Ive noticed how the gay guys are always friends with the cute girls, yet at the same time when I discuss the probability of the guy being gay, they seem totally oblivious
gay guys are awesome I love them. they are everything you would want in a friend and you don't have to worry about him pretending to be your friend so he can try to get with you.
i have really good gaydar. it's likely that these girls know their friends are gay, but they say he's not to protect his privacy. he might not be out yet so they don't want everyone in his business.
Gay guys make amazing friends for girls. They give great advice, they have your best interest in heart, and you can be physical with them because there's no fear of leading them on since they won't date you anyway ;D Also, for some girls gay men make the most attractive men because we want what we can't have. A gay man is off limits, so we want to spend more time with them because they're unattainable
gay guys are the best. they are sweet, cute, funny, and a girl's best friend with a guy's input on things. the only bitter-sweet thing about them is that they don't try to hit on you, but that means you could never get with them :/ but hey...whenever you need advice on an outfit or guy problems, they know how to handle it ;]
its because they like guys who appear non threatening
and by that I mean, a guy who doesn't seem like he's trying to get something from her.
the second they know a guy is approaching or talking to them because he finds her attractive, she will put up her defenses and begin test mode.
testing to see whether the guy is a p**** or not.
if he does what she wants, jumps through her hoops and appears overly enthusiastic that hes getting to talk to her, this sends a message of low value to her and he has failed test mode.
they like gay guys or guys who seem to have no interest in her looks etc because they don't have to go into that mode. They can just be themselves and have fun with the guy.
The guys who aren't gay who can lower her defences in this way are usually the ones that end up dating the girl, as opposed to the guy whos like her for years and keeps asking her out.
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