I understand, in situations like this, a baby does change things. But can a guy, still be a father to his child, and have a relationship, with someone other then the baby's mother. Like with the girl, he really loves, without things being too awkward. "they say love is the most important thing. So isn't his love with the girl he "loves", just as important. If not more, then his relationship with a kid he had with some other women.
I have always thought that people shouldn't be together because of a child. When there is no love between a couple, there is tension possibly a lot of fighting and straying. Children sense this. You can raise your child separated both giving love and support to that child other then living together and creating a lot of conflict. So yes he can be a father and still be in love with someone else.
To me that baby should be more important then anything in the world right now, if you didn't have that kind of feels for his or her mother then you should have either not had sex, or used a condom or something. You shouldn't do that to someone. But to your question yes you can still have a relationship with anougher women. - 9 months ago
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I agree, A guy should never do that in the first place. Personally, If it were me I don't think, I could have a normal relationship with the guy, knowing he has a child with someone else. Yes, If it was someone, I cared about, I always would care about him. I don't think, that would ever change. But I Don't think, I would be able to just turn my back on him, as angry as I would be. I know, he'd probably still be scared about being a father, So I would help raise, the child in any way I could. - 7 months ago
I'd answer this with an honest yes. So your saying, that the guy loves someone else, and not his babys momma? In that case yea, he might still have love towards the momma but he could have fallen in love with another girl, his love for his child won't ever change though. And I believe that the baby is the one they all should be thinking about, it dosen't matter who the parents love, they can love whoever they want, it's just like with marriage, understand? The mom and dad still love each other, but have fallen out of love in a romantic kind of way. Think about the baby, then love him equally, because in a adult relationship, you can't help who you love. Hope it helped. rarcak
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