me and my brother are three years apart but his friends go out of there way when my brothers not around to pick on me. sometimes when he's around the are mean or don't say much to me. also my older guy because goes out his way to pick on me like on time while I was trying to go to sleep in the middle of the night he came and put and put a blanket over me and led me into the bathroom, no lights and then I got away and turned on a light waking his little sister, he went away after that, I just don't understand please answer this Question
talk to ur parents dude. talk to them, and get a restraining order or some shit on this dude because what's happening is wrong man. he can't do that to you, I read all the comments, this is the shit where you can't be afraid of judgment or whether people will believe you, you need to throw it out there. peace.
I have two older brothers and their friends have never treated me like that. If they did, my brothers would be pissed off, and they would do something about it.
I think you should tell your mom everything that this guy's been doing. I don't know how much your brother knows, but should tell him too. He wouldn't like the way his friend is treating you. The things he's doing to you are wrong and you need to avoid him as much as possible.
I'm glad you got away. Who knows if he was going to do something to you like maybe feel you up or something. Guys picking on you all the time? One of them probably has a crush on you and it's their way of getting your attention. I would just stay away from them and ignore them. try not to be alone with them especially if you're brother's not around or if they're drunk or start doing stupid things like start teasing you with sexual jokes or maybe slightly shove you or brush up on your back or feel you up in any sort of way. it's happened to my sis before but these were school mates. thankfully I beat the shit out of those punks and got a restraining order. I just hope that your situation won't escalate to that degree. if you're not feeling comfortable around them then talk to your brother. if he doesn't support you then talk to your parents about it. maybe they can talk to your brother about it.
Like one of my brothers friends has like grabbed hold of me and some has said really sexual things, my step brother of 3 years has also said weird things like he was going to rape me and other things but he acts like he is just playing but around my brother he want talk to me we pushes me into walls sometimes.and is it weird for your older because of like 5 years or something always be messing with you or holding you down, he is like 19. and yeah guys are always messing wit me well picking - 5 months ago
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In that case you need to talk to someone about what's been happening, preferably an adult. what you're experiencing is sexual harassment and some physical and verbal abuse. you're brother has no right to shove you into the walls while he talks to you. also he should NOT be pressing you down. it seems like he has some anger issues and is using you as a target. this is not healthy. get help while you can before you get harmed in anyway. make sure to lock your door and windows at night. - 5 months ago
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No, he may push me sometimes but it his friends and my step brother who are all ways holding me so I can't get lose just to be mean. and the thing about the 19 year old, I meant to say my Cuz, my brother don't know that his friends say things like that to me and he has let some of them wrap their armys around my whole body and squeeze, but my bros closes friends of 6 years he is the one that mess around playing and hit me, he has also used my ruler and measured something below his waist, he told me - 5 months ago
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Ok you really need to let your brother know what his friends are doing to you. how can he protect you when he doesn't know what's going on? it doesn't matter if your bro's closest friends has been his friend for 6 yrs. hitting you is physical abuse and all the other stuff is sexual harassment. it's the people that are close to you who can do more harm to you. the fact that he's close to your bro, it gives him more of an excuse to see you and torment you. you HAVE to talk to your bro. - 5 months ago
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I can't he won't believe me, and my mom makes me stay on one half of the house away from my brothers friends when they come over, . my brothers closes friends don't completely hurt me he will sometimes choke me and call me bad thing playing, the sexual things thou I don't believe he would do that because of my brother or will he, and what do you mean he can cause more harm because he is closer, I thought that meant he wouldn't do much it all started when he first came over he spit water in my mouth 6yr - 5 months ago
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What do you mean the closer the more harm he can do, I trust him more - 5 months ago
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Most sexual harassment cases/rape cases almost always the victim knows the attacker. that's what I meant. you don't know if your bro's friend will do anything to you or not. looks and words can be deceiving. he could be a wolf in sheep's clothing waiting for the right moment to attack. I'm just saying that you ought to be more careful around him. and your mom is looking out for you by having you stay in one part of the house away from your bro's friends. why don't you talk to your mom about it. - 5 months ago
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She knows how they are and she also knows that ryan has been messing with me ever since he meet me. from playing pranks on me while I was sleeping to wanting me to dance for him. one thing thou I never told my mom was when I bend over I have to grad my shirt because I have seen him looking at my breast. and one time i was laying in my shirt and panties and when I turned around to look at my door I saw him there looking at me, I quicky pulled the covers over me and he went and gave my mom a hug - 5 months ago
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You should tell your mom about that incident. Ryan seems to have a thing for you but not in a good way. when he does stuff like watching to see if he can look down your shirt or sneak in your room and watch you in your undies...what would you do if he went on top of you? what then? you should really tell your mom everything. at least that way she'll pay more attention when he's over at your house and she won't leave you alone when he's around. just try to avoid being around him much. - 5 months ago
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But see even thou he does all these things I still find my way into my brothers room when he is over. he has also offered me drugs and my brother has got very mad when he does that, the boy also teaches me about how they work and to grow them, I don't know y he tells me this. he has also came a whispered into my ear when I had my back turned and every time it gives me goose bumps and funny feelings, I have told him before but I think it makes him do it more everyone says I don't need worry cause bro - 5 months ago
I honestly don't think he's a good influence to you. like I said before, try to avoid him at all costs. you need to sit down with your bro & mom and tell them how you feel uncomfortable when Ryan's around. what was acceptable behaviour before from when you were younger isn't anymore. it's not like he's playing a prank on you right now. he's actually saying and doing things that make you feel uncomfortable. I mean do you want to live your life knowing that he's going to be creeping you out? - 5 months ago
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