There's this guy that I talk to online. I barely know him, I just had one class with him and I occasionally see him around on campus. He's a really nice guy to talk with but he seems to open up details about his life quite readily. He would tell me about himself when he was a little kid, and the things he was scared about as a kid. He would tell me stories of his ex girlfriends. He even sent me a picture of him and his ex. He gave me his address when I was joking around with him (I said I was going to find out where he lived so I can take his car out for a joyride when he least expect it) and offered to show me around his house if I wanted to go. He would also tell me about things he was looking for in a girlfriend and would tell me about his crushes.
Sometimes I think he does this because we don't know each other well and is easier to tell me things since we don't share mutual friends (we don't have to worry about starting rumors), but then when I see him on campus he doesn't seem like the type to start talking to acquaintances and tell them his life story. Most guys I know aren't that open unless they're my boyfriend. So why does he tell me so much? Is he an open book? Or does he confide in me as a friend? Or is there something else going on?
He want to get to know you better but have nothing to say, like you mention you barely know him same goes to him he barely know you. Since he doesn't know anything about you all he can do is 1) ask you a lot of question and probably annoy you or 2) tell you about himself and hope your interested and will keep the conversation going. It's really hard to say if he took you as a friend or more, depends on the guy himself different guy have different "open mind limit", he could be just really open mind and can talk about anything when he trying to make new friends.
He is lying to you about everything. Is inexperienced when it comes to women. And is a VERY shy person when not communicating through email. He likes you but he doesn't want to tell you directly.
If it's one thing I've learned about talking to guys online, it is this:
IM, email, texting and other forms of impersonal communication give them more courage/confidence, etc.
It seems as though he may like you and he's shy in person.
I've said this many times when someone asks "how do I know if he likes me? " step into his personal space and see if he backs away. If not, then he probably likes you.
We're very protective of our personal space and if someone (that we're not interested in romantically) gets too close, we're offended.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 7 months ago
asked Yesterday
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