Why girls get creeped out by guys so often? This is not normal.

If a girl you did not know came up to you and started flirting sexually (usually what guys do) you would probably be happy and intrigued with this girl (provided you were at least somewhat attracted to her). Why? Because she would be acting like most guy's fantasy girl.

Now, reverse the rolls and pretend you are a girl with some guy flirting sexually. The guy thinks it's a good method, but girls don't operate the same way so they get creeped out.

CAUSE GIRLS THESE DAYS ARE GOD DAMN SOCIAL RETARDS!

I think that a little nervousness is cute, but what creeps me out is when a guy starts saying weird sexual stuff to me when we've just met.

Girls get creeped out because a lot of guys are creepy. How many women rapists have you heard about in the last century? Murders? Okay, now compare that to number of men. Girls are brought up by everyone, parents, school, society, and there told to be cautious of men. It's nto such bad advice.

because a lot of us have been there ; we meet a 'nice/normal' guy and he ends up being a total creep! we also hear rape/murder stories on the news all the time and we're afraid of that. hopefully this doesn't discourage you, just talk nicely and make her feel safe

I don't know what it is that you are doing that is creeping girls out but it seems anymore that guys have a few drinks and do the craziest things. There seems to be a lot of stuff that guys think are flirty that is not. So if touching a girl you just met (like grabbing at her ass), telling her how much you want to do her, trying to kiss her, etc., can somehow be met by a girl in a way that would make you feel comfortable but...Get you to stop doing that, let me know. Mainly we just have to walk away when a guy is being disrespectful otherwise he might think we actually like that attention and might think we are ready for more.

It depends on the girl. Some get creeped out very easily, some don't. I think it mostly has to do with fear. Guys don't really have to worry about a complete stranger making unwanted sexual advances; if they're not interested in a girl, it's easier for them to blow her off. If a girl isn't interested in a guy and he won't leave her alone, she starts to fear for her safety. You don't know what to expect from a complete stranger. I wouldn't say that it's right to expect the worst of others and jump to conclusions in that way, but it generally pays to be cautious.

there are far more men that are serial killers, rapists, and other type of predators then there are women... I don't know.. it's just put into girls heads that they have to be very careful around strange men, because, unfortunately, there are enough horror stories that gives good reason for us to. so, fine, be upset that girls don't want to talk to you, but you're just getting mad because the girl is using her brain and protecting herself. there are far too many girls that don't and let strange men take them home.

Its perfectly normal. Guys are dangerous, and strong, and their brains work in strange ways.
We have to be careful of any red flag.
Also, there is a difference between awkward/clueless and creepy. Learn it.

Um no. I'm sorry if you creep a girl out, you can't blame the girl for getting creeped out. There are so many sickos, stalkers, and predators in the world we have to watch our backs and listen to our instincts. Guys don't really have that fear of being physically assaulted or stalked by women. Not saying women don't do that but it's not a constant threat. If you are creepy then stop it. No one owes you anything, we don't have to make you feel comfortable, and we don't have time to analyze whether the guy has bad social skills or is a threat to us. George Sodini (the Philadelphia gym shooter) was described by many people as a creep and look what he did.

A guy has to do or say something REALLY werid or out of line to creep me out. If all he does is say "hi, how's it going, my name's...etc." I will NOT be creeped out.
If he does something like touch me when we've never met or star out with a line like "Hey Baby", that is mildly creepy.

Dude I feel the same way! I hear sooo many girls saying like "Oh my gawd he is such a creeper, he called me and invited me out after I gave him my number!" about some one. It's like what are we even doin that is creepy by bein nice? I realize girls like jerks but if you are a jerk for too long they will think you are a d***.

Here are some the numbers: link

Maybe you'll understand it then.

A guy that has no social skills isn't liked by a lot of people, at least has no credibility. Therfore he cannot make alliences with people or groups that would be key to his survival if indeed he needed it, which is usualy the case in life. Women physicaly aren't as strong as men so therfore a womans key to surival is alliences with groups or people that can protect them, especially very beautiful women which are main targets for sexual predators. Males who can align themselves with other strong alpha males, that also attract other beautiful females, are ideal for a females who wish to select the best males to mate and reproduces with. Its all hardwired in their minds, that's why gangs and tribes and clubs are so important for mating rituals. The guys who are socializing are the ones around the most beautiful girls, girls know this instinctively so that's where they head off to it is part of her survival.

I think you're right that girls seem to have very much stricter (and sometimes impossible) expectations of guys' behavior than the other way around, at least when they first meet you.

It made more sense after I learned something from my female friends: almost every woman I know has been stalked, assaulted, threatened, or otherwise seriously creeped-out by some guy somewhere.

Consequently, most of them are at least a little bit on guard whenever they're in public, especially with guys they've just met. When meeting a new guy, most try to err on the side of being over-cautious. Basically, their creep-radar is set to maximum strength because they're willing to accidentally reject some decent guys just to avoid another scary, awful dude. If you don't believe me, just look at the responses below. (Who can blame them? It's completely rational behavior.)

It sucks that when you meet a girl, you're effectively under suspicion because of some other guy's creepiness. The only thing we can do about it is crack down hard on creepy-guy behavior. I don't hang out with guys who act threatening or stalker-ish, and I'm not shy about telling my female friends when a guy I know acts like that. "Bros before hos" doesn't apply to potential stalkers and date rapists. Guys like that are not my "bro."

I agree, it seems that way for the most part, that it always comes down to our social skills, conversation skills, body language, overall, our social status and social lives, the way us guys verbally present ourselves is what determines if we will get the girl or not. Girls just have to be average looking, decent looking, or cute, and they will attract a guy.

That really depends on the girl (how high are her standards for example?), and how you approach her (or look like, or what you did), that could creep her out.

I feel your pain bro, I mean I live with a guy who no homo is a little bit better looking than me, he brags about the size of his dic* and all this and I'm a grower not a shower, and I've friggin had people tell me that I must be small because of how I react when he talks about his and that I don't talk about mine. Yet he gets laid all the time, and when we go out I will have a few girls look at me but normally it's me taking a backseat to him. I'm confident but I'm not cocky like him and my courage level is in the middle. I expect a girl to do SOMETHING to make me think she is into me, like something small but I simply refuse to do 100% of the work. It's not about going out and girls can do whatever, in a perfect world it would be 50-50 as far as effort, but I guess I'm avoiding the question. I don't get that I creep girls out because as I said earlier yeah I'm confident but I'm not going to act up or act a fool or whatever in public, and I'm pretty laid back by nature. What bugs me is my roomate DOES act different in public,like more loud and ish but it doesn't matter to girls. I hate that I feel like the invisible man sometimes, but I know I'm a great guy so I'm good. I think that all girls assume that a guy is only looking to get in their pants. So the defense goes up, and that makes them seem like they might be creeped out. Not to take away from your question but I would have asked Why girls are unreceptive to guys they SHOULD be. What really bugs me and I tell everyone this and if someone wants to bit*h about this or message me go for it, but girls these days just think they are better than they really are. Like a 7 thinks she is a 9.. so on. I hate using a number system but in real life its easier to say '__ thinks she is like ___". What's funny is that girls don't think guys know this. They are trying to be TOO confident and come off as too good. I can honestly say that NO girl is too good for any guy that goes to the gym 4 times a week, has less than 15% body fat, and has a great personality. That's not just me, but any guy that fits that.