Playing hard to get?

DON'T F*CKIN DO IT! so misleading. flirt, sure. but don't make him think you don't want him.

I don't want women to play hard to get, but I also don't want them to give it all away for fee. People just shouldn't think they have to try harder or be more distant in a relationship to achieve a certain end. Holding guys to higher standards is also very frustrating because they often have no idea what's going on in the woman's brain if she's playing hard to get, so it's just unnecessary grief for the guy.

Though this is only for me, I'm sure some guys enjoy chasing after a woman. I just think both people should be honest.

Playing hard to get is in a way a good thing cause some guys think girls are easy if they fall in love quickly. Don't know what is wrong with them? But what you shouldn't do is shut him out totally. Let him guess but not lose hope. Getting hurt by someone emotionally IS the worst feeling ever. It happened to me 7 times before so they really messed me up. But everybody has their soul mate, we just sometimes don't open our eyes.

Personally, I hate it when a girl tries to play mind games. It may work to some extent at first but after a while the guy may just get annoyed, bored, or end up really believing that you're just being flirtatious and not really interested in him. Though I have to say some guys are all in it for the "pursuit" so playing hard to get just makes it more of a fun challenge for them. So in the end it really depends on the guy.

It isn't about playing hard to get as it is about setting boundaries. People don't set boundaries in the beginning of the relationship because it is new but what happens is you decide after your in the thick of the relationship what you do, don't, want and need and a lot of the time it's to late.

Always keep yourself an equal to your partner, never think that the things you like or the interest you have are second to your partners life. Never be a conformist.