This guy I know is a COMPLETE and total looker girls go CRAZY over him, I however have never been that fazed. Girl's are always talking about wanting the total package well he has looks, charm, personality , and well other ''interesting'' qualities about him ( I know all these things to be facts ) and from time to time he doesn't hesitate to tell me. I use to think the world of this guy, ( and still adore him to pieces) but we were never able to be together I'll save my sob story for OPRAH , maybe she'll want to hear it. I enjoy being in his life ,( once again ) but of course time has changed a lot and so have we. He's great to be around and I laugh myself into stitches being around him , but he CONTINUES ( each and every time ) to bring up the past . He's always reminding me how things between us can never be the same, and every time something comes up he feels the need to mention my previous absence for example . . . He now has 8 tattoo's , when I was around he only had 2 . He felt the need a few weeks back to bring that to my attention. He 's always saying how we'll never know what could have been ( between us ) it drives me crazy what's the point of telling me ? Why not just show me actions do speak louder then words . He didn't think we should be around eachother, but we have hung out. He thought me should have limited talk time, ( a text once in awhile) but no matter how many times I text him he responds ( for the most part) He said it was to be polite. So y text me from time to time ? I don't get him if he's over the past why does he keep bringing it back to light. I NEVER forgot why we never got a chance , but what's his deal ?
Sounds like he still has strong feelings towards you and is having a hard time coping with them. Sometimes a guy just can't accept that it's over and will hang around for an eternity to try to get another shot. I understand that you want to continue to be friends with this guy but he might just not be able to accept being just friends, at least not in the immediate future.
Regardless he is not over you, or what little you had, and when saying that kind of stuff what he's really doing is fishing for an answer like, "yeah maybe we should get back together and see what this goes."
Yea , but what we had was almost 4 years ago and we were never actually together . I adored everything about him and within these recent weeks found out he use to ''kinda'' like me. Sometimes it seems like he's more so trying to convince himself that I'm his past as oppose to trying to convince me. He's hot and cold ( alot) and what''s worst he knows I still care about him . . he told me. I'm a realistic person he is a guy I doubt he may feel the same. However you make sense. Thanks - 6 months ago
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Well it sounds to me like you're not interested in a relationship. You're complicating the situation too much. Do you like the guy? If you do it sounds like he definitely likes you back. If you don't, I imagine it's very annoying to always hear him referring to you as his past and you should confront him about it if it really makes you uncomfortable.
If I were in that position, and a girl kept reminding me of what we had...well let's just say it'd probably end up with me being an asshole. - 6 months ago
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I love him , but well it is complicated. However I think I will follow your advice it makes a hell of alotta sense. - 6 months ago
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Relationships are seldom simple. I just know how we guys are...we don't take hints very well a lot of the time, haha. - 6 months ago
hi welcome to the confused club similar thing happened me and it annoyed me with the hole you never know what will happen with us ! yeah nothing because all you do is say you never know and that is true we never will if the cared that much they would want us now and not in the future! and I got the hole lets only text now and again too but yet he texts me more than I do him!
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