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What makes you weak over a gal?

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Sweetiesweet (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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I am not talking about sex on this one. I want to know what things a woman does/says that makes her stand out and be special from the rest? What are thoughtful things that you have like that your girlfriends have done in the past?

Tell us guys. We want to know. Us gals are trying to improve so help us out! Haha. Thanks!

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AmericanEaglKJ (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Windchaser probably has the best answer here because I agree with him entirely on that; however, honesty/trust is a big one with me. If a girl can show me that I can trust her to be there for me and to be upfront with me about things. I would probably be close to down on 1 knee. Also, an added bonus that I would love a girl to have is intelligence and a decent sense of humor. I think the most fun a couple can have is the fun little verbal play fighting/bantering that strengthens the bond between a couple considerably and can bring about closer intimacy as well.
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Confused614
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Confused614 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
A lot of things like when I know she's having a really bad day and sometimes we are both having a bad day when we get to see each other all the drama during the day vanishes and I know she's happy
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jbone79
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jbone79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Wow. Ill make this one easy she looks around at all the guys around her. See me. The ugly duckling, and well gets to know me. And no matter how hot she may be. She doesn't act like an arrogant asshole.
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WindChaser (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Good question, thanks for asking
I think more girls should be aware of this

Let me start with what a girl CAN LACK and still be the SPECIAL one. Without going into the extreme, if a girl doesn't have great looks, intellect, confidence, talent, and wealth, and so on, she can still be something very special if she has one thing a good heart.

I can't express how important it is for a gal to have a good heart. The phrase good heart is as vague as it comes. To many of us guys, we use that phrase to describe a collection of characteristics and idea of what this girl is about.
To describe what good heart is, I will use many statements to give you an idea or outline

A girl with a good heart is the one is kind to others and the world she lives in.
She goes through life doing her best to inflict MINIMAL pains on to others.
She will hold positive regards for others by trying to find the best in everyone and not judging people hastily and wrongfully.
She will not say anything negative to people to hurt others nor make herself look good, regardless of the situation. (many girls struggle here)
She is thus humble and modest(HUUUGE turn on, *hearts start to melt*)
She promotes peace and harmony within society and her family
She often shows a pleasant face, smiles and is friendly to people around her
And last but certainly not least, she is above the "influence" and does NOT use nor promote aggression, violence, and hate in anyway. (A lot of the media and what's going on in society is promoting this idea of nastiness. And sadly, I see MANY MANY younger adults are absorbing it like a sponge. )
In my whole life time, I would estimate out of the thousands and thousands of girls I have seen, only 1-2% of the girls have these qualities. But I also noticed that as girls mature into women, the percentage seem to have increased a bit. I suppose it does take some time and effort to change into something this beautiful.
You may argue how can I make such a claim?! I have never meet these girls personally to know that! Well, you don't have to know someone that deeply to know where they and their heart stand in life. A persons body language, tone of voice, attitudes, so on will let you know.
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ladykay I think that it takes a man with a good heart to see this beautiful essence in a girl. Thanks for bringing this to the publics attention because it is truly a virtue overlooked by both men and women. :)
Fortunately for the "good" girl, the right guys will carry these qualities in high regard and it helps indirectly filter out the "bad" guys from approaching the "good" girl as they overlook them for more materialistic/vain qualities in their match. - 6 months ago
LilMiss This is a beautiful answer! I wish all guys appreciated a good heart! - 6 months ago

jon73010
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jon73010 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I love when a girl gets really excited about the little things. I once had a girlfriend who would get super excited over gummy bears. Lol Another girl I know is just full of energy and gets really happy every time I see her. Its nice when a girl makes it really obvious she's happy to see me. Feels great!
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Question Asker Thank you! :) - 6 months ago
Redhrgrl I think Jon is right on the money. The single most attractive thing that ANYONE can do is to show their genuine excitement at seeing someone else! You make eye contact, smile, raise your eyebrows, everything about you brightens up. Who could resist?
And this works with anyone, obviously. When I am happy to see someone at work or at a meeting, I let it show! It makes them feel like they are the only person in the room, they have all of my attention. And from then on,believe me, I have theirs! - 6 months ago
ch3rrypi3-08 I agree that this works for girls too. There is nothing more amazing than a guy being super happy and excited to see you and be with you. It's like whoa :) - 6 months ago
ALWAYSclassy Aw that's cute! I see why guys like it - 3 months ago
 

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