So I really like this guy and he always used to do things that made me believe he liked me. And now this semester we have no classes together we make eye contact when we pass in the halls. But here is something he did today and I am really confused if he likes me or not.
Well we went to the talent show and of course he was the first person I looked or after sitting down. I finally found him across the gym on the top row of some bleachers, and he was sitting beside another girl. Through out the whole show I had my eyes on him and she would say something to him and he would turn his headto look at her. Then it seemed like they would move closer together, then farther apart. But I also saw him slide farther away too. And worst of all, he laughed every once in a while when she said something. I can never make him laugh, mainly because I freeze up whenever I talk to him. . But then there is always a good part to a bad story. He kept turning his head in my direction. And he wasn't watching the talent show because it was the other direction. Now, I was sitting on the other side o the gym, so he might just have been looking around, but in the same direction each time? But it is possible he saw me because I saw him, and there was a big empty space around me so it would have been easier to spot me than if I was in a large crowd. He actually turned his head in my direction and kept it there for a long time, and I kept looking at him too, just in case. Then I saw him kind of lower his head a little to talk to the person below him. So maybe he wasn't even looking at me at all, but I like to think he was. And he was also talking to his guy friends a lot. More than the girl. So if he liked her OR they were going out wouldn't he have talked to her more? It just makes me upset to remember how he kept turning his head to listen/talk to her. But she started talking to him first a lot. Now don't get me wrong, he talked to her first too, but she did it more. And I guess you are just naturally going to talk to someone who you know that is sitting beside you.
sorry if that was boring/long/confusing. I am just needing advice on what you think about this whole situation? Am I worried about nothing? Or does it sound like he likes this girl? Help!
Basically a girl has to make the first move for a guy in that age under 18? Since girl mature faster then guys tend the girl pretty much makes the moves. Since you pry didn't show that much interest in him he got tired of waiting ( happens a lot) and moved on. He make like her and he may like you at the same time. If you say something to him hows it going or whatever then you may get a better read on him.
Could be just a friend. I wouldn't worry about it. But seriously, you are going to have to make your move. Go see a movie or something and when you do hold his hand. Give him some hints or something to let him know you are interested. It will be easier for him and who knows. Maybe he'll make a move after that you and won't have to. I don't know. But try and tickle him, flirt with him, give him something to go off of.
The thing is I am REALLY shy and gogin somewhere is out of the uestion until we like go out, are there other ways I can try to give him a hint? - 6 months ago
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The thing is I am REALLY shy and going somewhere is out of the question until we like go out, are there other ways I can try to give him a hint? - 6 months ago
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See the thing about that is guys are really bad at taking hints anyway so if you are too subtle it will go right over his head. You are going to have to muster up something within in you to make urself known. Ask him if he's ticklish and try to tickle him. If he wears hats take his hat and wear it. Ummm do you wear lip stick or a colored lip gloss? If you do then apply some and kiss him on the cheek and laugh at the fact that you just got it all over him. Tell him he smells good when he wears cologne - 6 months ago