I've made a decision that I don't want relationships. I never want to have my happiness depend on a man ever again. I'm going to remain a virgin and single for the rest of my life. I used to not have a problem with guys approaching me and trying sweet talk me, but now it happens every few days. what I say to them now is, "I'm no man's girl" and walk away. now my mom says that that line will actually makes me "forbidden fruit" and will cause guys to be more curious about me and pursue me more. is that true? because I really just want guys to leave me the hell alone.
Your happiness should never depend on a guy no matter if your in a relationship or not.
Your going to never experience the joys of sex or a closeness with another person one of probably the best feelings in the world?
You just want to come off as a cold virgin bitch for the rest of your life basicly?
Lol I'm sorry to be so crude mean or whatever about this.. but these are my opinions...
I've never had a relationship.. I'm 20 years old... I don't want to get married or have kids.. but I still would like to have someone somewhat there. I mean I'd like to one day experience sex, and pleasing a woman. But like I said... a girls happiness should never solely depend on a man.. that's not good if it does... a girl should be able to find happiness in life without the dependance of another. Friend, Boyfriend, Family.. because you never know when you may have no one. I'm generally happy right now.. I've just been rejected by two girls in the past 2 months.. but I still work on school work and try to better myself and dream of owning my own house and my own sports car. :)
But if you truly don't want to ever experience any of this that is your choice, I think you should try and give it a chance though.. A line like that would probably make me chase after you. So yup.. answering B.
And since I've never had a relationship, I don't know if I'd like them or not.. Maybe I'd rather just have a lot of friends with benefits kinda things... I don't know though.. I'm not going to swear off relationships forever though without trying one out. :]
But just think about it though.. it's all I'm trying to say. And sorry If I p*ssed you off.. this is without a doubt the meanest reply I have ever had on here.. in my opinion.. and I've blasted fat chicks on here before...
You didn't answer the question. would my response to guys deter them or not? and I don't want to have sex because I don't want to give it up to some a-hole like you who doesn't want commitment, just intimacy. - 21 days ago
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No... you missed apparently a lot of my answer... I want a relationship. I think it's retarded to swear off relationships basicly. And I answered the question... A line like that would probably make me chase after you. So yup... answering B. third paragraph up from bottom. I don't know about guys in general.. it may work on a lot of them.. but I'd chase after you with a line like that. - 20 days ago
Nothing to do with a period of phase or menstrual cycles. I just dislike people in general and I don't feel like being like one of the girls on this site who stands out in the rain and catches pneumonia, or contemplates killing herself over a guy. it's dumb, guys aren't worth it and girl getting more and more pitifully romantic and sappy. - 21 days ago
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Which is why the way your acting is going to deter guys from asking you out (exactly what you want right?)
Look, you and I know that this won't go on forever. You will get lonely and eventually you'll want someone to hold and share your life with, man or women. Yes, things won't always work out but the whole "i don't need a man to be happy and I'm gonna make that extra clear" thing is un-necesarry. If guys ask you out, say no. vola, move on. Who cares? - 21 days ago
They will probably be more curious if they don't think you're weird and crazy, but if they keep pursuing you just keep turning them down. another thing you can do is put a ring on your wedding finger and don't look approachable.
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