Letting him touch me?

im curious I love to play with my wife ecspecially the kitty. what's the best way to play with her ass that won't freak her out at first she is shy and reserved but if I find something she likes she lets me play( finger stimulation?) I think you know your answer if you like it then I would enjoy it pull him aside privately and have him play with your ass and whatever else you like remember give him the things he likes too. please answer question you seem to know what you like curious how to share with wife. thanks

Say what? If you like what he is doing, what's the problem? It's called foreplay and romance. The fact that he hasn't tried to take off your clothes is a good sign. But if you think this is too much freedom, then you should have stopped him in the very beginning. To make him stop now after allowing all this til now is going to cause problems. Sure, a woman has every right to say no, but do it from the start.

Oh boy, I feel this might lead to a big mess.

The first 3 answers you got were great and that's how I feel too/ It's your body, your boundaries, the go aheads or the limitations you set and they don't have to be spoken. Just letting is like saying it's ok. I'd say he's trying to get more intimate with you and if you keep letting him do what you are now, he'll only keep getting bolder and going further.

How long have you guys been together? And how comfortable do you feel with him? If your comfortable and since you like it, it could be okay as long as he doesn't make you uncomfortable. Its your limits your boundaries.

If you don't like it, tell him. If you do, then what's the problem? :)

Tell him to do it in private, where no one can see?

If you like it and you're comfortable with it, then there's nothing wrong with it. If you aren't ready for things to move past that though, talk to him and tell him where you set your boundaries.

I say if you like it go with it, if you don't, do it back and see how he likes it