after this. You slept with this guy, so the rest is self-explanatory. Let him respond... if he doesn't, F-him. He's just (another) one of these guys that doesn't know how to say "I love you". IF HE DOES RESPOND, then know this: He's a guy with a heart. And those are golden!
You need to talk with him, sooner rather then later. You both have feeling for each other and I remember when I was younger and had sex for the first time with a girl I wanted her to be the one to contact me after sex because I was always worrying if I was good enough for her, if she liked it...and so on. Be the bigger person and talk to him.
Schwildcat
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
I think you both are uncomfortable with what happend. You need to try to talk to him and let him know that you went too far and see if you could start over and go a little slower.
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When: More than a year ago
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