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Boyfriend has a child and the mother doesn't want me around the child?

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almondz (Age:25 to 29)     When: 19 days ago
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If you happen to read my previous questions you'll notice my current situation with my boyfriend and his child's mother (the child isn't biologically his, but he takes care of her). Well my boyfriend finally took me to see his child's mother and of course she played fake smiling in my face and things like that. I just found out that she has been saying I need to mind my own business (the little girl told me this so watch what you say around kids!). My boyfriend's brother was in the house when the girl told me and he even said that my boyfriend needed to handle that and I totally agree. I never disrespected her like that! I could say that she needs to find that child's daddy to her face but I'm not like that.

I was at my boyfriend's house today while the child's mother was picking the little girl up. I didn't go outside or interfere when she picked her up, I just stayed inside the house. Now she tells my boyfriend that she doesn't want her daughter around me and I didn't do anything or say anything to her! Now my boyfriend is all upset which he has a right to be but it seems like he's taking it out on me! I'm fed up with the drama!

I have a daughter and would never tell my her father I didn't want her around my daughter unless I felt like she could do more harm than good. I am harmless and that child's mother is doing it out of spite because she still wants my boyfriend and like I keep telling him, she is using that child as a clutch.

What should I do? Please help! Thank you.


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wanacot      When: 19 days ago
If your boyfriend can't understand what's going on even after you explain it to him I'm afraid there's no hope for him.
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