What makes me seem unavailable?

If your anything like me, sometimes I can be very unsociable, just because there are too many people in one place that I don't know.

Not the case with you?

Okay, I also will not hold a conversation with anyone who cannot carry a conversation. I also just don't do small talk.It's annoying, it's arbitrary.

I'm pretty sure that this is what I do that makes me seem unavailable.

I have a normal personality as well as these traits, as I'm sure you have a regular personality to fit your description of your situation, I guess I'm just trying to see if you do the same things that I do to people.

I hope I helped in some round about way.

Unavailability should attract men and so should flirting maybe your just doing it in the wrong way. some times confidences can scare them away, if you have to much or. the other way around .