What's more attractive? A man with status and wacky priorities or great priorities and no social status?

Im still young so I would rather be with someone that id have fun with and have money issues then be with someone who I barely saw.

I think it's because the guys with no social status are probably boring.

i definitely need security AND stability so I'd much rather go with a man who has no social status and knows their priorities. I don't think I could live and raise a family knowing full well that my partner would rather be one of the children who will shy away from responsibility and put his family first before himself. it's nice for a guy to be social but at the end of the day, you gotta wonder, does he have a happy home life? to be honest, I think it's lonely for men like that to go home as they're so caught up with what's going on in the outside world. they get their comfort from being selfish. well to me, splurging on floor seats on games and partying until there's no end is a way for a man to big himself up. and the fact that they get more women is even a bigger ego booster. it's all about feeding one's ego. ---> totally SELFISH! the reason why women flock to men like these is because they appear to have it all. good looks, nice care, money to spend, and socially appealing, all these factors give women the impression that these type of men are successful.steer clear of women like these as they are gold diggers who are trying to land a gold mine but will surely be disappointed when they end up with a kid and find out that the guy who knocked them up doesn't want a family but wants to remain a self absorbed bachelor.

i don't think you should be jealous of your friends for attracting women. I know it's difficult because it's like they're rubbing it in your face as I can only assume that they probably like to talk about how many women they've slept with or how many women were trying to get their attention, etc. meanwhile, you're sitting there just wondering how on earth a guy like yourself who's got everything under control can't get a decent date. as I said before, you shouldn't let that get to you as the fact that they can't keep a woman for a night obviously shows that they can't keep any long lasting relationship. as they get older, they'll realize that when they get home, there's no one waiting for them except a bottle of gin and a tv.

don't get discourage. I think that you just need to look for quality women in other places. maybe avoid the whole bar, club or party scene. try going to a bookstore, a cafe or the gym to pick up women. maybe join an organization of your interest to open up new doors for you. I mean you just want to market yourself. if you want to land a date, you can't keep yourself indoors and it's certainly not going to happen on it's own. the more you market yourself, the more exposure you get. who knows, maybe the girl of your dreams was just waiting for you to give her a chance to make a move.

Ok so I may be in the minority on this but I want someone who is secure! my current partner is nothing of a partner, he has a son from his ex who skipped and I on the other hand work in finance at a car dealership trying to climb the ladder to the top in my company. I want all of the things in life that I had growing up. my parents by far are in the minority they are still married after 28 years. I don't know what is wrong with women now a days but I vote for security

That's a good question. When I first enter a relationship, I am usually not thinking about the future. I am thinking about what this guy can do to make me happy right now. Now, I am still pretty young (22) so I am not necessarily looking to settle down. But even if I was, a fun guy for me is a must. Goals and security are important, but those are not the type of things that will first attract me to a guy. So in the long run it's definitely attractive to have money and goals and stuff, but first impression is usually more of a personality thing.

Let me ask you a question are these women who are fall for the jock (educated) in other words are they the (cheerleader) if so that's the reason, both want to just have fun, But on the other hand, for example in my case I would much rather be with some who has long time goal then just short time goals. The guys who are the (ladies man, are usually the ones with no self awareness, of what they want in life let alone in a woman, which I turn would make me question their own personal views on life, they usually just want the (hear and now) approach rather than the throughout process. But all in all it's really up the woman in what they want, I afraid to say this, but yeah it's seem most woman have lost sight of the "gentleman" and traded him for the "fun" now kinda guy.