If I like the guy, then it's definitely not a turn off. But if I don't. I think I might be slightly worried but not turned off, just a little afraid to think where his imagination is taking him.
If I am interested in the same, then hell no. If I am not interested in the guy then it wouldn't really matter to me if he wanted to have sex with me or not. There are a few guys that I work with that are always hitting on me and I know it is only because they want sex. It is not because they like me or anything. As long as they don't cross the line I have established with them, then it doesn't bother me that they flirt with me or hit on me.
If it is just for sex then it would depend on the guy. If sex was what I wanted from him, then no it wouldn't matter. If it was a guy I was interested in having a relationship with and I found out all he wanted from me was sex, then yeah, it might turn me off.
To me it's not a turn off. And even if I didn't want to have sex with them, and they wanted to with me and thought that no matter what they we're having sex with me. Then that's a turn off.
Thanks for the answers. I asked this cause one of my male friends feels it is turn off If a girl knows a guy wants to have sex with them even If the girls wants to have sex with them as well. The reason for this is cause he feels that in todays society, guys are looked at as heroes when they have sex with girls and girls are looked at as sluts. So If a girl is willing to have sex knowing that the guy wants it(even If she wants it too) then the female might perceive herself as a slut. - 7 months ago
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Oh yeah, your friend is smart. lol, it's true though - 7 months ago
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