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WHY isn't he asking me out?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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I like this guy and he said he likes me too. However once he tried to cheat with my friend by trying to have sex with her. Since we weren't going out I didn't consider that as cheat or I should get mad for it.

But me and him were in friends with benefits situation just didn't have sex. Its been couple months we didn't see each other. But he called me a lot.

One day he took his buddy and went with him to that my same friend's house, because his friend wanted to ask her on date, so basically he tried to hook her up with his friend, but she was going out with someone else, so she ignored it.

Then next week he called me to hang out. We met and made out, he complimented me a lot and told me he likes me and he knows that I like him too, he asked me what is that I like about him, but I didn't answer because I didn't really know what to say at that moment.

We still hang out, but he's not asking me out. I don't get what keeps him from that. Is he insecure whether I like him too because sometimes he talks of me and other guys in my future, which makes me think that he doesn't care and doesn't want to be that guy in my future.

And sometimes he looks at my neck and asks me who gave me that hickey, even there's nothing on my neck. Lol. I do act cold sometimes and don't open up to him. But I really want him to ask me out. What do you think is the problem here?

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BringerofDawn (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
The problem is you.

This sounds cruel, but it is true. Make sure that he knows that you are available, meaning SINGLE, and that while you like him, that you also want a relationship with him. He should mean more to you in a relationship, than he does in a Friends with Benefits situation.

Try to keep him happy, and If all else fails, you know that you can ask him out too. Guys aren't always the ones that make the first move.

He may be timid, but it doesn't sound like you have been receptive to the idea of going out, make him happy, and don't just WANT him to go out, but make him know what it would mean to you to go out with him.
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