Ever since I began to think of calling it off with this girl that I want to go out with, that hasn't returned any of my message for the last 4 months, I keep hearing things that doesn't make sense. For example, last night I swear I heard someone call out to me and say,"STOP IT RIGHT NOW (place name here), you know you're wrong" but no one else was at my house and it was very early in the morning, as in 3am. Then I keep having these weird dreams where I see this girl that I like is always laughing but I don't know why. When I try to look around it's all blurry and I can't make anything out almost as if I wasn't wearing my glasses but I can see this girl very clearly.
Anyone have an opinion as to what's going on in my head? Oh yeah, I can take a good joke, I won't report you. I just want answers even if they are stupid.
Update: Oh yeah, I don't drink alcohol nor do I smoke anything nor do I do drugs of any kind.
5 months ago
Look I have a degree in Psychology ok so when I tell you this it is from training. First off with hearing the voices, auditory hallucinations are very common when someone is stressed. You seem to be very worried about this girl and are stressed, frustrated and annoyed that she is blowing you off. You may think you heard her say that in the middle of the night but it was probably just your mind playing tricks on you. Second, the dreams, they are clearly due to the fact that you think she is talking about you. You think she is laughing at the fact that you are still texting her and calling. You see her clearly and everything else is blurred because you are interested in her and feel everyone else is unimportant.
Now, if she is blowing you off then she is not a very good person. You are not losing your mind. Your dreams and everything else is a way for your brain to process the information it is trying to deal with. Dreams are the brain's way of dealing with the mind (I hope you understand the difference between the two). Your brain need to process the info it receives during the day and sometimes it does this by dreams.
I don't know you so this is all based on the info you provided. If you want to send me a more detailed description of what you are dreaming and how you feel about this situation, I would be happy to go over it and see if there is anything I can do to help. But based on what you said, it really sounds like you are just stressed and frustrated and you should just try and move on from this whole bad deal.
You should see if your house is haunted. Sounds crazy if you don't believe in paranormal stuff, but 3 am is usually the most active time for spirits and entities. It's called the devil's hour. They also communicate with us best when we're asleep by effecting our dreams. There could very well be something trying to tell you to move on. Maybe it's telling you to stop thinking about her and showing you dreams of her laughing because while you're tormenting yourself waiting for this girl, she's going on with her life being content and happy. Please don't think I'm crazy, I've studied this for a long time and have seen it for myself many times. It's just a possibility. Regardless of what it is though, you're not losing it hun.
Sweetie your not losing it, but I would say time to move on you got to let it go and by the sounds you don't want to, that would explain the dreams and hearing her. - 5 months ago
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