The guy I like has gone out with 3 girls. And last year on the bus he asked me out, but I thought he was kidding because we were all kind of teasing around. And he was like no I am serious, will you go out with me. And I thought he was kidding so I was like ha no I am good. (I didn't want to say yes and then he be kidding). But everyone who was on the bus told me they thought he was serious. This year he showed a lot of signs that said he might like me. But he might not be asking him out because I rejected him last year, or maybe he just doesn't like me anymore. I am wondering though, if you got turned down by a girl you liked, you would want her more? Because I mean it seems like he still likes me but I don't know.
I think that just a dude gets turned down by a girl doesn't necessarily mean he immediately gets over them. It might, however, crush his spirits and radically reduce his chance of asking you out again. I mean, as humans we "usually" learn from our past experiences (sometimes known as mistakes), and I'm pretty sure he now thinks " she rejected me once, so she'll probably reject me again". So he won't try again. There's a good chance he still likes you, but I'm not sure if he will act on it. I think its your turn to wear your heart out on your sleeve and ask him out ( if that's what you want).
I am really old fashioned so I never ask a guy out, but I can try to show I like him as much as possible. It is the summer now, so maybe next year if we have classes together I can try. thanks. - 2 months ago
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