There's a guy who I'm really attracted to. He's very quiet around school (cause he smokes but I'm okay with that so don't judge! ) but he parties and gets with girls outside of my school (he's new this yr) etc. Whatever. He loved this one girl here but he couldn't get her. I didn't know him for a long long time but I knew he would look at me (hopefully not just my body) finally I was scared (im shy too) but I introduced myself to him and it was very short. Each time we talked it has been short except for once when we had to be around each other; the convo was good, but he didn't START much, I don't know if that's disinterest or shyness BUT lately I'm afraid if he found out how hot I think he is from someone ughhh I don't know though maybe not but he's still quiet and I'm not sure if its all in my head but he still doesn't say much and he looks down until he has to look up and say hey when I pass him. He would smile a lot when I talked to him before but besides the fact that we haven't talked much I don't know if he's trying not to smile thinking I don't like him (even though I'm just shy too) or if he's freaked out if he found out I like him. I'm around him a lot LATELY because I happen to manage his sport but all that happens then is I catch him looking at me, we don't talk. im afraid to try again because its hard enough but now that I'm afraid he doesn't want to if he found out or something. Or maybe he just was never interested and just being nice before. I don't know. What do you think happened, what do you think this means, what do you think he's thinking? Guys? Thanks so much!
Ok from what I understand you catch him looking at you, but when you walk by him he looks down. How does he walk normally? does he always stare at the ground? That can be a dead give away of insecurity. If you catch him looking at you when he thinks you aren't looking well I would say that is a good sign. I always use to look at girls I liked when they were just doing their thing. He is new so he will probably be interested in making new friends. If I were you I would balls up and take the high road. Help him out. Be a new friend. What do you and your friends do after classes? Maybe you could invite him out with you. If he says "no" then you have your answer. why wait around? If you wait all you're going to do is go through anxiety and at what cost? you still won't have your answer! Just move this baby into Phase 2 >>>>> Become his friend. That means talk to him more often. Find out who he his, what he does and where he is from. He should be at least willing to tell you that. Then you can move on from there to Phase 3.
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