Almost 4 years ago I was in love with one of my close friends , we talked everyday, hung out once in awhile, and eventually slept together three times. I didn't think he seen anything ''special'' in me , in fact I thought he was messing with other girls so I chose to silently walk away. I was 18 , ( I'm 23 now) and young in my thinking , naive in many of my ways ( I am not ashamed to admit that ) It was a hard decision to make , but I didn't want to be the girl that ALWAYs wanted the guy . . . I wanted to be the girl that the guy wanted . 2 month's ago ( my doing ) we got back in contact he kept asking why I came back around, what my motives were , why I left in the first place, and he kept telling me that nothing could ever be the same. I assured him that I didn't have any hidden agenda's I simply adored him as a person I just missed our friendship. There were many hot and cold days between us. This past Thursday, he agreed to have lunch with me ( wasn't that easy) we spent 2 hours just laughing and catching up he kept telling me how funny I was and that we should hang out again . Then he made a statement that almost had me and tears ( not easy to do) he told me that it was girls like me that turned him into an a - hole . He then asked me if I had ever been happy with my past boyfriends . . I didn't know where that was coming from so I chose not to answer. He also said sorry about not telling me he liked me when we were younger ,because he was young. And then he told me that in spite of what I thought when he started sleeping with me , he stopped sleeping with other girls. However he mentioned again (as always) that nothing could ever be the same. We both agreed to hang out again this week before he goes on vacation, but I don't know.
??? What's his deal ?? He's always saying he doesn't care about the past , but he's always bringing it up why?? Am I making his past worst ??
Well if you want him back then try to talk to him. I had similar experience and it all worked out. You just have to give him some time and he should come around if he doesn't then that's his loss. Maybe you should stop dwelling on the past and look ahead to the future. If you look ahead to the future better things could happen to you but if you are always talking and thinking about the past then you will just be stuck in the same sad and hurt mood.
I hope everything works out the way you want and the way I hope it ends. sincerely, mommy2B, (snazzy)
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