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Dawning

Why did he stop talking to me?

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Dawning (Age:36 to 45)     When: 4 months ago
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Here is some details to the situation.
We met online a few months ago now. We game together. Over the past week or so have started
talking more and both have enjoyed the humor and getting to know each other. We have been up front about both of us being married and our spouses knowing we talk. I like his wife she is very nice. I have had no intentions of taking this to any other level other than friends. Last weekend his wife had to go in for surgery (kidney stones) She had to stay overnight. We were hanging out questing & joking that evening. Things got a little flirty, suggestive. The next day told me he couldn't be that way. His wife needed him, he respected her and loved her. He though of me as his best friend online. I told him I completely understood and I respect both of them. It was something we hadn't planned on having happen. I wouldn't want to do anything to cause either of them problems. That day things were fine.
Now it seems I am getting this week I am getting the cold shoulder. I'm hurt and confused. I did ask once if I had done something. He said no. Am I missing something obvious here?


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Deeplove55 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
He doesn't want to be bothered with you anymore. Nothing personal but he just wants to really be there for his wife now and maybe feels like in a way he is getting to involved with you and can't go there cause he loves his wife. I'm sure he thinks your great but he doesn't want to get too close which could ruin his marriage. Also, his wife needs all the love and support from her husband especially now with her health issues. He's trying to tell you that he wants to stop whatever it was y'all had by slowly distancing himself. Listen to him and leave him alone.
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