I don't want ANYONE to get offended by this question!

I'll start by answering your question with a question. Why does it matter? I have friends of all shapes and sizes and big or small they're all beautiful. And I'm not saying that just because they're my friends either. It's just a matter of perception and what people like. Different strokes for different folks ya know? A size ten is the new three honey. And I'm a size three but whatever lol maybe what your friends see is confidence. Maybe what they see instead of a "bigger" girl is a girl that isn't afraid of who she is. Someone that is strong, beautiful, and confident enough to not let a size define who she is as a person. That's called being real and men like real. It's not about size. There are plus size models that make Victoria Secret models look sick.

I'm thinking they have a good personality because you can have a skinny girl that is so beautiful but what does that matter if she's a big bi#%@ he can't talk to her or nothing...

First of all, what is your version of fat? You may think a size 10 is a big girl when in actuality she is of average size. It doesn't matter really - just wanted to clarify how we all have a different perceptions of body image.

I have been many sizes. I have found both men and women find me attractive. I recall when I lost weight, that my skinny friends were threatened and no longer wanted to hang out with me. Sounds katty and like the chicks had no self esteem, but oh well.

I was talking to my sweetie about this the other night. He said that a fat chick hit on him and then the skinny chick who called her friend came up and hit on him, kinda like slapping her fat chick back in line, like "he is out of your league."

Its all comedy to me. If its not the plus size diva that gets the guy then it will be the red head and not the blond and then we will have a discussion on how red heads get all the guys. Follow me?

My point is this - a good looking person will always have someone notice them. The world is changing. It is not about size, it is about attraction. If anything girlfriend, you should be worried about who is wanting to be with you and not who is with the phat chick. You'll never find happiness this way.

1) Maybe they like big women.
2) Maybe they love her.
3) Maybe she started out small/average but got larger in the relationship.
4) Maybe she had a baby.
5) Maybe she has low-self esteem and puts up with whatever.

Ask that man.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, maybe you look at them and you only see a couple of big girls but maybe they look at them and they see beautiful. Besides, they might have a lot more substance than any other girl they might have been with in the past, they might be that good a person and that good a girlfriend.

I think you are being extremely judgmental and only focusing on their physical appearance. One of my best mates is probably a little overweight but she has a gorgeous face and she is the nicest person I've ever met. On top of that she is such a hard worker and a very successful beautiful woman.

All girls are beautiful in a different way, physically and mentally. Personality for most guys really does count more then physical all though both play apart. It depends on a guys taste in the person and the look.