well.this guy friend I have seems to be ignoring me for the past.year I suppose.and every time we DO have the chance to talk on msn.I confront him and stuff and I ask " why you ignore me? do you not not want to be friends? are you mad at me? do you hate me?" and he answers stuff like " NO.no I love you ur like a sister to me.i've just been busy and sick and." blah blah.well I kinda do believe him but like.i always find out by facebook and by other people that he spends time with other people and he talks on the phone with other people as well.but not with me =(. and he never picks up his phone when I call and I dun try calling him everyday so I can't be annoying him.and I live super close to him compare to his other friends but he says he's too "busy" to be with me.and he says that he luvs me as a sis but.how can I believe him.how can I make sure he telling the truth.?
maybe he doesn't speak to you much since your always confronting him? these other people he spends time with - are they all lads, do they like the same stuff and go to the same places?
Maybe he just wants to chill with his mates.
if you keep confronting him he will ignore you because your just friends and by wearing him down by repeatedly asking him will annoy him and push him away.
Well I don't confront him every time...but I confronted him when I was supposed to you know? I only confronted him 3 times but not all at once....and me and him like the same things and go thru the same stuff but I don't know why he acts this way tho....he always calls other people but he doesn't even think about me....and as a friend or even brother..shouldn't he at least be honest with me? - 5 months ago