So I have been dating this guy for a little over a year now, but it’s weird. We have only been out on one actual date and that was when the movie "Live Free or Die Hard" came out. So we went to see that together, so we get to the theater and he doesn’t even really walk with me or act like he is with me. That had me pretty upset because he made me feel like he was ashamed to be seen with me or something. So same thing happened after the movie was over, he walked a little a head of me and got in the car and was about to start it before I even got in. Well a few weeks later I just asked him, I was like are you ashamed to be seen with me because we went out and you didn’t even act like we were together, his response its in his nature and he can't help that he acts that way. Well since then we hang out at his house and watch movies and stuff, well that’s ok with me as long as we are together but one day I went over and we were hungry so we ordered some food from a local place so I asked if he wanted me to stay there or go with him, he said you can stay here its only around the corner, so there my mind goes I get suspicious and start thinking stuff. So a few days after that I asked him again, are you ashamed of me and why don’t we ever go out and do anything together, his response "I have been kind of broke lately and it’s not like I plan on not taking you out". Well things have not really changed so I am just wondering what his deal really is, is it me or is it him?
Update: Well we haven't been 2gether for the past few weeks just 2 see if he would change his ways but he hasn't. So I needed advice that I already knew. He even went to the beach over the weekend and didn't even ask me or tell me where he was.So yeah we are done
6 months ago
you seem fine its definitely him. My thoughts dump his ass and move on. He's not broke he just spends his money elsewhere and not on you. A year is too long to do nothing, I'm surprised you been there that long, most people would not put up with that kind of behavior that long.
Yeah I know for a fact he isn't broke, I mean seriously he would have not been able to drive 4 or 5 hours to the beach last weekend and then the week before that go to the movies supposedly with his friends. I have never known of a bunch of guys going to the movies together, they went to see Iron Man. I even asked why I couldn't go and he said it was just for the guys. - 6 months ago
o.m.g? Are you for real? A year? I wouldn't even be able to handle 2 weeks being treated like that I so would have made him suffer. Its him you don't deserve to be treated like shit. Confront him again be straight up if he don't convince you offer an ultimatum.
What kind of boyfriend is THAT? A year and a half and y'all haven't even been on one date? He doesn't sound very affectionate either, to say the least. Has he always acted like that during your relationship? I think you can do better. It sounds like the problem lies with him, because if you did something he should at least tell you. But that's no excuse on his part to treat you like that. How do you guys even bond? I would advise you not to settle for that kind of treatment.
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