Ok, there's this guy I like and he might like me too because we held hands this one time about a month ago. The thing is I only got to briefly talk to him in person one time after that and I won't be seeing him until fall semester, but I have him on facebook. I've initiated conversation two times and I'm in a conversations now but it's been dragging out a few days because I haven't caught him online so I could wrap up the conversation. The thing is I'm the one who is asking all the questions, but I do tell him things about myself too so maybe I just give him the answers before he has a chance to ask them? It's not like he's blowing me off or anything because this one time when he had to sign out while we were talking I didn't message him back immediately and later that night he sent me another message saying."you didn't write me a message to come back to.etc.". I'm going to wrap up the conversation as soon as I can but does it mean anything if he doesn't ask me questions?
Nothing really. For me personally when I'm speaking to girls over chat (makes it hard because you can't really see the girls impression or make small talk that easily). But a good conversation comes from 2 sides. 1 Person says something the other person comments on that.
BUT (Yes again the exceptions)
If this doesn't happen it simply means the other person isn't as good in socializing over the internet. Or in person. He simply doesn't know what to ask or is afraid to ask the wrong question.
Tips: Also if you want to keep the conversation going bring up the most stupid subject. I once spoke with a girl 1 hour while discussing PEANUTS :) In history it proved for me the stupidest subjects are usually the one's where you can have a good time discussing simply because a person knows allot about stupid subjects like a peanut it could mean the food or the nickname or anything. And if a person knows a lot about something it makes it easy to communicate which will cause the communication to come from 2 sides.
ALSO Watch out. Because don't just bring up a "stupid" topic in the middle of a serious conversation you have to make a lead (excuse) to start about for example peanuts.
Not really, maybe he is shy? Since he can't see you and talk to you face to face that could be another reason why he either don't talk that much. I wouldn't think to much into it
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Ideal first date... Venice Boardwalk. The people there are crazy cool. Then hit the beach; not corny "walk on the beach at sunset" first date, but just to chill and talk. Or just take me somewhere I've never been. I'd wear jeans, flip-flops, and a cute top (always depends on how I feel that day). The date ends with a walk to my front door and a kiss goodnight (now that's corny and classic :D).
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Well, since it's a date where we've hopefully talked a lot (don't you hate those first dates where you go home and think, I still don't know anything about that person?), he'll know that I'm open-minded, cultural, fun, love learning new things on any topic, creative, and a free-spirit.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
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