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Good question, thanks for asking I think more girls should be aware of this
Let me start with what a girl CAN LACK and still be the SPECIAL one. Without going into the extreme, if a girl doesn't have great looks, intellect, confidence, talent, and wealth, and so on, she can still be something very special if she has one thing a good heart.
I can't express how important it is for a gal to have a good heart. The phrase good heart is as vague as it comes. To many of us guys, we use that phrase to describe a collection of characteristics and idea of what this girl is about. To describe what good heart is, I will use many statements to give you an idea or outline
A girl with a good heart is the one is kind to others and the world she lives in. She goes through life doing her best to inflict MINIMAL pains on to others. She will hold positive regards for others by trying to find the best in everyone and not judging people hastily and wrongfully. She will not say anything negative to people to hurt others nor make herself look good, regardless of the situation. (many girls struggle here) She is thus humble and modest(HUUUGE turn on, *hearts start to melt*) She promotes peace and harmony within society and her family She often shows a pleasant face, smiles and is friendly to people around her And last but certainly not least, she is above the "influence" and does NOT use nor promote aggression, violence, and hate in anyway. (A lot of the media and what's going on in society is promoting this idea of nastiness. And sadly, I see MANY MANY younger adults are absorbing it like a sponge. ) In my whole life time, I would estimate out of the thousands and thousands of girls I have seen, only 1-2% of the girls have these qualities. But I also noticed that as girls mature into women, the percentage seem to have increased a bit. I suppose it does take some time and effort to change into something this beautiful. You may argue how can I make such a claim?! I have never meet these girls personally to know that! Well, you don't have to know someone that deeply to know where they and their heart stand in life. A persons body language, tone of voice, attitudes, so on will let you know.
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