Kids who are not good at math hate math and people who aren't successful with the opposite sex hate members of the opposite sex. I'm sure you're familiar with the stereotype of the psycho who hates women, but still wants to attract them and then do them violence! I'm not saying that you are like that; what I'm saying is that it is normal to hate things that we are not having much success at.
You said that girls are mean to you, so it is pretty normal that you would defensive around girls. You also said that you don't want to hate them. That is a good sign. It means that once you start meeting some girls who don't reject you, you will probably feel good about girls.
The question you have to deal with now is, how do you meet girls who won't reject you? Well, my guess is that you are feeling so bad about your lack of success, that you are scaring girls off with your attitude. People can easily sense anger in others, so if you seem angry towards women, girls will pick up on this and avoid you. It is important that you keep trying to let go of your anger. Start thinking of great women you know and remind yourself that although you have had bad experiences, most women are pretty nice. Keep telling yourself that, stop being angry, and things will get better for you. Also, if you have not had much success with the girls you know, make an effort to meet new girls by joining a club or something.
I have known guys like you and this technique has worked for them. Also realize that you probably are not getting rejected much more than most people. Most people have to be rejected before finding someone great. Good luck!
U HATE THEM B/C You FEEL REJECTED BY THEM. SO ITS EASIER TO OUTWARDLY HATE GIRLS THAN DEAL WITH THE FEELING OF REJECTION OR You JUST GOT OUT OF A BAD RELATIONSHIP AND YOUR BITTER
What do you mean? you hate ALL girls?
Or that there are some girls that you hate that you wish you didn't?
And what do you mean girls are mean to you? How mean? What do they do?
This is simple. This pretty much makes you a smart man. I want to have a relationship but I can't get myself to because I hate girls so much. Why? It's probably because you see things for how they truly are instead of just the rumors people always say. Girls are jerks. It's as simple as that. Guys are simple. We go for what we want and ignore what we don't want. Girls will flirt with anything they can talk to. More times than none, it is the girl that gets bored with the guy or feels that the guy is too much more intimate than her. Girls want a boyfriend just so they have a guy to care about her problems and give her a hug when she wants one. So she doesn't want to act like a boyfriend and girlfriend. She just wants to have basically a close friend. It's hard to trust girls when a guy finally realizes what kind of people girls really are. I feel your pain
I hate girls too man. They're just waiting for the next best thing to come along. It sucks. They suck us in, and then just up and leave us when its convienent.
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