Me and my girlfriend were at a party the other night, and I trust her more than I trust my best friends and family, but we were drinking and she started to kind of ignore me and talk to my guy friends (shes friends with all my friends cause she hangs out with us all the time) and I got jealous.
Normally I never do, but I was pretty gone, and blew up on her when we were about to go to sleep later that night. And the next morning I just thought. "what the hell is wrong with me"
Was she drinking? If so that's one alternative answer to how she was acting. Or it could be that she just didn't want to seem like she was taking you away from your friends and just wanted to get to know them a bit more TRUST ME a girl hates being mate checked different story. And she was just being her normal self just socializing. Nope you aren't too jealous you just reacted normally she was ignoring you instead of including you. And also you were wasted and its really hard to talk to someone who repeats what they're saying like a hundred times and doesn't even remember what they were telling you the previous night lol own experience. Your fine its nothing to worry about man.
I don't believe you're too jealous. I think you saw what she was doing and it really seemed to hurt you. =[ Your girlfriend shouldn't have ignored you which affected you. Frankly, I'd react the same way. Maybe she ignored you do to drinking. Alcohol affects everyone differently. But I don't believe you were being too jealous. =] Sit down with her and calmly ask her about it. Maybe it'll make you feel better.
I read your profile, and you're engaged? Congrats! This engagement might serve as a release to your girl. She has this commitment now from you, and from her to you. She can now converse with other men normally without being worried that you might be jealous because at the end of the night, she's always yours.
Yes, you might have overreacted. It might be something that you have to talk to your girl about. Perhaps it was a bit of your fault for overreacting, but maybe she shouldn't be getting too close to guys, especially when you're getting further in your relationship.
The key to any and every relationship is communication!
To sum up. . . You might want to back off a bit of her, but definitely talk to her about it. This could be a Wonderful growing tool for you two. A relationship that never has a fight, isn't really a relationship. . . And fights are more often ways to grow. Instead of anger, resort to grow in your relationship. Good Luck!
I have a wonderful boyfriend. We've been together for a happy couple years. I would never cheat on him and have absolutely no intention of leaving...
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